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40 Santa Clara, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 34–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 1
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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I'm a Bay Area transplant from the Midwest who works at a local tech company. I'm looking for someone who can keep me laughing and enjoy life as much as I do. I'm looking for joy.

I love watching baseball and football, and as a Notre Dame and Detroit Lions fan, I'm used to disappointment. ;)

I train for and participate in triathlons in my spare time. I've also completed a couple of half-marathons, but prefer triathlons.

I like good grammar and good wine, and find that neither one makes me an asshole or a snob.

I'm a sucker for lighthouses, bodies of water, and the moon. I can't stand most of the questions this site asks.

Please make me laugh, and get me off of this dating site!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a job I love, spending time with friends, occasionally updating this profile but always feeling awkward when I do it.
I’m really good at
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Making people feel at ease.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, my tendency to laugh easily, and my ease in meeting new people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I spent my high school and college years reading a lot of Steinbeck and Hemingway. I'm still a huge Hemingway fan. But I also enjoy a wide variety of authors from Stephen King, Bill Bryson, and J.K. Rowling. I'm always reading at least one book. I reread the Harry Potter series every summer.

I love movies! I watch a lot of Netflix, and would like to get to the theatre more than I do. Some of my favorites: About Time, Love Actually, Walk The Line, Casino Royale, Star Wars (not the prequels!), more.

TV shows: The West Wing, Newsroom, (Ok, any Sorkin) 30 Rock, Orange Is The New Black, How I Met Your Mother, Parks and Rec, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men, Weeds, Jericho, The Wire, The Killing, Walking Dead, House of Cards, Scandal.

I love cooking! I'm a great cook, I just don't do it enough anymore since it's just me. I also love eating out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine, wine, travel, books, friends, football. If I get a seventh, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Warm weather, where to camp this summer, and Jimmy Fallon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, drinking wine, having a great meal, possibly home from a work road trip.

In the summer, I'm looking forward to trips to the coast, camping, or anything that gets me outside. In the fall, maybe at my friends' son's high school football game. I don't tend to meet a lot of single men there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm online dating. ;)
You should message me if
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You liked my profile, or would like to get to know me. Please say more than, "Hey girl" or "Damn!" Those lines are proven not to work.

Seriously, if we are a good match, I'd love to hear from you.