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ND12Fan

39 F Santa Clara, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 32–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:51am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Bay Area transplant from the Midwest who works at a local tech company. I'm looking for someone who can keep me laughing and enjoy life as much as I do. I'm looking for joy.

I love watching baseball and football, and as a Notre Dame and Detroit Lions fan, I'm used to disappointment. ;)

I train for and participate in triathlons in my spare time. I've also completed a half-marathon, but prefer triathlons.

I like good grammar and good wine, and find that neither one makes me an asshole or a snob.

I'm a sucker for lighthouses, bodies of water, and the moon. I can't stand most of the questions this site asks.

Please make me laugh, and get me off of this dating site!
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a job I love, spending time with friends, occasionally updating this profile but always feeling awkward when I do it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I will never ask you "What are you thinking?" I hate that question.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, my tendency to laugh easily, and my ease in meeting new people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I spent my high school and college years reading a lot of Steinbeck and Hemingway. I'm still a huge Hemingway fan. But I also enjoy a wide variety of authors from Stephen King, Bill Bryson, and J.K. Rowling. I'm always reading at least one book. I reread the Harry Potter series every summer.

I love movies! I watch a lot of Netflix, and would like to get to the theatre more than I do. Some of my favorites: Love Actually, Walk The Line, Casino Royale, Star Wars (not the prequels!), Lord of the Rings, more.

TV shows: The West Wing, Newsroom, (Ok, any Sorkin) 30 Rock, Orange Is The New Black, How I Met Your Mother, Parks and Rec, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men, Weeds, Jericho, The Wire, The Killing, Walking Dead, House of Cards.

I love cooking! I'm a great cook, I just don't do it enough anymore since it's just me. I also love eating out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sunshine, wine, travel, books, friends, football. If I get a seventh, coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Customer service. (It's an occupational hazard.) What will make me enjoy riding my bike more? Why can't I get Bell's Oberon in California?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with friends, drinking wine, having a great meal, possibly home from a work road trip.

In the summer, I'm looking forward to trips to the coast, camping, or anything that gets me outside. In the fall, maybe at my friends' son's high school football game. I don't tend to meet a lot of single men there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It's not terribly private, but I like to let people know that I'm divorced. But it wasn't a horrible break-up, I know what I want now, and I'm ready to meet someone who will make me happy. (OK Cupid doesn't have an obvious place to disclose this.)
You should message me if
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You liked my profile, or would like to get to know me. Please say more than, "Hey girl" or "Damn!" Those lines are proven not to work.

Seriously, if we are a good match, I'd love to hear from you.