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NEW22

33 / M / straight / Single

Carson City, Michigan

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 1" (1.85m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am musical, idealistic, and lazy.

My Self-Summary

I like serious, deep conversations about all kinds of serious issues and subjects. I like deep conversations about silly and ridiculous things too. I am a bit of a novelty junkie. I'm a skeptic, but I love crazy ideas, interesting scenes and subcultures and all of that. I like being smart with smart people... that is just a good time. I believe that a large part of being "smart" is an attitude. Have you ever known someone who seemed to be bright and have their things together, and then some years down the road some other aspect of their personality seemed to wipe that out?

The old work and hobby bit: I fix computers at a hospital for work, I play music with friends (was in band in HS, guitar for 18 years, plink around on or hit anything else I can find), read, play RPGs, listen to music, video games, etc. for fun. I'm not a wild and crazy party guy with a bad-ass attitude. That said, I am also very socially liberal. The OKCupid questions should show us if we have that kind of stuff in common though.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, just enjoying the company of friends. Practicing some music, hoping to play out more in the near future. I've recently played a couple shows, and have a couple more lined up for this month. It is putting me in some more social situations than normal, so that's a good deal.

In the long term, I'm trying to arrange my life for both maximum free time and financial security. Less things I have to do and more things I want to do. It can be seen as crass and/or dull to talk finances in a dating profile, but seriously, owning a paid for house and being free of needing to do any sort of day to day grind is a nirvana/goal of mine, and I don't think it is at all impossible.

I’m really good at

Hmm... Calming people down, fixing up computers (a big part of my job...), science-y trivia, guitar/music, Street Fighter 3: 3rd Strike.

The first things people usually notice about me

I get the feeling people notice my hair 1st. It is not strangely styled or anything, but it is longer. After that they probably notice that I don't engage in a lot of small talk. (is this my macho way of saying I'm shy???)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Favorite Books: Mostly Non-Fiction stuff about science, philosophy, politics/econ, subcultures, etc. When I read fiction it tends to be Sci-Fi, with some fantasy, then very occasional older literature stuff. Oh, and I read too many RPGs. Anyway, here are some books: The Art of Happiness (a psychologist interviewing the Dalai Lama), True Mutations (subculture-y book by R.U. Sirius of MONDO 2000 fame), The Singularity is Near (Ray Kurzweil, a futurist, Trans-Humanist book/vision), The Lathe of Heaven and The Dispossessed (Ursula K. Le Guin) The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (Robert A. Heinlein, sci-fi), Earth (David Brin, sci-fi). Other books are more reference/overview titles that feel silly to list but that I really like (a giant encyclopedia of mammals, or myths, etc).

Favorite Movies: Big Trouble in Little China, The Princess Bride, Heavenly Creatures, Amelie, The City of Lost Children, Pi, Jacob's Ladder, Master of the Flying Guillotine!, Pale Rider, High Plains Drifter, Conan the Barbarian, The Waking Life

Favorite Shows: In shows it actually leans more towards anime. Nothing too obscure, everything Ghost in the Shell, Cowboy Bebop, Wolf's Rain, Case Closed, Lupin the 3rd and the maybe not quite anime Aeon Flux. In live action shows, Star Trek: The Next Generation, M*A*S*H*, The Daily Show...

Favorite Music: I like a wide variety of music, some favs right now include- Fugazi, The Dresden Dolls, Dr. Octagon, Deltron 3030, Portishead, Beastie Boys, Jurrasic 5, At the Drive-In, Melt Banana, that dog., Bjork, Mars Volta, Ministry, Veruca Salt, Prong, The Jimi Hendrix Experience, Squarepusher, The Melvins, Northern State (heh) yeah!

Favorite Foods: Sloppy Joes with Cheese melted on top, Spaghetti with no meat in it and lots of parmesean, scalloped potatoes, French Toast. Nothing too exotic in food to wow you with, but there it is!

The six things I could never do without

Well, I went with the cliche actually necessities before (air, water, etc.), but let's see if I can come up with something better...

Intelligent Friends,
Music,
The Internet,
National/American Public Radio,
Novelty - new interesting things,
Occasional Time Alone - to pursue personal things with no pressure

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Completing fun dream media projects. Complete financial freedom. The usual instinctual thoughts of physical human comforts.

On a typical Friday night I am

Lately it has been either hanging out with one friend jamming, talking, and listening to music, or hanging out with another friend (possibly a small group of us) talking and possibly playing some sort of Role Playing Game.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like t.A.T.u., unabashedly. Yes, I am speaking of the internationally famous fake persecuted young Russian lesbian lover dance/pop superstars. I know in my heart that they will someday be able to break free from the restrictions of their society and the disapproval of their parents to love each other innocently and in complete freedom. I know I should be ashamed, but I just can't help myself... I just can't!

You should message me if

You look at my pictures and think I'm hot? Actually, just message me if for some reason my profile moves you to do so, I guess. Hmm, also it would be nice if you were someone I could reasonably meet someday. Messages from cool people around the world can be nice, but it is hard for me to keep up the pen-pal thing.