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30 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:55pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Live simply. Work hard, play hard. Cliché enough?

I grew up in a small NH cow town. Moved to NYC for school and have never looked back. I now live in the upper east side with a pet cat. Well, for people who know cats it's more I'm his pet.

I grew up with both a dog and a cat. And a horse at one point. Yeah, did I mention cow town already? Anyway, I knew I wanted a pet once on my own. I feel that NYC apartments are too small for dogs (at least the size I'd like), so I got a cat. I would love to have a dog again one day.

I have an amazing career in construction engineering in project management. I oversee construction schedule and activities that turn an empty plot of land into a fully functioning building. So all day I get to play with life size toy trucks and a life size erector set in a life size sandbox. Every 8 year old boys dream job. Yes, that also means I'm quite handy and can fix that cold draft coming through your window.

I believe in living healthy. I ride a bike to and from work every day, as well as around the city. I also run varying distances, from 3 to 10 miles. I'm not a big fan of going to a gym, so I do my own thing at home. Ever hear of Insanity or P90X?

I also cook. My God can I cook. I LOVE to cook. So I have a tendency to eat healthy and well balanced since I make most of my meals. But that doesn't mean I won't snarf an entire plate of loaded nachos from time to time. If you're looking for a good ice breaker email, share a favorite dish. Or if you're looking to expand your cookbook, ask for one of mine!

When the day is done, it's time to play. Let's go to a bar for trivia or to watch a sports game. Even better, let's go to the sports game. It's raining? How about a museum, or a movie. An IMAX movie. Theatre not open yet? Then let's go to brunch first. Or a walk around the park. Too hung over to go out? Ok, let's kick the butt off this jigsaw puzzle. Or maybe play some games, be it board, card or video. Or maybe just turn on some cartoons. I have no shame in expressing my inner child.

I'm looking for someone with similar values as I have. Someone with that work hard, play hard mentality. Someone who also believes in fitness and well being, maybe we go for a run or bike ride together. Someone who lets the kid inside go to the playground. Also, someone who lives within the 5 boroughs of NYC. Or the wannabe sixth borough of Hoboken, it is where I went to college.

Points if you like the TV show the Big Bang Theory. Double points if Leonard is your favorite character, for reasons beyond that we share the same name.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Construction management, I oversee the construction process of mid-rise apartment buildings.

I'm the guy yelling at the guy with the jackhammer to work louder. At 6 am. On a Saturday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The claw machine. It's not rigged. I can prove it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like horror movies and psychological thrillers.

C'mon, am I really supposed to list each and every book, movie, show, song and food I like? Chances are more than half will match yours. If you need a conversation starter, there are many more scattered throughout this webpage. Heck, what happened to the tried and true: "hi"

Of course I have more interests, but would rather share them and learn yours through conversation than straight up list here.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-A lint roller. It comes with the territory of pet ownership.
-A spray bottle. It comes with the territory of cat ownership, allowing me to take back ownership of my territory.
-Band aids to cover the claw marks from spraying a cat with a bottle. Lesson learned.

-A well stocked kitchen.
-Friends in my apartment to eat what comes out of a well stocked kitchen
-A dishwasher to clean the mess caused by friends eating all my food. This isn't a complaint, I promise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I don't pay attention to the percentages on the site. If I cared about a websites percentage formula, I'd go to eharmony.

Do I actually spend a lot of time thinking about this? No. I just thought this section most appropriate for that statement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Typical Friday night? Never had one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've never had a hangover, no matter how hard I've tried. Never. Ever. NEVER.

It's a blessing and a curse.

I'm also petrified of bees. Childhood trauma, the usual issues.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think you could hold your own on King of the Nerds.

You want to say something but don't know what. So tell me a joke. Or just say hi. I don't bite.