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NIW1

33 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:27pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Desperately
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Okay), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
This is the first online dating profile I've ever written, and I'm not terribly comfortable talking about myself, especially in such a public forum. Do not interpret that as my being shy or un-opinionated or diffident or quiet.

I am smart and ambitious, and I value that in others. I have a very big heart and love my family and friends dearly. I am discerning about who I let enter that circle. But people, things, experiences can offer all levels of enjoyment, and I am happy to appreciate those moments, too. I'm just trying to find meaning and happiness, I guess. Not in some abstract way, but in the tangible, daily things.

I also seem way too serious here. I'm not. I joke all the time, I make an ass of myself pretty often, and I did fill out this profile with some irony.
What I’m doing with my life
Feel immense pressure to be profound here. Fail.
I’m really good at
Listening.
Being a good friend.
Loyalty.
Inventing new words.
Being silly.
Injuring myself.
The six things I could never do without
Family
Friends
Smartphone
My thumbs
Cheese
Pleasure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why I spent all that time answering the million questions this site prompts you to answer. Hey, OKCupid, why don't they ever end?
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner and drinks with friends, crashing hard and fast from the week, working late, getting gussied up, counting my fingers and toes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an 11-inch scar on my body.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You think I'm cute and interesting. I'd rather meet for a drink or coffee than spend time corresponding.