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I am adventurous, tender, and playful

NJMike514

35 / m / straight / Seeing Someone

Cranbury, New Jersey, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 6' 4" (1.93m).

Looking For New friends

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Never

Religion Atheism but not too serious about it

Sign Taurus and it's fun to think about

Education Graduated from high school

Job N/A

Income N/A

Kids Likes children

Pets Likes dogs and Likes cats

Languages English (Fluently)

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My self-summary

I would have to say I am extremely open-minded, fun loving, child at heart. But at the same time, I have a rather serious side, and can be quite single minded and industrious when my mind is set on a task. I am always of the thought, life is meant to be lived, that it is so much more rewarding when you have someone like minded with you, to share the experience, to see it as much through their eyes as your own.

I'm really good at

Well aside from the geeky things that come with my job like programming umpteen different languages. I would say I am good at, enjoying life, and music, that is enjoying it, not so much with playing it. Hugs, I am really good at hugs, and kisses too. Swinging a sword, and cracking a whip, driving especially for long or late night trips. Aside from that, while there are quite a few things I am probably good at, nothing comes to mind right now.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

Well I guess at the moment, I am bald, and taller than most. Aside from those physical characteristics, probably that I am a nice fairly likable and decent kind of guy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books :

I am big on fantasy/scifi books specially those based on RPG's. Most RA Salvatore books, all the early ShadowRun novels, Douglass Adams, Robert Asprin, Harry Potter series, and a few philosophical books like the five people you meet in heaven.

Movies :

Oh my, I would have to say just about all of them. I like everything from Lord of the Rings to Sleepless in Seatle, Spiderman to The Story of Us, Ferris Bueller's Day Off to Scream, Patton to Kung Pow. I can see the good in almost any movie.

Music :

Music I am a little less eclectic on, but have to say I am open minded to most. It all depends on my mood, or the mood I want to be in. Lately I am into alternative, but love the 80's, Metallica, early GnR, Bon Jovi, Flogging Molly, and love songs.

Foods :

This is another one of those, just about every groups. The few things I don't like are strong seafood, raw tomatoes by themselves, and that's about it. As to my preferances, a nice marinated and seasoned medium rare steak, ceasar salad, lightly steamed asparagus in a butter sauce, and hawaiian pizza.

The six things I could never do without

1) Hope
2) Desire to enjoy life
3) Some form of electronic gadget (yes, I am a geek)
4) My Jeep Cherokee
5) Shared intimate moments
6) Family

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The present. Not that I don't think about the future, I very much look forward to the future, where I will be happily married with children, to the woman that makes my heart skip every time I look into her eyes. Perhaps she is even reading this. But for the most part I think about what's right in front of me, now. Because life is in the now...

On a typical Friday night I am

I am with my friends, be it bowling, watching a movie, playing cards, talking, or beating them with plumbing supplies.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

With much thought, I've come to the conclusion that most things that I hold private, either mean little out of the context and/or would only be a means of exclusion of being someone you might want to talk to, so why would I want to do that. No I am not an ax murder or convicted fellon or other somesuch. I am just a very eclectic and dynamic person, while there are a lot of things that make up who I am, there are very few things that I would say define me, in a limiting sense.

You should message me if

...you think I am interesting, and want to chat.

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