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NJtoBay77

37 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:16am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a non-native species, transplanted after an East Coast childhood and book-learning stint in Boston. I have taken root well in the Bay Area, nourished by its people, environment, culture, and KQED.

I'm a button-down progressive - left of center, trying to be green, but pretty conventional in appearance, demeanor, and daily life. I am not now nor have ever been in a collective. Forming a two-person one with an awesome woman would be great!
What I’m doing with my life
Work: fixing a Mr. Fusion device. My day ranges from the sublime (PowerPoint) to the ridiculous (physics).

Play: hiking, volunteer trail work (unpaid manual labor - what could be better?), Bikram yoga (reminiscent of steamy East-Coast summers), starting to do some cycling. Doing my bit for the world: literacy tutoring and Amnesty International. Yay for culture - classical or popular concerts, shows, films, and drama. I rarely play the piano - private recitals only!
I’m really good at
* Keeping in touch w/ friends I've made from age 1 until now, over the phone or in person.
* Ordering Indian food sans English translation (NJ upbringing).
* Making sweet potato pie, my fallback dessert. Chris Rock piqued my interest - ask for details!
* "Explaining science to people in a simple way" (quote from friend). For a few years I taught a weekend class for high-schoolers called "Our friend the nucleus: nuclear fission and fusion."
* France: Been a few times, like the people, place, and language. Was mystified by Bordeaux's drip coffee in espresso cups - appropriate dose?
The first things people usually notice about me
There are still men who part their hair?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
TV: Curb Your Enthusiasm, West Wing, Family Guy, The Office. Recently discovered Modern Family. Yes-Chef Gordon Ramsey's amusing. Used to like Fringe. Kickin' it old school: The Golden Girls!
Books: Willa Cather: My Antonia = best novel ever. Confederacy of Dunces, Angela's Ashes, P J O'Rourke, Erich Fromm, Joseph Campbell.
Movies: Manhattan and other Woody Allen flicks, Coen Bros (True Grit, Big Lebowski), The Paper Chase, Caddyshack, Dolemite, Clerks.
Big comedy fan: Bill Hicks, David Cross, Richard Pryor, Patton Oswalt, Lewis Black, Lenny Bruce.
Music: Regina Spektor, Magnetic Fields, Belle and Sebastian, Jim Croce, Matthew Sweet, Nellie McKay, Nanci Griffith, Classical (esp. Beethoven and guitar).
Nom nom noms: East-Bay culinary nirvana: dinner at awesome Southeast Asian place (when did Chinese become passe?), Souley Vegan's carrot cake, washed down w/ Trappist's Belgian beer. Walk don't drive home!
The six things I could never do without
* My scalp massager - you gotta try it!
* Friends: l'amitie est plus dure que l'amour (10th grade wisdom).
* My ride: Corolla baby! Reliable, efficient. Midlife crisis will be an electric Tesla :)
* Whole wheat donuts at Colonial Donuts - they're healthy, right?
* Things I use but aren't essential for organic life: hiking boots, yoga mat, music keyboard, bike.

I'm a simple creature: five bullets suffices.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Enjoying life with fidelity to principles.

Other than that: the jokers doing 60 on 580 in the morning. Explain it to me. Eco thingy? Slow foodies? Bitter Russians? NPR coma?
On a typical Friday night I am
Hopefully at a concert or city outing, like the Rigoletto or La Traviata simulcasts at Candlestick. OK they were on Saturdays. Only in SF could an opera cause a traffic jam at the ballpark.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Some winter nights I wear hiking socks in bed - Brrrrr!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You genuinely want, and feel ready for, a serious relationship. Perhaps you tire of online dating's search-engine mentality. You get that relationships are partly a skill or art, and not entirely about finding a single perfect object of affection. That a relationship is something you do with someone, not a static item you acquire.

You enjoy the Bay Area and plan to be here. We share some values and interests, and you can teach me something new!