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NOLA2NOCAL

30 M Sacramento, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:43pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Pacific Islander, Other
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
One of my good friends described as such:

"As good with words and with people as you are, it is remarkable how much of that you have devoted to making experiences that are happy or interesting or beautiful. You could easily become a supervillain mastermind or a smooth-talking car salesman or a political campaign spinmaster, but for some reason you've decided to be a wonderful friend instead. You are good to people in a very conscious way, and for that I am so grateful (in part because I'm counting my blessings you haven't decided to take over the world as a suave, cunning supervillain quite yet)."

I point out the "supervillain quiet yet" portion, fair warning. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work at an E-commerce company in sales, I'm pretty good at it. Honestly, if my day job meant more then the bottom line for some company I would be much happier but one must pay bills right?

I dance and instruct at an amazing little dance hall

Bit of a movie buff, very into arts and entertainment.

Random tid bit:
I'm rather curious about learning things about astronomy, star gazing is a bit of a past time for me. So if you have interest in catching a meteor shower or taking a good drive away from city lights to count shooting stars. It is always a joy to share the wonder of looking up.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Assessing things. I have quiet a good record of reading situations and people. My friends rely on it.

Dance. I have been dancing for about 10 years or so. There were breaks in there but I really have found a love of dance in my life. Mostly partner dance style (swing, blues, tango, some ballroom, and my current dance passion Fusion) but you don't have to worry about me just standing and nodding at a club either.

I can talk about anything. I enjoy learning. I love meeting people with passion and riding out their energy and joy as they express what they love to do. From Marine Biology to Cheese. I love to listen and talk and learn.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly, the way I talk and act.

Though asking around a bit I've been told my smile physically is the first thing.

I have a bit of "Southern Charm" in my personality due to family being from the South for a time it sort of stuck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Creole food if I can find it (which honestly is really hard, my mom's cooking is hard to beat), sushi is a close second. Am always down for a great burger or hole in the wall Mexican.

Film: Honestly the whole gambit from foreign to domestic, campy B-movie horror to keep you awake for days thrillers, documentaries to psychedelic fictions, musicals to silent films. I love being introduced to new and interesting movies.

Music: is the life blood I barely go a day without rocking out to anything country to techno I probably have it on my pandora and sing it and/or dance to it.

Books: Anything that can really absorb me into it. From all of Neil Gaiman's books, to Harry Potter, to Agatha Christie, Dean Koontz (till his endings), Stephen King, Laurell K. Hamilton Anita Blake series, Doyle's Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, Mark Twain's commentaries, clever adaptations like The Hound of the D'ubervilles, crime novels, I just love a great story. Currently learning all I can about Vikings, Norse Mythology, and the times of era. So if you have any suggestions please share :)

Shows: Love a acoustic concerts, always down for a dixie land jazz band, maybe catching a soulful singer in a bar, or if not music than Stand Up Comedy to me, if done well, is high art.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends and family, good food, stars, good walks with no destination, music, and dance.

Yes I know I listed 7. So? I scoff at silly arbitrary rules!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The stories that play out in my head. I am constantly working on characters and being amused by choices.

The future and forcing myself to be present.

My friends and helping and taking my own advice sometimes.

And occasionally that next great meal. What can I say Creole and Pinoy... food is... LOVE.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently swing dancing with my friends, maybe watching movies or shows on Netflix. Occasionally I won't lie Friday night is my it's been a week I just want do laundry and relax. Though I will rise to the occasion if the charge is worthy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm. I collect playing cards, that I deem ascetically pleasing. Though I am a bad "collector", as I never save them for value. I have to shuffle and touch them. Not obsessively mind you. Just rather calming when you are passing time.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have passion! I fall for people in the moments they light up over something they adore or are fascinated by. That's when someone is most interesting. I love seeing that in a partner or a friend. Don't be afraid of what other people think show off what you love to do.

You are a dancer or want to find new places to dance around Sacramento.

Heck if you want to! I can't really stop you now can I?