31 Sacramento, CA
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My self-summary
Hi there! You have stopped by because OKC has a match of us compatibility wise or you think I may be a looker. Welcome!

To be honest this app and website is more of a time waster for me at work etc. I love answering the questions and reading answers etc.

I've had some successful meetings/dates through here and only a few horror/funny stories so far. Nothing to stop and try a relationship, but I try to keep myself open to it. So if you don't mind me not taking this at all seriously read on.

One of my good friends described as such:

"As good with words and with people as you are, it is remarkable how much of that you have devoted to making experiences that are happy or interesting or beautiful. You could easily become a supervillain mastermind or a smooth-talking car salesman or a political campaign spinmaster, but for some reason you've decided to be a wonderful friend instead. You are good to people in a very conscious way, and for that I am so grateful (in part because I'm counting my blessings you haven't decided to take over the world as a suave, cunning supervillain quite yet)."

I point out the "supervillain quiet yet" portion, fair warning. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
I work at an E-commerce company in sales, I'm pretty good at it. Honestly, if my day job meant more then the bottom line for some company I would be much happier but one must pay bills right?

I dance and instruct at an amazing little dance hall

Bit of a movie buff, very into arts and entertainment.

Random tid bit:
I'm rather curious about learning things about astronomy, star gazing is a bit of a past time for me. So if you have interest in catching a meteor shower or taking a good drive away from city lights to count shooting stars. It is always a joy to share the wonder of looking up.
I’m really good at
Assessing things. I have quiet a good record of reading situations and people. My friends rely on it.

Dance. I have been dancing for about 10 years or so. There were breaks in there but I really have found a love of dance in my life. Mostly partner dance style (swing, blues, tango, some ballroom, and my current dance passion Fusion) but you don't have to worry about me just standing and nodding at a club either.

I can talk about anything. I enjoy learning. I love meeting people with passion and riding out their energy and joy as they express what they love to do. From Marine Biology to Cheese. I love to listen and talk and learn.
The first things people usually notice about me
Honestly, the way I talk and act.

Though asking around a bit I've been told my smile physically is the first thing.

I have a bit of "Southern Charm" in my personality due to family being from the South for a time it sort of stuck.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: Creole food if I can find it (which honestly is really hard, my mom's cooking is hard to beat), sushi is a close second. Am always down for a great burger or hole in the wall Mexican.

Film: Honestly the whole gambit from foreign to domestic, campy B-movie horror to keep you awake for days thrillers, documentaries to psychedelic fictions, musicals to silent films. I love being introduced to new and interesting movies.

Music: is the life blood I barely go a day without rocking out to anything country to techno I probably have it on my pandora and sing it and/or dance to it.

Books: Anything that can really absorb me into it. From all of Neil Gaiman's books, to Harry Potter, to Agatha Christie, Dean Koontz (till his endings), Stephen King, Laurell K. Hamilton Anita Blake series, Doyle's Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, Mark Twain's commentaries, clever adaptations like The Hound of the D'ubervilles, crime novels, I just love a great story. Currently learning all I can about Vikings, Norse Mythology, and the times of era. So if you have any suggestions please share :)

Shows: Love a acoustic concerts, always down for a dixie land jazz band, maybe catching a soulful singer in a bar, or if not music than Stand Up Comedy to me, if done well, is high art.
The six things I could never do without
Good friends and family, good food, stars, good walks with no destination, music, and dance.

Yes I know I listed 7. So? I scoff at silly arbitrary rules!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The stories that play out in my head. I am constantly working on characters and being amused by choices.

The future and forcing myself to be present.

My friends and helping and taking my own advice sometimes.

And occasionally that next great meal. What can I say Creole and Pinoy... food is... LOVE.
On a typical Friday night I am
Recently swing dancing with my friends, maybe watching movies or shows on Netflix. Occasionally I won't lie Friday night is my it's been a week I just want do laundry and relax. Though I will rise to the occasion if the charge is worthy.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm. I collect playing cards, that I deem ascetically pleasing. Though I am a bad "collector", as I never save them for value. I have to shuffle and touch them. Not obsessively mind you. Just rather calming when you are passing time.
You should message me if
You have passion! I fall for people in the moments they light up over something they adore or are fascinated by. That's when someone is most interesting. I love seeing that in a partner or a friend. Don't be afraid of what other people think show off what you love to do.

You are a dancer or want to find new places to dance around Sacramento.

Heck if you want to! I can't really stop you now can I?