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50 M Durham, NC

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Last Online
Today – 6:27pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I love being outdoors in the sunshine appreciating the beauty of this amazing planet. Having spent a few early school years in Hawaii contributed to my life-long love of nature, warm weather, and the beach/waterfalls. I also enjoy music, athletics/fitness, film, and maintaining a healthy lifestyle, although I allow myself regular indulgences—I firmly believe in the Mark Twain quote—“Everything in moderation, including moderation...”
What I’m doing with my life
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I like exploring new places/the great outdoors, attending concerts/plays, playing tennis, eating at outdoor restaurants; driving with the top down, working out, going to outdoor/drive-in movies, learning something new, cycling, being kind and supportive to others, hiking, and pretty much doing anything on or near bodies of water.
I’m really good at
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Seeing the humor in most situations; spelling; being polite; listening/keeping secrets; managing money; vocabulary; problem--solving, displaying kindness; music/movie trivia; loyalty; athletics; honesty; dependability; procrastination :-(; logical thinking/analysis; providing emotional support; putting others’ first; humility; keeping an open mind; being non-judgmental and listing what I am good at :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I usually receive the most comments on my vestigial tail, but my eyes are a close second ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Les Miserables, The Great Gatsby, and The World According to Garp have left the most lasting impressions on me.

Movies: I am a big film buff. My taste runs from the most thought-provoking/artistic to quite silly, and find unintentionally bad movies entertaining. Genres – Mystery/Thriller; Drama; Comedy; Independent. Examples - The Graduate, Vertigo; anything Kubrick, Annie Hall, Airplane!, Mulholland Drive.

TV shows – Don't watch anything regularly right now. Past favs include Arrested Development, Daily Show/Colbert Report, and Twilight Zone.

Music: Little bit of everything, lean most toward rock, pop, R&B, folk, funk, and singer-songwriter.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Art (Music/Film in particular)
Sunshine/nature/bodies of water
Human Touch
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to live longer, healthier, and happier
Self-improvement (how to be kinder, more supportive person)
Psychology/what motivates people's behavior
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not sure there is such a thing -- depends on what activities are going on that night/how my week was.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That I am a private person ;-)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating