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43 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 13
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've spent much of my life trying to figure out what makes me happy and then going after it. The Northwest is where I've felt the biggest connection so I've stuck with Oregon and Washington for the last dozen or so years. (Japan and New Zealand vie for a pretty close second.)

What makes me happy right now is a good conversation over dinner, learning something new, a good powder day with friends, a mountain bike ride after work, or just hanging out with people I've not seen in a while.

I've also managed quite a bit of travel lately throughout the US and Asia and am happier for it. Walking the streets of Taipei is hard to describe and pictures cannot convey the smells and sounds of a city different from any other I've visited. It is a contrast to taking a run to the Tokyo fish market on a bright Wednesday morning in October or a hike through the back streets of Guangzhou the next day. I even found a surprising allure to newly discovered (for me) parts of North Carolina in December and the beaches of Pismo and Cambria in November. These experiences make me appreciate coming home to the Northwest, but they also enlarge my view of the world and how people live and laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
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My main focus right now is staying a bit balanced. At different times in the past I've been too career focused, fitness focused, or on a journey of self discovery. This is working out pretty well as I am the happiest I've ever been.

I enjoy quite a bit of outdoor activity including mountain biking, running, skiing (downhill and cross-country), snowshoeing, and hiking. I look forward to a little more surfing, swimming, and maybe getting back into sailing and climbing again this summer.

For easier access to the above, I found a job that allows me to split my time between Seattle and central Oregon (Bend). This is a bit tricky but has been worthwhile. Bend gives me the sun and good weather (snow included) to enjoy the outdoors, summer concerts, and small town feel. Seattle gives me the water, great food, symphony, very green plants and trees and a bit more diversity.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and remembering. (I probably won't forget your birthday.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm left handed.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The things I read, listen to, watch, and eat are pretty diverse. The iPod is most often on random, the TV is mostly off, and the food ranges from a bakery expedition to Taiwanese noodles, sushi, Mexican, Thai, or an occasional ostrich. I've not said no to trying anything put in front of me (to the surprise and entertainment of some of my Chinese customers). Here is a quick list of favorites so as not to dodge the question -- Anything by Faulkner or Hemingway, U2, Mozart, Cecilia Bartoli, Coldplay, Handel, Sushi, Italian, Indian, Mexican (especially Moles), Nihonshu, Red Wines, Dark Beer, Espresso, and Dark Chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water, Mountains, and Sunshine
Travel to different places and the interaction with different cultures and people that this brings
Changes in the weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My ever growing list of places to go, things to try, and people I haven't seen in a while.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Lately, I've found myself outside doing a quick mountain bike ride or a run after work. Later I'm usually with friends enjoying wine or beer and some dinner. If I've been traveling, sometimes I'm just happy to be away from work and putting my legs up with a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My guilty pleasure is driving cars really fast around a race track. It clears my head and helps me drive slower on public roads.
You should message me if
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You are looking to get to know somebody without a lot of games and with quite a bit of honesty. I'm looking for a connection on some level.