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-NamesJames-

30 New York, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:36pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Many girls on this site end with something like "Have something better to say than, 'Hi'". I want to say that just "Hi" is fine for me. I'll read your profile, and if I'm intrigued, I'll say "Hi" back. It's too easy to spend a lot of time on messages when a person just wouldn't be interested in your profile (no matter how good the message).

Secondly, I, like everyone, have both qualities and quirks. So in the interest of being upfront and honest, here are the highlights:

Qualities
- I have a good career in the film industry
- I am well known, liked, and respected among my peers
- I'm a deep thinker
- I am well read
- I am athletic and fit
- I am a talented musician and dancer
- I live life looking for stories and unique experiences

Quirks
- OKCupid says not to mention the word karaoke, but on the advice of Freakonomics, this profile is meant to be a separating equilibrium for finding that right person. So here it is: I love karaoke.
- My work is wildly inconsistent varying from months of time off (usually in the winter) to 80 hours a week in other states/countries
- I can get sucked into online debates about religion or politics or behavioral economics
- I'm a snuggler
- I don't like food. I really only eat out of necessity, and usually not enough. I am however a nutrition buff.
- I don't like to drink alcohol (particularly beer). I hate hangovers and I can have fun without drinking, but as a social courtesy I will sip hard cider at about half the rate of a normal drinker. Tequila is my hard liquor of choice.
- I make plans in advance. And then I actually show up at the time and place that I say I will. Or if I'm not going to, I'll tell somebody.
What I’m doing with my life
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Other than working in the movie industry and writing industry related iphone apps, I said I like living for stories so here a few:

- I once overheard Michael Kors refuse Heidi Klum's invitation to dance, so I said "Here Michael, let me show you how it's done" and I waltzed Heidi around the stage for a good 5 minutes.

- I once belonged to a softball team in Queens. The last game I meant to play before moving to Pittsburgh, I broke my humerus while trying to throw a runner out at first after unexpectedly catching a line drive. I now have 2 plates and 20 screws in my right arm

- I once was assigned to a film crew to shoot a group of wanna-be models in a limousine, but I was the sound guy hidden in the back of the limo covered with stuffed animals and I was especially gassy, so I joyfully and anonymously hotboxed the limo for their entire ride home while they were being filmed for national television. Unfortunately, it didn't make the episode
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite books are pop economics books like Freakonomics and The Tipping Point

I like all kinds of movies except for horror. My favorite movie of all time is The Matrix

There are some really epic TV series airing now: House of Cards, Sherlock, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones. My favorite series right now is Suits though. And I also enjoy New Girl, Grey Anatomy, and the late 30 Rock and Parks and Recreation

Radio Lab (NPR), Boomer and Carton (ESPN Radio), Delilah (just kidding). Also my favorite news sites are Engadget, NYTimes, Kotaku, Deadspin, and FiveThirtyEight
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like me for me (not because I'm tough like Dirty Harry)

You have both courage and humility

You'll actually show up