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NYCTJK

24 / M / gay / Single

New York, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English, French (Okay)

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I am pensive, an extremist, and kinda funny.

My Self-Summary

Every day, I waver between the opposing extremes of my light-hearted goofiness and existential crisis. I suppose that may be somewhat typical of being 24? I probably shouldn't mention it's been a staple of my personality since infancy. Haha. Is that a good "self summary?"

From Michigan, college in Boston, been in NYC for two years. I love New York even more than I ever anticipated I could. The past two years have been extremely insane, filled with a lot of indecision and confusion, but I've learned a ton and am really happy and excited with where I am and where I'm going at this point.

I'm also a middle child. Take that as you will.

I thought "Twelfth Night" in the park was amazing this summer. If you did too, we'll get along just fine.

What I’m doing with my life

Working, interning, exploring and learning. I have an ominous degree in theater, and am figuring out how that fits into the world.

I'm perpetually in the middle of reading several books.

I’m really good at

-overanalyzing
-thinking
-being super busy or extremely still
-drinking unhealthy amounts of coffee
-waking up early and surviving on minimal sleep

The first things people usually notice about me

Probably that I'm doing something embarrassing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close, The Fountainhead, The Things They Carried, Ishmael, The Elegant Universe

Movies: The Hours, Little Miss Sunshine, Contact, I Heart Huckabees

Music: Ella Fitzgerald, Etta James, Amy Winehouse, Ben Sollee, James Brown, Coldplay, and a whole mess of other stuff

Food: Everything. Except Indian food. Not into curry.

The six things I could never do without

-Manhattan (I never want to leave)
-A gym (I'm not totally narcissistic, but it keeps me sane)
-Great art
-My family and friends
-Hope
-Second chances

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future, money, ultimate truth, Manhattan apartments, meaning...

On a typical Friday night I am

Working or hanging out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm a really good mistake-maker. But I'm almost equally good at dealing with the consequences, which I think is redeeming.

You should message me if

you're cute, real, fun and have more than one layer.