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26 New York, NY Man


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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
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Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
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Has cats

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My self-summary
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I don't think anybody knows quite how to answer this accurately. I definitely don't. I guess I'm pretty creative in general, a tad goofy from time to time. Sometimes I can be intense, but mostly in regards to work/career. Pretty competitive, no doubt. I hear I should be saying that I'm laid back, apparently that's a popular thing to list. It'd be less than entirely truthful, though.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm mainly a Director and Playwright, although I do Stage Management and Sound Design on the side (to help pay the bills and such). I have a theater company in NY that I work with regularly, and I've made the rounds with several off-broadway theaters in various capacities. Fun stuff.

I've also been looking for adventures lately. This summer I spent two months traveling over twelve thousand miles via a thirty year old beaten up Subaru. It was awesome. I never really want to stop. So basically, I'd love it if someone would pay me to buy old cars and drive them around the country and then either film it or write about it. That'd be pretty cool. My method of finding adventure in the city has been bouldering - I've become completely addicted.

I've lately started working in film as well, which has been a lot of fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Kickball (yes. I'm awesome at kickball. It's a skill. Also good at dodgeball. Which is also definitely a skill)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I feel like this is impossible for anyone to know for sure. I'm guessing eyes, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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This Side of Paradise is probably my all time favorite (I finally finished Infinite Jest, though, and it may have to take the top spot). I do love A Moveable Feast, The Sun also Rises, Catcher in the Rye, Harry Potter, Ender's Game. Baz Luhrmann movies. Kerouac. I also really liked Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Moulin Rouge, The Prestige. Moonrise Kingdom. Big Fish, no doubt.

I dunno. Ask me again tomorrow and I'll probably have different answers.

I've been on a huge literary nonfiction kick lately. Love the essays of DFW, Jonathan Franzen, Malcolm Gladwell, Paul Collins, really just going through the Best American Essays series...

I don't know how to start listing favorite music. It's an honestly impossible task.

As far as food goes, I love to cook. Favorite food is whatever I happen to feel like making. I love cooking fish. I made this corn chowder with coconut milk the other day. It was pretty good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Uh, honestly, no idea? I could get super literal here, but nobody likes that guy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future of American theatre. Which sounds pretentious. Which IS pretentious.

For example: I'm kind of obsessed/depressed by the fact that the regional theater movement of the 60's and 70's created this infrastructure that supports administrators (marketing people, fundraisers, producers, casting directors) by giving them middle-class wages and a stable lifestyle, which is great and of course these people should have jobs, but the movement neglected to do the same for the artists who create the work. Now we have a field that's incredibly saturated with more talent than ever before (in a good way, seriously, there are so many amazing artists working in theatre today) and no way to sustain them, which leads to many of the best artists leaving the field for greener pastures, and who can blame them?

That's something I think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably working on a show or rehearsing. Super exciting, I know. I should probably get out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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