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26 M New York, NY

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Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
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My self-summary
Out of town for the next month doing a travel/road trip based documentary. I'll be back at some point in August!


I don't think anybody knows quite how to answer this accurately. I definitely don't. I guess I'm pretty creative in general, a tad goofy from time to time. Sometimes I can be intense, but mostly in regards to work/career. Pretty competitive, no doubt. I hear I should be saying that I'm laid back, apparently that's a popular thing to list. It'd be less than entirely truthful, though.

Sometimes I wonder how many people who list Gatsby as their favorite book have actually read it (don't get me wrong, it's an incredible book. But it feels like it's also the book that's in fashion to list as your favorite book).

In general, though, I work in theater, I do the whole writing thing. I'm also a bit obsessed with Baseball and Baseball stats. Huge Mets fan.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm mainly a Director and Playwright, although I do Stage Management and Sound Design on the side (to help pay the bills and such). I have a theater company in NY that I work with regularly, and I've made the rounds with several off-broadway theaters in various capacities. Fun stuff.

I'm just starting working in film, I have a documentary I'm shooting in August I'm really excited about. We'll see where it goes.
I’m really good at
Singing, kickball (yes. I'm awesome at kickball. It's a skill. Also good at dodgeball. Which is also definitely a skill) theatre stuff in general, really. I like to think I'm a good writer.
The first things people usually notice about me
I feel like this is impossible for anyone to know for sure. I'm guessing eyes, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This Side of Paradise is probably my all time favorite. I do love A Moveable Feast, The Sun also Rises, Catcher in the Rye, Harry Potter, Ender's Game. Baz Luhrmann movies. Kerouac. I also really liked Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Moulin Rouge, The Prestige. Moonrise Kingdom.

I dunno. Ask me again tomorrow and I'll probably have different answers.

I've been on a huge literary nonfiction kick lately. Love the essays of DFW, Jonathan Franzen, Malcolm Gladwell, Paul Collins, really just going through the Best American Essays series...

Music wise, I love Bowie. I could go on a list things forever. Pretty much anything that's actually good and substantial. There's this group called Seryn I'm kind of obsessed with right now.

As far as food goes, I love to cook. Favorite food is whatever I happen to feel like making. I love cooking fish. I made this corn chowder with coconut milk the other day. It was pretty good.
The six things I could never do without
Uh, honestly, no idea? I could get super literal here, but nobody likes that guy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future of American theatre. Which sounds pretentious. Which IS pretentious.

For example: I'm kind of obsessed/depressed by the fact that the regional theater movement of the 60's and 70's created this infrastructure that supports administrators (marketing people, fundraisers, producers, casting directors) by giving them middle-class wages and a stable lifestyle, which is great and of course these people should have jobs, but the movement neglected to do the same for the artists who create the work. Now we have a field that's incredibly saturated with more talent than ever before (in a good way, seriously, there are so many amazing artists working in theatre today) and no way to sustain them, which leads to many of the best artists leaving the field for greener pastures, and who can blame them?

That's something I think about.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably working on a show or rehearsing. Super exciting, I know. I should probably get out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is a bad question, OKCupid, and you should feel bad.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Dunno. If you want to probably.