Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've spent so much time trying to figure this all out, and I've
waxed poetically about who I am and what I want. Suddenly it's
become a little more clear.
I'm not a complicated man.
I have the same wants and needs as a lot of people. All I really
want is to find someone who loves me for who I am, my tragic flaws
and my weird little quirks included. I'm a good person with a heart
so big that it worries me. I'm honest, and I'm loyal, and I'm one
hundred percent genuine.
I just want to meet someone who makes me smile, and will go on long
walks with me. I want someone to drink iced coffee with in the
summer, and hot coffee with in the winter. I don't need you to be
perfect, or have washboard abs, or make a ton of money. I just want
you to be nice. And honest. And hopefully the rest will work out in
What I’m doing with my life
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Just moved from NYC to Southern California. Writing. Blogging.
Taking walks. Reading. Growing. Learning how to be a better person.
Accepting new challenges. Becoming the person I've always dreamed
of being. Putting the finishing touches on my novel, and working on
developing a television series (!).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A lot of things, if I do say so myself. I'm witty as hell and a
great conversationalist. I've been called "funny" often, and I'm
pretty sure that's accurate. I'm also a great dinner date (see:
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm usually smiling. My blue eyes. My laugh. My tattoos.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: PJ Harvey. The Raveonettes. Morrissey. Blonde Redhead. Aimee
Mann. Gossip. Bjork. Hole. The Cure. The Kills. Fiona Apple.
Florence + The Machine. Goldfrapp. Lykke Li. Marianne Faithful.
Metric. Roisin Murphy. Morcheeba. Peaches. Robyn. Skunk Anansie.
St. Vincent. Suede. Yeah Yeah Yeah's. MS MR. The xx. Lorde.
Books: Chuck Palahniuk. Edna St. Vincent Millay. Charles Bukowski.
Brett Easton Ellis. Tom Robins. Miranda July.
Movies: Amelie. The Princess & The Warrior. 2 Days in Paris.
Fierce Creatures. 200 Cigarettes. Great Expectations. Fantastic Mr.
Fox. Jawbreaker. Me, You, And Everyone We Know. Daydream Nation.
Tiny Furniture. Melancholia. Party Girl. Magnolia. Frances Ha. Drop
Dead Gorgeous. The Future.
Food: Everything. Particularly Indian, Ethiopian, Vegetarian,
Mexican, Vegan, Meat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Washington Square Park.
Jasper (the cat).
Springtime in NY.
...you know what?
I could live without a lot of things.
I'm very adaptable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fit into this new life in sunny California without looking
like a tourist. Short stories to write. Carnivorous plants and why
they exist. Chic black clothing that I want to buy but don't. The
future. Where to go for dinner. California. My family. Music and
how it affects me. Writing a memoir. Is it warm enough for a walk?
How to improve. How to keep sane. How to be a free spirit. How to
be honest. How to follow my heart. How to put myself in a position
to be in the same room as Miranda July.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Same thing we do every night, Pinky: Try to take over the world.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty recently single. Gave my heart away to the wrong person
who didn't want it, so I'm still kind of burnt. More than anything,
I'm looking for dates and friends right now. BUT I want to meet
people who actually want to be open to the possibility of something
more. I'm open minded, and you should be too. Just be a nice
person, and be yourself.
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