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38 Troy, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 13
5' 5" (1.66m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Wants kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is where I write something profound that catches the attention of the man of my dreams... right?!?! I love to laugh and can find humor and fun in nearly everything that I do. I use sarcasm freely and speak my mind easily. I am also well-educated, intelligent and independent. I absolutely love listening to live music and taking pictures. Beyond that, I like a lot of the same things everyone else does... being outside, bike riding, reading, watching movies, etc. I love finding new and fun things to do, and am always up for a road trip.

I am really straight-forward and am looking for someone who can be the same with me. I would rather someone say, "had fun tonight but I don't think you're what I'm looking for" than someone say, "looking forward to seeing you again" when they're really not. If I like you, I'm going to say "I like you" -- and you need to be able to handle that and understand that it doesn't mean "I love you, want to marry you and have your children tomorrow." :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing my best to enjoy every minute of it! I like to spend time with friends and family but also really enjoy a little bit of quiet time alone. For work, I train teachers & administrators in methods of effectively teaching & managing hard-to-handle students. I love my job -- it challenges me intellectually and I find it very rewarding, but I never allow it to overtake my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, photography, conversation, laughing and my job.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair, my laugh and my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... I love to read but lately it seems that I only read for work! I'm currently reading a book called, "Why Don't Kids Like School?" Interesting stuff... I'm hoping this guy has all the answers. :-)

Music... almost everything. I particularly love rock... especially artists like John Hiatt, Bob Dylan, Bruce Springsteen, Tom Petty, etc. I also have a love of celtic rock and some country. I'm always looking to hear something new.

Food... nearly anything homemade. Just like music, I'm always looking to try to something new. I really love italian the most.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The love of my family, a great camera, sunshine, laughter, a reliable car and a good set of pots & pans.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
new ideas for work, what I want to accomplish in my life, and many other things!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know that I have a typical Friday night. It depends on what's going on... if it's been a long week, I might just enjoy relaxing with a glass of wine while listening to music. I always enjoy time with friends... dinner, drinks, movies, concerts, conversation... I'm usually up for anything!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a strong sex drive... and would really like to find someone who does too. :-)
You should message me if
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You are a guy who is intelligent, fun, loves to laugh, respectful, honest, laid-back, compassionate, humorous, hard-working, somewhat "handy" around the house, has an above-average sex drive, wants to have kids within the next 5 years and will value my thoughts, opinions and desires! (Ha! No problem, right??)