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33 Christchurch, New Zealand Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 18
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a bit of a geek - I work in IT and I like to unwind by playing video games or reading the internet. I'm a movie buff who enjoys good movies and terrible movies equally (the latter usually with drink in hand). I enjoy intelligent conversation with intelligent people, and goofing around with goofy people. Often these are the same people.

I've recently taken an larger interest in the outdoors and I'm interested in getting into hiking and exploring (geocaching sounds fun!). I'm also interested in doing more travelling, and I'm keen to meet someone who wants to share some adventures.

I used to have a long essay here about myself, but I've realised it's better to leave some mystery intact. I'm not a big fan of extended online conversations, I find them stilted and impersonal; I would much rather meet up for a coffee or a drink and have a chat. You never really know whether you are going to get along with someone until you meet them face to face!

I'm not looking for a fling or a one night stand. Been there, done that. Having said that, I'm not expecting a serious relationship right off the bat, just something with the potential to become one. Start by having fun together, then see what develops.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in IT as a software developer in the financial sector. My hobbies including gaming (all kinds - video, role-playing, board, card), watching films, and exploring Wellington's food scene.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Picking up new things. Remembering trivial information. Understanding both sides of an argument. Remembering the names of those actors where everyone goes 'hey it's that guy/girl!'.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair (yes, it's naturally that colour).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I'm not a huge fiction reader, but I like sci-fi/fantasy mostly, along with 'airport' fiction like Lee Child et al.

Movies - I'm a movie nut, I'll watch pretty much anything. I love smart blockbusters; The Dark Knight is probably my favorite Hollywood film. But I also dig indie films (when they aren't too pretentious). Anything with good writing and good acting is a must-watch for me regardless of the subject matter.

Shows (going to assume this means TV rather than Broadway ;) - Like movies, I watch and enjoy a wide range of TV. Recent favorites include Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Battlestar Galactica, Homeland, Archer, Fringe, and heaps more. At the moment I am binging through Arrow, which is suprisingly good, though silly at times.

Music - I like anything with a good beat to it and some depth. NIN, Tool, Skrillex, Daft Punk, Beastie Boys, and more traditional stuff like Radiohead, U2, Led Zeppelin, Dire Straits, the list goes on.

Food - I will try anything once, and there isn't much I don't like (though I'm not a huge fan of seafood, generally speaking). Some favorites: pasta, curries, pretty much any Asian cuisine (especially Japanese and Thai). Also love to tuck into a burger and fries every now and then.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Internet, hot showers, games, movies, wine, conversation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything! I always want to know more about whatever I'm doing or plan to be doing. Knowledge is power. I spend a lot of time online just reading about all kinds of things, even things that aren't remotely relevant to my day-to-day life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a drink with my workmates then either catching up with friends, or having a quiet night in watching TV shows or playing video games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk to myself a lot. I'm not crazy though, honest.
You should message me if
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Are equally comfortable having an earnest political debate, or getting drunk and watching bad movies.

Don't sweat the small stuff, and are able to appreciate other people's points of view.

Like to keep abreast of current events and social issues, both online and offline.

Enjoy movies, TV, or games of all stripes.