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31 Seattle, WA Woman, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming

Woman, Genderqueer, Gender Nonconforming

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 29
Orientation
Sapiosexual, Queer, Bisexual
Ethnicity
Native American, White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Status
Open relationship
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), C++ (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I make up a third of a poly household, my home is composed of my husband (TrickyC) and my boyfriend (Dharmansible). The three of us share a roof, a bed and coffee making responsibilities.

I'm looking for people who believe friendships should cross boundaries; who think that love, sex, kink and friendship can exist in a bubble bound by mutual compassion and consideration.

I am non-monogamous and my home is open, we have a complex web of hearts and bodies that interact with ours and my primary goal is to keep those members of our family and extended family emotionally and physically safe.

I tend to prioritize my partners, their time and space are incredibly important to me. I tend to prefer dating people who prioritize the people in their lives, tertiary, secondary or primary (if you choose to use those labels).

I am a student and professionally I deal with both beginning of life and end of life work. I read a lot, I watch movies and I have a deep an unending love for humans, their stories and their experiences.

I love nothing more than making maps with my fingertips and watching the people I love open up and share with me. I am both a lover and a fighter, I am passionate and I love fearlessly, honestly and enthusiastically.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a day job working as an aid for extended care and hospice patients. I run two businesses and I'm a student pursuing CNM and a MPH.

I'm also creating, constantly. I've been part of a few art shows and I plan on doing more.

I have a pretty solid camp that is part of INW and do a lot of work to keep them going, build projects and Do.

Like over achievers? Like artists? Believe in doing? how you doin? :wink:
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being endlessly curious. Cooking, eating, laughing, drinking, over thinking, writing, talking, dancing and screaming at inopportune moments. Helping people find out incredible things about themselves (at least, that is my favorite thing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm curvy, tall, covered in tattoos and such.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot - equally fiction and non-fiction.
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- The Poisoner's Handbook - Deborah Blum
- Hellboy and BPRD (Comics)
- Saga (Comics)
etc..etc..etc...

Movies/Music -
I watch a lot of movies and I listen to music constantly. I don't have a lot of specific favorites, but I have themes. If you asked me directly, I'd say the closest I could come would be:
Movies
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- Amélie
- Equilibrium
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches
etc.

Music
- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Tool
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Deftones
- Gogol Bordello
- Metric
- Beth Orton
- Orbital
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Everything else.

Food
Food is what brings us together as humans, I love feeding people, I love cooking and creating food. I'm mostly vegetarian with vegan leanings - but food is also experience. I'm not keen on turning down experience.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Movement, dance, love, openness, desire and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything! I over think, I'm pretty sure over thinking is a trait that most artists and writers are afflicted with. I think too much until I get the thoughts out - and that either means long conversations about everything and nothing or me covered in paint and smelling like smoke.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either: Spending a quiet night with my partners, or surrounded by friends drinking, laughing and generally being merry....or running off to go work (birth worker).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The nature of the internet is such that all things private eventually come out anyway. However, if you're so curious about my private things - you should ask me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Realistically you can message me for any reason what so ever.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.
E) You're unafraid of your own heart.