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30 F Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • All who like bi women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 21
Native American, White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sept. 2014: I'm pretty saturated folks. I'm really looking for like minded crazy people at this point - Bed is full.

I make up a third of a poly household, my home is composed of my husband (TrickyC) and my boyfriend (Dharmansible). The three of us share a roof, a bed and coffee making responsibilities. The easiest way to explain our particular composition is an “open V triad” but both of my partners are of the opinion that, that description over simplifies things.

To be honest, I'm not shopping for a partner right now. I'm not opposed to the idea of one - I just have no clue when I'd fit you in. That being said, I do love to meet new people, but I'm not meeting anyone with an agenda (I'd appreciate the same from you).

I’m an artist, a writer, a nerd, a tech and more over I am ever evolving. My priorities in life include a good cup of coffee, access to tea and a hip flask full of whiskey. I tend to fill my life with people who are creative in some way - I am most comfortable with people who find comfort in wild things, like to push themselves and constantly curious.

One of the most important things to me is how you get along with my people. I'm one of those "friends are family" people, if you blend in - you have a much stronger chance of getting past casual acquaintance with me.

I tend to like conversations that last a little too long, fire that burns a little too hot and almost any sentence that starts with “I have an awesome/terrible idea”. I like introverts, I like extroverts that lean towards introvert - I like people who I can draw out, and I certainly adore people who can draw me out. I have a personal quest to find both someones calm and their feral sides, I do so with great glee and I reward them exponentially.

I'm obsessed with people, I love watching people and discussing behaviors and psychological patterns. I'm a Doula by primary trade and will be entering a nursing program to eventually be a midwife. I have a huge passion for sexual education, rights and helping people get the education and resources they need to be happy and healthy.

If you don't identify as some brand of Feminist, can't discuss history and politics, or are easily offended - You should probably avoid me. I'm awesome, completely awesome, I'm also a total asshole - and a very well read asshole.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in a career that I find pretty darn interesting, but I work to live. I run a small business on the side selling a lot of my costuming creations and I belly dance, hike and do yoga on a regular/routine basis. I build things, learn things, help women deliver babies and explore this life with both of my amazing partners.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being endlessly curious. Cooking, eating, laughing, drinking, over thinking, writing, talking, dancing and screaming at inopportune moments. Helping people find out incredible things about themselves (at least, that is my favorite thing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm curvy, covered in tattoos and told that I have pretty eyes.

I'm also a social extrovert - so sometimes, my loud mouth is what is noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot - equally fiction and non-fiction.
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- The Poisoner's Handbook - Deborah Blum
- Hellboy and BPRD (Comics)
- Saga (Comics)

Movies/Music -
I watch a lot of movies and I listen to music constantly. I don't have a lot of specific favorites, but I have themes. If you asked me directly, I'd say the closest I could come would be:
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- Amélie
- Equilibrium
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches

- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Tool
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Deftones
- Gogol Bordello
- Metric
- Beth Orton
- Orbital
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Everything else.

Food is what brings us together as humans, I love feeding people, I love cooking. I recently discovered that all things Gluten and I do not get along - so I'm getting to relearn a whole mess of my favorite recipes. My favorite comfort food on the planet? - Avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My husband & the boyfriend
- Touch, I'm picky - but I couldn't live without it
- Listening to other people's stories
- Something to distract my overworking mind
- Whiskey or Wine
- A outlet of expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
everything. I over think, I'm pretty sure over thinking is a trait that most artists and writers are afflicted with. I think too much until I get the thoughts out - and that either means long conversations about everything and nothing or me covered in paint and smelling like smoke.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either: Spending a quiet night with my partners, or surrounded by friends drinking, laughing and generally being merry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The nature of the internet is such that all things private eventually come out anyway. However, if you're so curious about my private things - you should ask me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Realistically you can message me for any reason what so ever.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.