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30 Seattle, WA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 18
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Native American, White, Other
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Willkommen, bienvenue, welcome!

First thing’s first: I am not blessed with what many would call an overabundance of time. I am also not necessarily looking for a romantic partner at this point. However, I’m not opposed to the right person fitting into my limited time. Also, I’m terribly fond of lists - so here are 13 facts about me:

1) I make up a third of a poly household, my home is composed of my husband (TrickyC) and my boyfriend (Dharmansible). The three of us share a roof, a bed and coffee making responsibilities. The easiest way to explain our particular composition is an “open V triad” but both of my partners are of the opinion that, that description over simplifies things.

2) I’m in an open relationship (see above) so if you have ethical issues with that, we are likely not compatible. I also tend to favor people who already have relationships established as my lack of time means I don’t have a whole lot of emotional support I can offer.

3) I am the variety of human who keeps hens, is predominantly a vegetarian, grows kombucha and does full spectrum birth work. I also spend a lot of time planning gardens, building furniture and studying permaculture and sustainability.

4) I really like feeding people and cooking is one of my happy places.

5) I have transitioned from being a full time tech person, to being a part time employee who is attending college again. So: I’m pretty broke, but I know which budget wines are actually palatable.

6) I like to have conversations and I'm perpetually long winded. I love chatting online (and in person) and I get invested in people who are willing to crack open their skulls and show me their interesting parts (metaphorically of course).

7) If I don’t go to the mountains at least twice a year, I get profoundly cranky.

8) Coffee is a religion for me, don’t mess with it.

9) Yoga and other forms of exercise are incredibly important to me, I may be curvy/big but I am incredibly strong and I value my own personal health and strength and place great importance on maintaining and improving them.

10) I like to travel/explore. I like to meet new people. I like to collect stories. I like to be pushed out of my comfort zones. I am oddly: an introvert.

11) My myers briggs classifies me as: (INFJ) and I think its a fair assessment. Even if the Myers briggs has its flaws.

12) I am a music nerd, a sci-fi nerd, a nerd for passions, food, history...I am perpetually curious and I love the things that border the insane and exception (dude, we - the human race - just landed a spacecraft on a comet - WE ARE THE BEST MONKEYS)

13) I am very tribe minded and getting along with my people is essential towards being part of my world. If you’re not open to getting to know some of them, my world becomes very limited to you.

Congratulations! You've read a list! If you've also read books, quantify yourself as a nerd, don’t mind hearing about biology (lots and lots of biology) and can tolerate someone who is perpetually curious, a bit nosy and occasionally tragically blunt: You might just tolerate me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Things! I am doing so many things! I bet you could ask me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being endlessly curious. Cooking, eating, laughing, drinking, over thinking, writing, talking, dancing and screaming at inopportune moments. Helping people find out incredible things about themselves (at least, that is my favorite thing).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm curvy, covered in tattoos and told that I have pretty eyes.

I'm also a social extrovert - so sometimes, my loud mouth is what is noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a lot - equally fiction and non-fiction.
I am quite fond of the following titles:
- The Name of the Wind & The Wise Mans fear - Patrick Rothfuss
- The Glass books of the dream eaters - series by Gordon Dahlquist
- King Rat - by China Mieville
- The Lord of the Rings - J. R. R. Tolkien
- Body Farm - Jefferson Bass
- The Poisoner's Handbook - Deborah Blum
- Hellboy and BPRD (Comics)
- Saga (Comics)
etc..etc..etc...

Movies/Music -
I watch a lot of movies and I listen to music constantly. I don't have a lot of specific favorites, but I have themes. If you asked me directly, I'd say the closest I could come would be:
Movies
- Le Pacte des loups
- The city of Lost children
- The Fall
- Amélie
- Equilibrium
- How to Train your Dragon, The Emperors New Grove and The Incredibles (don't judge, you know you love them too)
- The Harry Potter movies (when I need comfort)
- All of Mizaki's movies
- Anything Tarenteno touches
etc.

Music
- Jason Webly
- Tom Waits
- Amanda Palmer
- Tool
- Beats Antique
- Kultur Shock
- Deftones
- Gogol Bordello
- Metric
- Beth Orton
- Orbital
- Opera, I listen to Opera and I like it
Everything else.

Food
Food is what brings us together as humans, I love feeding people, I love cooking. I recently discovered that all things Gluten and I do not get along - so I'm getting to relearn a whole mess of my favorite recipes. My favorite comfort food on the planet? - Avocados.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My husband & the boyfriend
- Physical and Emotional Intimacy
- Listening to other people's stories
- Conversation
- Coffee
- A outlet of expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything! I over think, I'm pretty sure over thinking is a trait that most artists and writers are afflicted with. I think too much until I get the thoughts out - and that either means long conversations about everything and nothing or me covered in paint and smelling like smoke.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either: Spending a quiet night with my partners, or surrounded by friends drinking, laughing and generally being merry....or running off to go work (birth worker).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The nature of the internet is such that all things private eventually come out anyway. However, if you're so curious about my private things - you should ask me.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Realistically you can message me for any reason what so ever.
I'll respond if I:
A) Have time
B) You've proven yourself interesting enough to message back
C) If you strike my fancy. I do like fancy things.
D) You might interact well with my people - because my people are intrinsic to my sanity, they are also amazing.
E) You want to have a conversation and are willing to write a list of random facts about yourself.