I have many names and if you’re lucky you might get a chance to learn a few of them.
I make up a third of a poly household, my home is composed of my husband (TrickyC) and my boyfriend (Dharmansible). The three of us share a roof, a bed and coffee making responsibilities. The easiest way to explain our particular composition is an “open V triad” but both of my partners are of the opinion that, that description over simplifies things.
To be honest, and honesty is a keystone of mine. I’m not exactly shopping for a partner right now, I believe in stumbling upon chemistry as opposed to actively shopping for it. I do love to meet new people; but the best way to get close to me is to approach me without expectations. In fact: if you seem awesome, be prepared to be invited to a social event - I have a love of throwing people into slightly uncomfortable situations and seeing how they swim. If you can keep your head above water, I’ll likely adore you.
I’m an artist, a writer, a nerd, a tech and more over I am ever evolving. My priorities in life include a good cup of coffee, access to tea and a hip flask full of whiskey. I tend to fill my life with people who are creative in some way - I am most comfortable with people who aren't made nervous by concepts such as Burning Man, survival, gardening, cooking, drinking, eating, painting, singing and camping.
I tend to like conversations that last a little too long, fire that burns a little too hot and almost any sentence that starts with “I have an awesome/terrible idea”. I like introverts, I like extroverts that lean towards introvert - I like people who I can draw out, and I certainly adore people who can draw me out. I have a personal quest to find both someones calm and their feral sides, I do so with great glee and I reward them exponentially. I am currently on a personal journey to get more comfortable exploring vulnerability, and existing in a vulnerable space - in all of its discomfort - for as long as I can stomach. As a result, I talk about human nature a lot.