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46 M Saint Paul, MN

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:57pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I think the quote below says a lot about me and I thought I would try a different approach to reaching out to each of you - the biggest thing you should know about me is I am trying to change the world for the better through laughter and kindness... I hope to hear from you.

"Choose life over the other stuff. Get out of your head. Live. Dress up. Eat. Touch people. Help out. Give up. Love people. Give your best away. There's more. What's the problem? Relax. You're going to die. Throw a party. Eat off my plate. Sing to me. Meet me in the bedroom. Get a massage. Give one. Let your amazement out into the room. Pry open the box you hide your joy in".
- John Patrick Shanley

and I think this is important:
What I’m doing with my life
I am presently working at a restaurant as a host and singer.
I have been: An archaeologist, a professional actor and singer and done 7 National Broadway Tours, a manager, a retailer, a Summa cum laude graduate, a poet, a painter (both of art and of living room walls), etc... I want to continue to grow...
I’m really good at
Making others laugh, singing, enjoying warm weather and trying to learn to snowshoe in the cold. I also would like to get a kayak and do some more hiking... visiting and empathizing with other cultures has always been a hobby.
The first things people usually notice about me
Either my blue eyes or my sweet muffin ass.. (ha)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Robert Jordan, Christopher Moore, Shambhala, "The art of racing in the rain", Astronaut Autobiographies, "Memoirs of a Geisha",

Movies: The Color Purple, Kung Fu Hustle (Funniest movie of all time), Amelie, Audrey Hepburn (Anything), I can't even fill this out I watch movies ALL THE TIME... Love them - even the bad ones.

Shows: Dexter, Downton Abbey, (I don't watch much T.V.)

Music: Beethoven, Rachmaninov Piano Concerto No.3, Handel, Vaughn Williams - esp. Silent Noon, Rodrigo y Gabriella, Musicals, Ozzy, Mel Torme, Stacey Kent, Great Big Sea, Gyuto Monks, Harry Connick, Jr., Nickel Creek, Sean Paul, Marley, Silvertide, Shinedown, Beatles, Heavy Metal, Tony Bennet, Frank Sinatra, Anything Audrey Hepburn would listen to, I have a huge range of eclectic music tastes.

Food: Pistachio nuts, Crab Legs, Pizza, Carmel, Chocolate, Old Speckled Hen Beer, Indian Food, Sushi, Fondue
The six things I could never do without
My family, my friends, silence, movies, love, outdoors.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Don't look at the bankbook or the title. Look at the heart. Look at the soul. Look at how the guy treats his mother and what he says about women. How he acts with children he doesn't know. And, more important how does he treat you? When you're dating a man, you should always feel good. You should never feel "less than". You should never doubt yourself. - Michelle Obama
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are open minded and kind. If you like to laugh. If you can rebel sometimes. If you read. If you like good food, art, conversation. If you take care of your body and can encourage me to do the same. If you can go on a hike or sit by a fire.