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45 M Portland, OR

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:18am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Full restart on the profile, again, as of 10/03/10. Old one has again moved to the journal. I wish I'd kept a lot of my other writing from back in the day, but we didn't all have computers back then.

Maybe I'm starting to figure some of it out, after thinking I knew it all and then realizing I didn't know anything? Anyway, I'm the basic Portlander. Portlandroid. Whichever. Don't smoke, don't drink, what do you do (with apologies to Mr. Ant)?

My partner is on here, too - she's pdxcutiepi. We're in a committed, open relationship. You should probably be cool with that if we're going to have sparks fly, but we can also just hang out. (Recent edit: she's off the site on a little break. Stay tuned - she may return.)
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to do good, as much as possible. Or at least trying not to do ill. I'm getting myself from average to good health - cleaning up and taking better care. I like to exercise, I find. I'm reading, making music, and enjoying the company of others.
I’m really good at
I kinda hate this question. I'm ok and identifying things I need to get better at, but . . .well, you're sharp - you know what I was going to write.

I like word games. I can do crossword puzzles fairly quickly. I generate a lot of words on this website (amongst others). I'm good at sarcasm, but I'm trying to get out of practice.
The first things people usually notice about me
People notice that I look like Ewan McGregor, unless they don't think I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
American Lit, especially Southern Gothic (Faulkner, O'Connor, McCarthy - I guess).

Film Noir and the weirdest, funniest thing you've ever seen.

R&B and anything new to me.

Healthy, but chocolate too.
The six things I could never do without

Fortunately I'm in a relationship with someone who provides me with an abundance of all six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The future, and my place in it.

How different things are from when I knew what was going on.

Whether things will get better first, or worse.

What's going to be the most fun to do next.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have a typical Friday night, although Friday is a good night for shows.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't feel I eat enough candy.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
No particular reason. You should message me if you read this, basically. Or how about this - you should message me if you enjoyed any of the ridiculous volume of writing in this profile and my journals.