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58 M Santa Fe, NM

My Details

Last Online
Jan 3
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Atheism, and laughing about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Yuppie, hippie, gym rat, photographer, extremely open minded, athletic but not competitive, high sex drive in a spiritual way, polyamorous, non-religious, question everything I've been taught, heterosexual and gay friendly, comfortable with my body and yours. Into massage, sensuality, BDSM, tantra, play, fun, irreverence, not taking things to seriously, honesty, eye gazing, meaningful connection, deep communication.

Not into cosmetics, cigarettes, eating cows, television, drinking too much, drugs, misogyny, small talk.

I live with a beautiful woman with whom I have an open primary relationship. Having other friends and lovers is within bounds.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying my home, exercising a lot, exploring mountains and rivers, eating healthy, organizing hot tub parties and tantra workshops, seeking fun and play and erotic encounters, building community, pursuing my entrepreneurial career.
I’m really good at
Watsu, massage, loving, pleasing a woman, photography, writing software, bike riding, camping, backpacking, communicating, going deep, listening, sex, tantra.
The first things people usually notice about me
Shaved head, fit body, intelligent, sexual energy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
"Avatar." The story of our country.
The six things I could never do without
Exercise, healthy food, wild spaces, erotic ecstasy, community, lovers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
A better society, erotic fantasies, how to find like minded people, how to make good money when I'm not a natural capitalist, how to improve myself and my life, how to always grow and move forward.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the gym, on my bicycle, at the dinner table, at my computer, in the hot tub. with friends and lovers if I am lucky.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am sensitive and tend to take rejection hard and personally. However, I am working on QTIP (Quit Taking it Personally).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–48
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like my profile, and you are not afraid to show interest. I love women who show up and take a risk.

I promise to answer everyone who writes me, and I will be honest about whether you are my type. If we live nearby and we are attracted to each other, I will get together.