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I am crazy, rebellious, and poly
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Santa Fe, New Mexico, United States
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A friend of mine recently told me she felt violated and angry when
she returned from a shopping trip and the store clerk asked her for
her phone number.
"Why can't I go anywhere without some guy trying to hit on me? It's
not appropriate for a cashier to ask a customer for her
number!"
"What did he look like," I asked.
"Fat and not so attractive," she replied.
"And if he had been attractive?"
"Well, then I would have given him my number."
"Amd how was he to know whether you were interested without
asking?"
[long pause]
"He should have read my mind," she finally explained.
I have no further comment on this self-explanatory and rather
common illustration of bullshit, unless one of you apologists for
stupidity out there intercedes with a defense of this mentality.
A friend of mine recently told me she felt violated and angry whenshe returned from a shopping trip and the store clerk asked her forher phone number.
"Why can't I go anywhere without some guy trying to hit on me? It'snot appropriate for a cashier to ask a customer for hernumber!"
"What did he look like," I asked.
"Fat and not so attractive," she replied.
"And if he had been attractive?"
"Well, then I would have given him my number."
"Amd how was he to know whether you were interested withoutasking?"
[long pause]
"He should have read my mind," she finally explained.
I have no further comment on this self-explanatory and rathercommon illustration of bullshit, unless one of you apologists forstupidity out there intercedes with a defense of this mentality.
Mind Reading