I'm Jay (Jason), a 30 year old in the depths of boredom known as Niles. But I'm kind of a geek and definitely unconventional. Instead of a bar, I'm in a library or chatting up friends on various forums or on a video game. Doing drugs? I'm at a musical or opera. If you're too busy being self-centered and shallow? I'm still out there being the guy who thinks that true love and a happy ending exist, and still the guy who holds out your door and chair and actually listens to what you have to say without wanting a piece of ass. Shocker, right?
I can be crude at times, tell some off color and awkward sexual jokes, but don't let it fool you. I'm pretty darn romantic despite my silly behavior.
I'm also a father to a fantastic little girl that goes by the name of Bella. No, she wasn't named for Twilight. She lives in Maryland with her mother, but that doesn't change the fact she's still my girl and we chat everyday via phone or Skype. She's priority one, always. Believe me, I make sure that when I look for someone to date or fall for, she's not only good for me, but for Bella as well.
I'm also the type of guy to challenge your mind with lots of questions, both silly and intelligent. I like to make you think, and I like to stuff it to naysayers!
Lastly, I'm the guy who takes the time to read your profile before asking you an actual thought-provoking question. I make it a point to greet all those who visit my profile without me having to say something first, I'd expect the same courtesy. Show me you're the lady you claim to be, not a phony. Otherwise we're just wasting time.