Jay. 29. Stuck in perpetual awesomeness. Who knows what else to add? I never do.

Right now I work a lot of jobs. My main priority is to be a father to my little girl. She doesn't live here with me, but it doesn't change that fact. I'm also a front desk guy at a South Bend hotel, making people laugh with my own breed of sarcastic humor and wit. And on top of that you can find me a couple nights a week blazing the airwaves on 103.9 The Bear with my pal Maximus.

I'm fantastic at giving out blunt advice. No strings, no filter.

I'm also fantastic at just listening. Too many people want to interrupt you without hearing everything. I'll give you your time then respond.

Aside from that, I'm a good friend who will be loyal to someone who matters through thick and thin, no matter what hell I endure for them.

I'm a good parent...well, NOW. I'd love to say I was prior to, but sadly that is not the case.

Honestly, my weight. I'm a bigger guy, about 300, so they notice that. When I start to talk it changes to what I have to say over what I look like. I'm blunt and stupid and there's no filter to what I have to say, again.

I've got some nice brown eyes hidden behind glasses, so you'll have to watch me intently. I like that. ;)

For books - I will read anything. :D Right now I'm finishing The Hunger Games series, and Stephen King's 'Under The Dome'.

Movies - Not picky. If it's scary, give me someone to cuddle, I'm a wimp.

Shows - Doctor Who. 'Nuff said.

Food - Italian cuisine, but I'm on a diet. Or I tell myself that.

1. My daughter.
2. My cellular device.
3. Internet access.
4. The love of my family and friends.
5. Companionship.
6. A TARDIS.

(Obviously water/food/air/shelter are not on this list. I consider those defaults.)

My future. I've wasted a lot of it, but I won't let it define me.

My happiness. I mean, we all want to be happy at the end of the day. I think of how I can be happy as well as make others happy.

I also think about life, and what we do with each action. Not just for ourselves, but everyone. Even a simple hello to a homeless person could make them happy. Just to know they matter to someone.

You'll either find me with a couple friends on the radio or you won't find me, as I'll be home with a good book or movie. I'm no bar scene guy, so if I'm there I'm the DD.

But, as I've said numerous times in my life, all things change.

That I've made mistakes with my child as far as bad parenting and I have to work every day to fix them for her sake.

Message me if you want to talk, hang out, get to know a decent fellow in a sea of idiots.

If you're looking for some casual conversation with someone goofy.

If you like video games, sci-fi, zombies, cuddles, or bacon.

If you saw that I checked you out...that means I'm interested enough to want to say something, but I'm unsure what to say just yet. SOMEONE BREAK THE ICE.

Or if you're bored and desperate. That works too!

And if you made it this far, at least let me know whether I'm a fit for talking with you or not. Saves both your time and mine to know not to message you back saying thank you.

Really, go on. It's a button away. DO IT.