Please read my ENTIRE profile before you add me or write to me. Anyone who is sincerely interested in me will take the time to read what I have written about myself. I will do the same, and I'll even look at what tests you took. Males should not even bother, with the exception of classical musicians (especially string players) who accept that I'm 100% sexually off-limits and are therefore interested only in networking or platonic friendship. Otherwise, males will be referred to my muscular husband (see pictures).

I don't intend to come off as a harsh person. I'm really not. It's just that I've had a lot of time wasted by people who've disregarded what I've written so I want to make it 100% clear what I want and don't want.

If you are serious about having a lesbian "friends with benefits" relationship that might lead to something more, please read on.

I'm a feminine girl seeking other feminine girls for sexual friendship. I'm married to my Master RRRR_Composer, the only man who interests me at all. I therefore emphasize that I am NOT even remotely interested in receiving any messages from any males for any reason, ever (again, with the exception of classical musicians-- I want to make contacts in this area because I'm new to the country and I don't know many people). Except for my husband/Master, I consider myself to be 100% lesbian, and have NO desire for ANY other men. He approves of my lesbianism & seeking feminine females for intimate friendship. He is kind & gentle toward me. I enjoy obeying him. But I don't want to be dominated by a female. I think there's something unnatural about dominant females within relationships. I want us to be soft & feminine with each other. Although I'm submissive with my Master, I tend not to be in other areas, such as with friends, work relationships, and so forth. For example, running my own business some day is a distinct possibility. This is not to say that I'm domineering in any sense (that's another quality I find especially unappealing in females), but I don't mind running the show, depending on what the show is. I hope this is clear.

Back to the sex part...

I also want to be 100% clear about this: I want to have sex with other girls, and I want my Master to see it. He wants to see it, too, but he will not touch the other girl sexually at all. (Experience has shown that he can control himself quite well. He appreciates that I am a bit of an exhibitionist, so this works out well for both of us.) He is extremely chivalrous. He always opens my door (he'll open yours, too), never lets me carry anything heavy, and he is my protector. He is extremely respectful of feminine softness.

We are not even minutely interested in any other male involvement to even the slightest degree. This is not open to negotiation, so don't even ask. (Actually, none of this is open to negotiation. I can compromise about many things, but not about what I've written in this profile.)

So I've discovered that I'm attracted to women, but I haven't had much experience yet-- but I want more! I'm very soft & feminine; I'd like to find someone who shares these qualities, so femmes only, no butches, please. I'd like to find someone with well above-average brains, too. This means you're much too smart to believe in astrology, tarot, karma, or other idiotic superstitions with the exception of religion. (I lose interest in people when they start to say stupid things.) No smokers or drug-users. (There will be NO exceptions.) I don't like sex toys or using any objects at all.

Also, if you wear natural animal fur or be otherwise cruel to animals, I will not want to meet you, and you should be ashamed of yourself.

I'm not seeking one-night stands, but I'm definitely looking for a lesbian sexual friendship. This could mean anything from friendship-with-benefits to an ongoing relationship with emotional attachment.

My English isn't perfect, so be patient with my errors. I'll be patient with yours if English isn't your native language, but there's just no excuse for writing badly if you were raised in an English-speaking country.

Other than what I've already written above, I need to add this:

My Master and I are in Maine for the time being, but we may relocate, most likely to the Boston. This depends largely on how our job-hunting goes. We travel there once in a while.

I find tattoos unattractive, but I can put up with small ones if a girl is otherwise attractive. I also don't like piercings other than on the ears, but I can tolerate a navel piercing, maybe a tiny nose stud if a girl has enough other attractive qualities, and I don't just mean physical ones. I also insist on good grooming. This means you remove the hair from your legs, armpits, etc. (This should be obvious.) A shaven pussy is also a big plus. (Mine is.)

By now it should be clear that, while I'm looking for sex, I'm not looking for ONLY sex, otherwise I wouldn't have written so much about my preferences beyond sexuality.

Looking for a job... I'm new to the USA. We recently relocated to Maine, where my Master grew up, from Malaysia, where I spent the past five years and he the past year and a half. Before that, I lived in China, where I grew up.

Playing the violin

sex

I've never asked them.

Chinese literature, Sherlock Holmes, and, yes, I'm into Harry Potter.

Music: CLASSICAL! Paganini, Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, Tchaikovsky, Schubert, Chopin, Dvorak, Vivaldi... etc

Food: Is this really important? For what it's worth, my Master and I are both vegetarians because we love animals. We/I don't require that in any girl who joins us, though.

When I created my OKCupid account, my English name was Nancy. In real life, I've changed it to Mia, but OKCupid won't let me change my member name.

if you think you might be the right girl for me and if any of this makes you delirious with passion.