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35 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Polish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a warm, caring and passionate person, who loves meaningful and deep connections, as much as being spontaneous, lighthearted, romantic, fun and silly :)

I'm very grateful for having had an amazing journey so far, having always been a big romantic dreamer and passionate do-er has allowed me to fulfill lots of my dreams while they were burning, from being a software engineer girl in the cool companies in Germany, to becoming a singer and performing in awesome bands, to having my own business and world traveling within the perfect Freelancer life, to owning a beautiful Portrait Photography Atelier where I loved sharing my gift of capturing the poetic magic of a person and enjoyed making lots of people now being so lucky to live in SF, surrounded by inspiring and loving friends, building Iphone Apps and designing own ideas, hoping to enrich the world and giving back, and finding myself pretty close to done with my (first) bucketlist ;)

All dreams that are left now are much more special with someone wonderful together to share with! And that's what I'm looking for..
A warm-hearted, loving, fun, confident and loyal man, who is affectionate, romantic, empathetic and optimistic, and has a good sense of humor and a beautiful way of celebrating the small and big things in life together day to day. Someone who sees life full of possibilities, and who wishes to share it and to fall in love with it even more, with a passionate, creative, sweet girl in his arms. Someone who believes in the power of love, dedication and compassion, and arrived at the place in his life, where he feels the longing to meet that special woman to build up something magical and meaningful, to surround life with playful, romantic fun, un-learn to be too serious, inspire each other to shoot beyond all dreams, to seize and celebrate everyday’s passion and happiness, to grow and learn together, to hold each other tight, make each other smile and feel loved.. Someone to share dreams, plans, laughs, passions and love with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
“Let the beauty of what you love be what you do.” (Rumi)
“With love and patience, nothing is impossible.” (Daisuke Ikeda)
both together describe it pretty well..
Concretely: Being passionate about each part of my life, striving for doing & being what I love and loving, wanting and having fun with what I’m doing and being.. Letting the sparks of inspiration and love guide my life.. Being deeply connected with people in my life as if they were family.. Growing, learning, loving, being excited, feeling alive and laughing a lot.

..what that translated into so far in my life:
I grew up in Germany & the Netherlands, enjoyed my university time at the swiss border, loved living for a beautiful while in Sydney, and worked 7 years as a software engineer while having my creative outlet as singer in coverbands, and as an artist and portrait photographer in my wodden atelier on weekends.
2 years ago then an adventure brought me to San Francisco. It started as a dream to live somewhere warmer at the water, and grew into a spontaneous entrepreneurial experiment of becoming an engineer freelancer, finding 2 companies that dedicate their projects to working with me for a year in advance, leaving my atelier and gifting away all my belongings to friends and family until my life was as light as 1 suitcase and a laptop - which felt just amazing, energizing, light and inspiring - and left for a tour around the world, to find the "perfect place to be"..
I found SF being one of 3 most wonderful cities to live for a software engineer and nature and ocean lover like me, and got very lucky getting an offer while traveling that I couldn't reject.. and stayed ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- good energy
- seeing opportunities & attracting good things in life
- being overwhelmed by an idea, a sensation and passion
- inspiring friends to follow their dreams and finding their purpose
- living adventurously and feeling like a "world citizen"
- singing (and I looove karaoke ;) )
- dancing passionately
- having too many ideas for iphone apps
- seeing the beautiful sides in people
- helping friends that are stuck, with lots of socratic questions, diagrams, brainstorming lists, goal scribbles and hugs ;)
- smelling good
- being euphoric and unreasonably passsionate :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warmth & Positive energy
My european accent
People often start talking russian to me, and are surprised they guessed wrong ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Art of Possibility, Road less traveled, Veronika decides to die, The Alchemist

I don't own a TV anymore since 14 years, but I love watching a movie, mostly ones that make me think, laugh, or that inspire me.. and I looove TED talks :)

A lot, but also just love Pandora for surprising me with new songs :)
Currently.. Dave Matthews, Of Monsters and Men, Kings of Leon, Apocalyptica, Incubus, Blink 182, Imagine Dragons, OneRepublic, The Script, Sarah McLachlan, Katy Perry, Lady Antebellum, Mumford & Sons, Barenaked Ladies, Indigo Girls, Avicii, R. Kelly, Oasis, and some of the really awesome covering YouTube artists!

Fresh good food, thai, japanese, german, polish (pierogies mmmhmm!!), italian, ..actually nearly everything when it's made well :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Loving & being loved, my amazing, warm, inspiring friends & family
The magic of surprises, playfulness & spontaneity :)
Laughing, jumping, dancing, cuddling :)
A Camera to conserve beautiful moments
The breathtaking excitement of having a big dream & taking action
Making music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dreams & goals & motivation... unbelievably picturesque nature / trees / the ocean is.... that I'd love to learn to draw to conserve all the sweet little moments that I can't take pictures of..... that I'd love to find someone to dance with..... the essence of happiness and our path of finding it within ourselves..... and loooots of daydreaming :)

Currently also on my mind: What I could do with my life longterm to contribute towards helping people live their dreams and inspire their world of family and friends to do the same, because we are our best selves when we are doing what we love and are passionate about, and start to spark everyone we meet. So thinking about ways to create that for others with what i can do..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday nights I'm rather relaxing off the week, having some good food, watching a nice movie, cuddling, or being with people I love, creating something together, going for some karaoke, or preparing for a weekend trip to Sonoma / Mt Tamalpais / Santa Cruz ... :)

But generally i love to do (with you? ;) ) ...
- being in nature and laying in fresh soft grass,
- laughing, play-fighting on the ground, being silly, cuddling, ..
- dining out, having drinks with friends, singing at a karaoke bar, going on weekend trips together, vacations with friends
- learning something new together (could be a new technology, something artistic, growing in our ways of thinking, learning about psychology, languages, instruments, cooking..),
- pausing for a beautiful view and breathing in, listening to the relaxing rythm of waves at the beach, fresh peaceful air in the mountains, the morning sound of birds, smell of suncreme, ..
- creating together (developing life goals together, making music, learning to draw, doing a photo-shoot for friends, creating a new iphone app idea in a cafe on a free afternoon, ..)
- meaningful conversations,
- singing (together? ;) ) or listening to someone playing guitar/piano..,
- dancing passionately (partner dances,.. )
- traveling together, getting lost and laughing about it, enjoying the surprise of the journey..
- being at beautiful or peaceful places, australia, new zealand, canada, france,..
- having spontanious courageous ideas that change life ;)
- enjoying cozy time at home, an inspiring movie, ..
- dreaming, seeing possibilities, motivating, inspiring, sharing passion
- driving away for the weekend or a month and creating something together (anything.. creative projects, learning a new skill, dance or business idea,..),
- or just enjoying to have no plans and having this wonderful time to just relax together, enjoying the moment, laughing about another and celebrating life.
Life can be quite amazing and juicy, and I know it's completely up to us to create that. But ultimately, I think it's more about who you're with than what you're doing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If you know a bit about MBTI types:
I'm naturally attracted to a partner that is an INFJ or an ENFJ, when they do have a playful/fun side and are affectionate.

I'm secretly dreaming of having a reason to live for a while in either Australia, Canada, France, Italy, or on a (warm) island.. even just temporarily :)

Also always dreamt of creating one of those really professional looking youtube music videos, collaborating with someone covering a song :)
Like this for example:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are someone empathetic who enjoys caring for each other and making your loved ones laugh, are optimistic, playful, kind, passionate, romantic, have loved before (!) and you can put thinking aside and just be silly at times :)
Maybe a dreamer yourself, open to share and take action on dreams together and like to see yourself as a supportive partner being curious for your partners dreams too.

If having a loving relationship is a priority for you, and you can't wait leaving this site, growing and inspiring the best out of each other..

And maybe you are even into creative outlets like making music / art / graphic design / portrait photography / dancing / building apps ;) or traveling and escaping to beautiful places on weekends :)