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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:46pm
Native American, White
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's really hard to do this part. as It makes me feel as if I'm being full of myself. I am a bit shy (yes being my age and still shy is kinda bad I suppose). However, once I get comfortable, things get better from there.

I watch football from time to time every season. I'm a Panthers fan. This year they seem to want to make me on edge every game!

I game. Whether it be video, board or cards. It is who I am. Grew up around it and it is a part of my life. I fully tend to take up streaming when I have the chance to. No this doesn't mean I need to "grow up" and it also doesn't mean I'll ignore anyone over a game.

I'd like to think that I'm fairly smart, and of course I always like learning. I have good blend of common sense and book smarts. Although some of the things I do, make it seem like I lack severely in both of those departments. I don't know my personality type, however. If you're willing to guess and let me know, then by all means!

I firmly believe in establishing a friendship first and seeing where that leads.

I am loyal to a fault. Some say that's a good thing, others say it's bad. All I know is when my eye is on someone that has their eye on me, then no other girl matters. So I'd like to meet someone with the same respect in that regards.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Currently making a life pit-stop in Maryland. Will probably be here about 2 months (given everything goes the way it is supposed to), while things start trying to get back in order with my life. I figured I could try and meet someone in the meantime. Who knows what could happen, no?

Feeling like I am meant to be back in Myrtle Beach, I'll be there whenever I can get there, but it doesn't hurt to try and meet someone beforehand. My friends are already looking forward to having me back around and have told me that I will be social once I return. (Ha. Joke's on them!)

I'm on the track to actually taking control of my life again. The journey will be long and hard, but I know it'll pay off in the end. For once, I'm excited to finally conquer the fears that have weighed me down for so long (except clowns, spiders and heights. Those are still the 3 nopes).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not breaking the ice really well. heh. It's hard for me to try and start a conversation, but I promise I can keep one going.

Making people laugh. Whether it is intentional or not, I can't tell you. Most of the time it's spur-of-the-moment comments that cause people to fall out laughing. Main thing is, my brain doesn't use the common sense filter half the time, so it's always an adventure to see what spews forth.

I'm also really good at listening. It's such a rare quality, I know. But I enjoy listening more than I do talking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair then my eyes. Or is it the other way around?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: My taste in books varies. I really enjoyed reading the DragonLance series. Jurassic Park was also a real good book. Haven't really had anything interesting pop out at me lately, however.

Movies: I like some comedies, action, although I'm sporadic on the horror. I like horror, not gore. I feel like ever since Saw and movies like that, people have relied on shock value for horror. Like "Oh let's have all this blood and guts spurting everywhere, that's scary!" No, that's just sick. I'm old school when it comes to horror. Letting your mind scare the bajeebus out of you instead of being told when to be scared. But that's getting off track! I also enjoy the Fantasy movies like Willow, Conan, Legend, etc. I grew up in the 80s where those movies were kinda prominent.

Music: I'm open about music, with the exception of country and real hardcore rap. I just don't do well with either of those categories.

Foods: Practically anything other than what I don't like. I hate onions and peppers and no there is nothing "wrong" with me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food. 2. Air (as long as Spaceballs don't try to steal it and make us pay for canned air!) 3. My music. 4. Computer. 5. Food (so nice I listed it twice) 6. I know there's something else, can't quite put my finger on it... Hmmm.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If people actually read profiles or just see a picture and go "yep" or "nope". How many profiles are actually real people.

More seriously I think about Snu Snu (the spirit is willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised!) and If you got that thing I sent you. (bonus cookies for getting the reference to the latter!)

Ok for real serious, my brain goes 100 mph. Sometimes I think about literally nothing, other times I think so hard I over-analyze. Could be about anything from wondering why something isn't working to what I want to eat for breakfast out of 2 choices.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
As it stands right now? Probably gaming or figuring if I want to stream. Checking out the new "like" system on here by clicking like on random people. You never know what may come of it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I would say a few things but that defeats the purpose of getting to know someone if they ruin all the mystery.

ok fine, I'll give you a freebie: I'm afraid of clowns. Wait no, I already admitted to that. Hmmm. Ok sure: I've only been on 3 dates my entire life. *awaits the massive laughs and self-esteem crushing that comes forth*
You should message me if
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You survived my novel of a profile and decide that I'm worth getting to know. If you're a gamer and wouldn't mind adding another gamer to PSN or anything. So don't be shy, shoot me a message.