Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's so hard self-describing oneself. It makes me feel as if I'm
being full of myself. I am a bit shy (yes being my age and still
shy is kinda taboo I suppose) and I may come across a bit awkward
when trying to start a conversation, because I'm not really great
at those things. However, once the ball gets rollin' it gets
I really try to be far from the negative Southern stereo-type as I
can get. I don't have much of a southern accent as some people have
brought to my attention (but there are a bit of times my NC roots
I watch football from time to time every season. I'm a Panthers
fan. I know I'm in "Dirty Bird" territory but what can I say, I
support my home franchise. :)
I'm also a gamer. Now I know some people may have an issue with
that, but it's not a 24/7 thing. So all worries of me sitting on
the couch in cut-off jean shorts and not showering for days playing
video games can be laid to rest. I also won't ignore people to play
a game, that's just stupid. If you want to play games (video,
board, card) with me? Even better! Don't let it fool you, I know
when to play and when to not.
I'd like to think that I'm fairly smart, and of course I always
like learning. I have good blend of common sense and book smarts.
Although some of the things I do, make it seem like I lack severely
in both of those departments.
I firmly believe in establishing a friendship first and seeing
where that leads. The time of my rashness about jumping straight
into a relationship is at an end.
I am loyal to a fault. Some say that's a good thing, others say
it's bad. All I know is when my eye is on someone that has their
eye on me, then no other girl matters. So I'd like to meet someone
with the same respect in that regards.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
First off, I'm helping take care of the household while a parent is
not well, (things are improving). I know many consider this a "red
flag", but it is what it is. That doesn't mean I can't go out and
have fun too. Looking into going back to college. Perhaps finish
this damn book I've been working on for years.
I'm on the track to actually taking control of my life again. The
journey will be long and hard, but I know it'll pay off in the end.
For once, I'm excited to finally conquer the fears that have
weighed me down for so long (except clowns, spiders and heights.
Those are still the 3 nopes).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. It comes natural to me and I always enjoy
trying to make someone laugh when they're having a bad day. I've
been known as one of those people who you just can't stay mad at.
I'm well aware I mentioned earlier I'm shy, but I do try my best to
make people laugh when I get in my comfort zone!
Not letting my brain filter before I speak. What can I say? The
words just have to come out! I think my brain trolls me and just
sees what would happen when I let things slip out. Sometimes I'll
have people rolling, others times I am wishing what I said went
through the filter. :p
I'm also really good at listening. It's such a rare quality, I
know. But I enjoy listening more than I do talking, of course if I
start talking about something I enjoy then you will have to just go
for the ride!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair. It seems women love it so much that I've been threatened
if I cut it again. :P I've also been told my eyes are amazing and
deep and all of that stuff. I don't quite see what's awesome about
them, but hey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: My taste in books varies. I really enjoyed reading the
DragonLance series. Jurassic Park was also a real good book.
Haven't really had anything interesting pop out at me lately,
Movies: I like some comedies, action, although I'm sporadic on the
horror. I like horror, not gore. I feel like ever since Saw and
movies like that, people have relied on shock value for horror.
Like "Oh let's have all this blood and guts spurting everywhere,
that's scary!" No, that's just sick. I'm old school when it comes
to horror. Letting your mind scare the bajeebus out of you instead
of being told when to be scared. But that's getting off track! I
also enjoy the Fantasy movies like Willow, Conan, Legend, etc. I
grew up in the 80s where those movies were kinda prominent.
Music: 80s music, VG Music, symphony-type stuff. Fantasy/symphonic
Metal (bands like Leaves' Eyes, Lunatica, Battlelore, etc...)
Ambient Horror (Dargaard, Arcana, etc...) My music tastes tend to
change somewhat, but you'll usually find a lot of ambient-type
Foods: Practically anything other than what I don't like. I hate
onions and peppers and no there is nothing "wrong" with me. :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Food. 2. Air (as long as Spaceballs don't try to steal it and
make us pay for canned air!) 3. My music. 4. Computer. 5. Food (so
nice I listed it twice) 6. I know there's something else, can't
quite put my finger on it... Hmmm.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I charged my phone (chances are, nope). Snu Snu (the spirit is
willing, but the flesh is spongy and bruised!) and if you got that
thing I sent you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to keep busy. Also checking out the new "like" system on
OKCupid. Random like clicking ftw! Never know who (or what) may
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a big dork, don't tell anyone. K?
Accents do tend to drive me completely bonkers (and I mean that in
the good way). Just get all weak in the knees!
I have a huge fear of spiders, heights and....clowns. Don't judge
You should message me if
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You survived my novel of a profile and decide I'm just that crazy
kinda cool to get to know. Are also a big nerd about things.
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