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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:04pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, my name is Nat and I'm a native New Yorker who moved back to North Scottsdale (Shea Boulevard & the 101) from the Boston area in December 2006. And, while I don't have an accent, I do still have my New York edge!

I am not your average guy here on OKCupid. I'm looking for a long term relationship, but I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. In addition, I'm not here to waste my time or yours. I'm only interested in a meaningful and exclusive relationship with a like-minded woman. First and foremost, I'd like to meet someone who is kind and playful that I can laugh with and have fun with. You should also be someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection and believe that it's the little everyday things in life that matter the most. I'm also looking for someone who is attractive to me on the outside, is a good person on the inside, and believes as I do that you can have fun doing anything as long as you're with the right person. Honesty (yes, that includes current photos), trustworthiness, a good heart, minimal carry on baggage (kids of any age are NOT baggage in my book), a love of family, friendship, romance, attentiveness, a great kisser (this is soooooo important!!!), and my equal in banter are all things I value and want.

Beyond that, I've spent the bulk of my career working in the marketing field in the sports, entertainment. consumer products and retail industries (LA Gear, NBA, NASCAR, M Group Scenic Studios, Simon Property Group, Gannett, Inc.), as well as operating my own marketing, public relations, events, corporate sponsorship and social media consultancy. I've had a blessed career and have been very lucky to have experienced the things I've experienced and met the people I have met along the way.

Basically I love life and love living life. All that's missing is living it and sharing it with someone special! I know it's hard to get to know someone by just a few photos and a couple of paragraphs. I can't guarantee you that we already have a lot in common but if you like what you’ve read and find out we do, I’d love to hear from you!

P.S. I am EXTREMELY allergic to cats so if you have a cat, this just won't work!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
1) Being a Toys"R"Us kid!
2) Searching for my best friend and partner in crime.
3) Living my life and doing the best I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Being there.
2) Staying positive.
3) Making you laugh.
4) Kissing (or so I've been told!)
5) Making someone feel special.
6) Speaking my mind (I'm a native New Yorker. I'm not shy!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OMG!!! What? Who’s noticing me? Should I be concerned?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
1) Classic Rock
2) Alternative
3) POP
4) Jazz
5) Blues

1) I could go to the movies every day of the week!
2) Anything but Horror.

1) Sushi, sushi and sushi! Did I say sushi?
2) Shellfish/Fish
3) Chinese/Thai/Vietnamese
4) Steak
5) Italian
6) Pizza (but I'm a pizza snob!)
7) Breakfast
8) Bagels & Lox
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family
2) My friends
3) My cell phone
4) My computer
5) Romance/kissing/sex
6) Sushi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1) Coming up with funny and clever answers to this question.
2) Ways to make my new business successful.
3) How nice it would be to meet someone the old fashioned way. You know, the note in class that says, "Do you like me? Check yes or no."
4) How long it will take me to get off this website.
5) How this world got to be so messed up.
6) How long it will take politicians to realize it's about the people and not them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I’m usually out with friends for Happy Hour, dinner and/or a movie. As long as it involves a good time with good people, I’m there! If I'm not out, typically I'm at home decompressing and relaxing. Hopefully, I'll be out with you or cooking dinner together over a bottle of wine in the near future!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmmmmm...for me to know and you to find out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
1) You're ready for and serious about wanting a relationship.
2) You haven't lied in your profile.
3) You haven't posted photos that are 10-15 years old.
4) You won't hold past boyfriend/husband issues against me.
5) You're looking for someone who is attentive and caring.
6) You're romantic, affectionate and like to hold hands, kiss, etc.
7) You can be my equal in banter.
8) You think we're a match.
9) You want to!

And, if you'd like to know more, you could always check out all those questions I’ve answered for OKC. Compare, it’s fun! But don’t get too hung up on one or two differences.