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NatInAZ

55 / M / Straight / Single

Scottsdale, Arizona

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
~~~ WELCOME TO MY PROFILE ~~~

Wouldn't it be great to write down all the things you want in a partner, that is if you could actually identify them all in a list, and then special-order that person? Unfortunately, things don't work that way and that would take all the fun and excitement out of dating wouldn't it?

My name is Nat and I'm a native New Yorker who moved back to North Scottsdale from the Boston area in December 2006 to be closer to my Dad, who was gravely ill at the time and has since passed away. I'm down to earth, easy going, a romantic at heart and still believe there's someone special out there for me.

I'd like to meet someone who is playful that I can laugh with, who is comfortable giving affection, receiving affection and believes that it's the little everyday things in life that matter the most. I'm looking for someone who is attractive to me on the outside and a good person inside whose philosophy on life is the same as mine; you can have fun doing anything as long as you're with the right person.

Honesty (yes, that includes current photos), trustworthiness, minimal carry on baggage (kids ARE NOT baggage in my book), a love of family, friendship, romance, femininity (a girly girl who loves to wear dresses/skirts, stockings/garters, heels/stilettos, etc. but can also rock shorts/jeans, a t-shirt, sneakers and a baseball cap as well), a good heart, attentiveness, a great kisser (this is soooooo important!!!), and my equal in banter, all wrapped up in a cute package, are things I value. I have a pretty balanced life. Meeting the right woman to share it with is all that's missing!

Beyond that, I've spent the bulk of my career working in the sports, entertainment and retail industries (LA Gear, NBA, NASCAR, M Group Scenic Studios, Simon Property Group) and currently operate my own marketing, public relations and social media consultancy. I've had a blessed career and have been very lucky to have experienced the things I've experienced and met the people I have met along the way.

I don’t need a woman to make me happy, but a passionate, loving, monogamous relationship with the right woman would be the icing on this life’s cake. It seems that everyone is looking for the same thing here...a person that is confident, self sufficient, independent, has a job, is drama free, etc. If I told you I was all that and more, would you believe me? Well, if you drop me a line and get to know me, then you could be the judge of that for yourself. Let’s see if there's a spark because without a spark you can’t have fireworks :o)

P.S. I am extremely allergic to cats. If you have a cat, this just won't work!
What I’m doing with my life
1) Being a Toys"R"Us kid!
2) Searching for my best friend and partner in crime.
2) Looking for a woman who knows the difference between your and you're.
4) Living my life and doing the best I can.
I’m really good at
1) Being there.
2) Staying positive.
3) Making you laugh.
4) Kissing (or so I've been told!)
5) Speaking my mind (I'm a native New Yorker. I'm not shy!)
The first things people usually notice about me
OMG!!! What? Who’s noticing me? Should I be concerned?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC
1) Classic Rock
2) Alternative
3) POP
4) Jazz
5) Blues

MOVIES
1) I could go to the movies every day of the week!
2) Anything but Horror.

FOOD
1) Sushi, sushi and sushi! Did I say sushi?
2) Shellfish/Fish
3) Chinese/Thai/Vietnamese
4) Steak
5) Italian
6) Pizza (but I'm a pizza snob!)
7) Breakfast
8) Bagels & Lox
The six things I could never do without
1) My family
2) My friends
3) My cell phone
4) My computer
5) Romance/kissing/sex
6) Sushi
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1) Coming up with funny and clever answers to this question.
2) Ways to make my new business successful.
3) How nice it would be to meet someone the old fashioned way. You know, the note in class that says, "Do you like me? Check yes or no."
4) How long it will take me to get off this website.
5) How this world got to be so messed up.
6) When will politicians realize it's about the people and not them.
On a typical Friday night I am
I’m usually out with friends for Happy Hour, dinner and/or a movie. As long as it involves a good time with good people, I’m there! If I'm not out, typically I'm at home decompressing and relaxing. Hopefully, I'll be out with you or cooking dinner together over a bottle of wine in the near future!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmmmmm...for me to know and you to find out!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 46–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
1) You're ready for and serious about wanting a relationship.
2) You haven't lied in your profile.
3) You haven't posted photos that are 10-15 years old.
4) You won't hold past boyfriend/husband issues against me.
5) You aren't shallow and stupid and have a career and life that makes you happy.
6) You're looking for someone who is attentive and caring.
7) You're romantic, affectionate and like to hold hands, kiss, etc.
8) You can be my equal in banter.
9) You think we're a match.
10) You want to!

I would love my first date to be with someone who initially takes my breath away when we meet and then I spend the rest of the night trying to catch it.