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31 Roanoke, VA Man


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  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from high school
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I dislike self summaries, there always seems to be something I feel as if I left out, or should take away. So I'm going the 'mysterious' man approach instead.

Take time to learn about me through conversation, it'll be much more insightful than a bunch of words in a box anyways.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Sometimes I feel as if I'm wasting it with a full time job. Work is important, well, monies are important. But outside of that I'm trying to explore more interests, either things I've thought about for a long time, or dive into brand new one's altogether.

I want to explore, to travel more, I've always wanted to visit Ireland or Japan, I want to visit a nudist resort for a weekend and see if I'd truly like to live that sort of lifestyle (side note: I do enjoy being naked, it's not a sexual thing, it's comfort. But I also love clothes too, which is the main reason I don't consider myself a nudist, just someone who's comfortable in his own skin).

I enjoy learning about things, laughing at anything from genuinely funny-intentional humor, to dark or sarcastic humor. I'm not easily offended, but I do have certain things I draw a line on.

This box sort of goes along with the self summary, in a nutshell I'm living my life every day like everyone else, whether or not it's "meaningful" is up to perception. As to me, I'm happy with where I am, the person I am, my morals, values and interests. I do believe in self improvement, or acquiring new skills whenever possible, but that's entirely on me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading/digging into people's heads. While I'm sure I could use this skill for some nefarious objective, I mostly use it to talk things out with people, let them rant and just clear their heads.

I like to think of myself as a problem solver, partially why I enjoy strategic games or when something goes awry at work.

Being creative and imaginative, part of that has to do with my love of writing, the other is that I enjoy being spontaneous and surprising people in interesting ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I take care of myself, not meaning I hit the gym all the time (honestly I'm not a fitness nut, tried to get into that mindset and just..cant), but I dress well, keep the beard neatly trimmed, though I may allow a day or two to go between shaving my head. I know how much of a turn off it is to see someone who's sloppy, or doesn't smell nice and I personally -hate- the whole 'swag' thing, with sagging pants, wearing clothes 2-3 times larger than what the person is built for.

I project myself in a way that gets noticed, without going overboard. I'm not the 'life of the party' kind of person, doesn't suit me. Instead, I carry myself with a quiet confidence, I know my strengths and my weaknesses, I don't try to make myself out to be what I'm not. In general, I don't bother drawing much, if any, attention to myself in a large group or crowd. I do however have an entirely different approach in a small group, or as I prefer it, one-on-one. Perhaps I'm a bit of an introvert in that respect, though I don't think of myself as one because other issues an introvert struggles with I don't.

I've also found lately that people tend to find me to be very "familiar", even if they've never met me before. Easy to talk to, good listener, very unbiased in opinions when necessary. I simply tell people truth, even if it's not the truth they want to hear.

* Open to anyone who views my profile * Even if you don't really feel inclined to pursue an on-going conversation, that's fine, I'd still like to know "what did you first notice about me?". I'm actually kind of curious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - I'm mainly a fan of fiction and fantasy titles. If I crave non-fiction I'll pick up a Bible or turn on the news. Recent title/authors I've been reading: Chronicles of Narnia, currently on book 4. (C.S. Lewis); Chronicle of Brothers, series unfinished (Wendy Alec); Game of Thrones series, also unfinished; Otherkin (Nina Berry); Several novels of the Forgotten Realms series (various authors, but generally anything by Ed Greenwood); The Night Circus (Erin Morgenstern); The Hunger Games(Suzanne Collins); Black Jewels series (Anne Bishop), All Souls Trilogy (Deborah Harkness), Clockwork Dagger (Beth Cato), those are the ones I can think of off the top of my head, I love to read though I just don't keep track of them all. I personally use a Nook from Barnes&Noble, though the Kindle is just as good I suppose. It's a personal dream to one day have a library full of stacks of hard cover books, while the Nook is great, there's still an authentic gratification from flipping through paper, the feel, the smell, holding it in your hands rather than a digital screen sliding in front of you.

Movies - Far too many titles to think of right now. I don't really focus on directors or actors, more about themes. I love going out to movies, but it has to be a truly "theater worthy" film for me to bother anymore. Lately some DVDs that I've been watching are; Pride & Prejudice, Fiddler on the Roof, any of the Marvel movies, LotR series, Hobbit series (this one is theater worthy) The Hunger Games series, etc. Generally action and/or comedies.

TV - I'm not much of a tv watcher honestly, I do however have a few staple shows that I consider myself fairly devoted to. Big Bang Theory, How I Met Your Mother, American Dad, Family Guy, Simpsons, Bar Rescue, Game of Thrones, True Blood, The Strain are among the only ones I can think of.

I'm absolutely love Pandora, it has introduced me to great artists of all sorts. I'm really a fan of classical, electronic/world type of music. I do enjoy vocals to a degree, detest rap and r&b. Some country as well.

Food - Varied like music, I have to avoid heavy milk content things and try to avoid overly spicy foods. But most anything else I'm good with.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Again, a question I'm not fond of the wording. So, instead, six things that I really really love and would hate to be restricted from forever.

Massages/Back Scratches
My incredibly comfortable bed
Internet connection, be it by phone, pc, tablet
My Texas Hold 'em poker "league"
Sweet Tea from McDonalds (one in particular, Vinton makes awesome tea)
My family, even if they annoy the crap out of me sometimes.

I know, I know, first world stuff. But naming off the obvious essentials (air, food, water) just seems so Miss American Pageant like answers lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Going to Ireland or Japan, actually taking fitness seriously, if it wouldn't be better for me to simply move out of this state/country altogether and start over somewhere else.

Also, lately, whether or not I should rejoin a local gym. My biggest thing is - I love steam rooms and the one gym nearest me doesn't have one, which is disappointing. So, any ideas here would be welcomed. I have been to the BAC before, it was nice, but it's kind of out of the way for me now.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
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If you want to talk and have something to contribute to a conversation.

A note worth making: My intentions on here are not to jump into a relationship right off, that takes time. Right now, my goal is to find someone that I click with and wants to break away from the hum-drum of everyday life to just go enjoy casual dating, along with casual intimacy. Yes, you read that correctly, I'm not hiding behind any pretenses that I don't have cravings and appetites, because I most certainly do. If a relationship builds over time with someone, that's how it should be. For now, it's about keeping things interesting, because I get bored with routines very, very easily.