I'm poly- and recently came very close to having the kind of ideal bohemian relationship I'd always sought with a female.....close but no completely-natural tobacco cigarette! Anyway, I now know more than ever what I'm looking for (which was what I learned from that relationship..... so the search and journey to find the right person [or people] continues!)

I'm a well-educated, progressive activist with an artistic and wildly-open-minded sensibility. I'm secure and am working to manifest a more-meaningful life through an emotional, physical and intellectual connection with another.

I have a family that is the most important thing to me. My wife and I are both poly and bi- (I call myself hetero-flexible as I have always been much more interested in and seem to relate better to women), and she is much more gregarious and socially active than I prefer to be.

I don't post a pic because I'm a private person and don't like everyone and their pets knowing where I go and what I do, but I'll be glad to send you one if you like..........

I have a very EXISTENTIAL intellectual, political, emotional, physical metaphysical and sexual life. I live in the world, but am not always part of it. I like unusual people who don't buy into most of the "norms" of our world, which is mostly controlled and run these days by people who are VERY dysfunctional, if not partially or completely mad. People who always look at the economic and tradition-bound bottom-lines and rules are the worst sort muck feeders!

I do urban-social and advocacy research while also running my own small business (not particularly stressful or time-consuming, but good for the world and it allows me to remain free from having to "conform" to world's unnecessary, limiting and harmfulnorms.....which are also, imo, quite dysfunctional and now causing our civilization to fail and breakdown terribly.

1) Living at the edges and not getting corrupted...........2) studying and enjoying other cultures, history, anthropology, astromony and anything artistic/creative 3) basking in the glow of and working with courageous, edgy and rebellious people.

My gentle face and demeanor, that I'm easy-going, witty and friendly in public.........as well as extremely open-minded, strong, hedonistic, sensual and passionate below the surface..........

The Cosmic Connection, Carl Sagan; The Naked Ape, Desmond Morris; Sarum; Voyage of the Beagle; Empire, Michael Hardt; Looking Backward, Edward Bellamy; A Theory of Everything, Ken Wilber....... Apocalypse Now; Baraka; Master and Commander; Gone with the Wind; Contact; Star Trek, Close Encounters of the Third Kind; Casablanca; The Godfather; Manhattan; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; Patton; The Great Dictator; The Shootist; Moulin Rouge........Beatles, Stones, Sinatra, U-2.........Indian, Italian, Fusion, German, Vegetarian, Californian and Thai.........

My sense of humor
My bohemian and artistic sensibilities
Lots of mutually-satisfying and varied sex
Freedom!
Outstanding films, other forms of art and performances
My disgust with greedy, willfully-ignorant, mean and intolerant people
My worldly and live-and-let-live outlook
Simple and necessary things for a high-quality life

The state of the world and mankind's future, the already-occuring, massive paradigm shift........

Ways to completely sexually gratify a partner and how that person might blow my mind and rock me to my core also (or just how we can both just get off frequently and consistently :)

A quirky, adventurous, funny, intelligent, edgy, physically-uninhibited, emotionally-available, sensuous friend.....

Resting and relaxing.....

Watching Oscar-winning and inidividual performances, silents and other interesting films (which imo are the highest art forms we have ever created......though there may be new ones I'm not even aware of yet)

Wishing more people would do all the things they really want all the time and not save them for Friday night......holidays or other special occasions

That resisting mindless conventionality and conformity in anything takes much more effort than just going along with the majority or the existing order of the status quo........

You like communicating and sharing (deeply or on whatever level)with someone who is radical (in his own way/on his own terms) and very supportive......

You are emotionally, physically and sexually open and availabe in the moment, willing to explore and seek greater intensity, pleasure and release.......

You like the quiet and simple things in life in the country, but also all the more-complex variety highly-urban, post-modern life has to offer........

You just want to chat with someone like me...... :)

You like my poly-penguins!