Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm poly- and recently came very close to having the kind of ideal
bohemian relationship I'd always sought with a female.....close but
no completely-natural-tobacco cigar! Anyway, I now know more than
ever what I'm looking for..... so the search and journey to find
the right person [or persons] continues!)
I'm a well-educated, progressive activist with an artistic and
very-open-minded sensibility. I'm secure and am here to manifest a
more-meaningful and highly-evolved life through a meta-physical,
emotional, intellectual and tantric connection with another
self-aware human being.
I have a family that is the most important thing to me. My primary
partner and I are both poly and bi- (I call myself hetero-flexible
as I have always been much more interested in and seem to relate
better to women), and she is much more gregarious and socially
active than I prefer to be.
I don't post a pic because I'm a private person and don't like
everyone and their pets knowing where I go and what I do, but I'll
be glad to send you one if you like..........
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a very EXISTENTIAL intellectual, political, emotional,
physical metaphysical and sexual life. I live in the world, but am
not always part of it. I like unusual people who don't buy into
most of the "norms" of our world, which is mostly controlled and
run these days by people who are VERY dysfunctional, if not
partially or completely mad. People who always look at the economic
and tradition-bound bottom-lines and rules are the worst sort muck
I do urban-social and advocacy research while also running my own
small business (not particularly stressful or time-consuming, but
good for the world and it allows me to remain free from having to
"conform" to world's unnecessary, limiting and
harmfulnorms.....which are also, imo, quite dysfunctional and now
causing our civilization to fail and breakdown terribly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) Living at the edges and not getting corrupted...........2)
studying, learning and enjoying other cultures (including our own),
history, anthropology, astromony and anything scientific or
creative 3) basking in the glow of and working with courageous,
edgy and rebellious people 4) writing and other forms of artistic
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My gentle face and demeanor, that I'm easy-going, witty and
friendly in public.........as well as extremely open-minded,
strong, hedonistic, sensual and passionate below the
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Cosmic Connection, Carl Sagan; The Naked Ape, Desmond Morris;
Sarum; Voyage of the Beagle; Empire, Michael Hardt; Looking
Backward, Edward Bellamy; A Theory of Everything, Ken Wilber.......
Apocalypse Now; Baraka; Master and Commander; Gone with the Wind;
Contact; Star Trek, Close Encounters of the Third Kind; Casablanca;
The Godfather; Manhattan; Monty Python and the Holy Grail; Patton;
The Great Dictator; The Shootist; Moulin Rouge........Beatles,
Stones, Sinatra, U-2.........Indian, Italian, Fusion, German,
Vegetarian, Californian and Thai.........
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sense of humor
My bohemian and artistic sensibilities
Lots of mutually-satisfying and varied sex
Outstanding films, other forms of art and performances
My disgust with greedy, willfully-ignorant, mean and intolerant
My worldly and live-and-let-live outlook
Simple and necessary things for a high-quality life
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world and mankind's future, the already-occuring,
massive paradigm shift........
Ways to sexually gratify a partner and how that person might also
want to blow my mind or rock me to my core :)
A quirky, adventurous, funny, intelligent, edgy,
physically-uninhibited, emotionally-available, sensuous friend and
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Resting and relaxing.....
Watching Oscar-winning and inidividual performances, silents and
other interesting films (which imo are the highest art forms we
have ever created......though there may be new ones I'm not even
aware of yet)
Wishing more people would do all the things they really want all
the time and not save them for Friday night......holidays or other
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That resisting mindless conventionality and conformity in anything
takes much more effort than just going along with the majority or
the existing order of the status quo........
You should message me if
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You like communicating, sharing and exchanging energy (deeply or on
whatever level) with someone who is non-traditional and
increasingly radical l (in his own way/on his own
You are emotionally, mentally, sexually and meta-physically open
and available in the present moment, willing to explore and seek
greater evolution, intensity, pleasure and meaning.......
You like the quiet and simple things in life in the country, but
also all the more-complex, creative, urban, post-modern life has to
You just want to converse, have fun or exchange kundalini-energy
with someone like me......
You are not frightened by the caricature of me that my daughter
created on an app and have faith that I am quite better looking and
nicer than it depicts......though if you like it, I'll let you muss
my hair up as much as you want (by whatever means you choose) to
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