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35 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 16
6′ 2″ (1.89m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I like to think my shyness is calculated. I'm a frequent mover, former Peace Corps volunteer, divorced (amicable and two years ago), no kids having (but wants them one day) nice guy who grew up in San Diego (mostly). I don't date more than one person at a time and I'm quick to delete an online profile if I think it's going well. I went to Maryland for Business School and I was in a fraternity forever ago but I'm really not a "Bro" as the term has been described to me. Mostly, I just love great stories and I'm looking forward to the next chapter. Yeah that was a little corny.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a consultant. And, I'm trying this new thing called "staying put." Let's see if I can grow some roots somewhere.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting up earlier than you and making coffee. That and I have a pretty sweet jump shot.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm kind of tall and I think I might have a scowling default expression. "No really, I'm fine -- why do people keep asking me that?"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lit: Hesse, Steinbeck, Kerouac, Hugo, Palahniuk

Non-Fiction: Lots of commentary on political economy, like Reich, Taibbi, Ha-Joon Chang, etc. If you know who John Rawls is, I already like you.

Lately I've been listening to Lumineers but my holy triumvirate of music love is Rage/Tool/Sinatra.

Studio Theatre enthusiast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Great stories
Friendly competition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The weather
The next vacation
The San Diego Chargers
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Recently: Racking my brain to think of something creative or cool to do with some OKC date so I can "stand out" from the crowd of other men they're seeing.

Now: Hanging out with friends.

There, that's much easier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
What Thoreau said about "quiet desperation"

And, that I sometimes refuse to choose between happy hour and my evening run. "Wow, the Mall at night is so beautiful. . . "
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
[You should respond to my advance if. . . ]

No one ever described you as volatile or constantly confrontational.

You understand that the greatest barrier to making a good connection is the fear of being vulnerable. I like small talk as much as the next guy, but if we're just continually re-hashing the weather, I'm going to want to do something else. By putting yourself out there, taking a chance, and engaging in intimate discussion, we could skip like 3 or 4 dates and really find out if we like each other. I find alcohol helps.