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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 25
Asian, White
5' 9" (1.76m)
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've been half Asian since before it got all trendy.

Work moderate; play moderate.

As a 35 year old music addict, I sometimes find myself wondering if I'm the oldest person in the club. Then I shrug & keep shakin' my skinny old ass like it's on fire.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
visual design by day;
all the things by night.

drinking your pink coconut water.
random acts of nice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
not putting off until tomorrow anything that I can put off until the day after tomorrow;
DJing with my pinky out at private events;
straight-shooting from the hip;
orienting details;
fighting fires with water;
opting out of promising you the world in favor of promising you pizza
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
favorite book: Invisible Man
ride or die for: Malcom Gladwell
currently reading: Gold Warriors by Sterling and Peggy Seagrave
just read: This Is How You Lose Her

favorite movie: Black Orpheus (2nd Royal Tenenbaums; 3rd Lost in Translation...)
series: HOC, P&R, GOT, PjR... Cheaters (it's a guilty pleasure. pun intended.)
honorable mention: anything involving David Attenborough or narrated by Peter Coyote or Werner Herzog

favorite song: This Must Be The Place (Naïve Version)
The acts in heaviest rotation for me right now include Alina Braz and Galimatias, TORA, Janet Jackson, Beach House, Guggenz, Discovery, Fleet Foxes, Mura Masa, INXS, SOHN, Keats Collective, Little Dragon, Nao, Depeche Mode, LeMarquis, Jai Paul, Gill Chang... etc etc...

foods: I tend to eat on the healthier side, but goddamn Tartine is on my corner wafting their evil butter/sugar/chocolate pastry smell everywhere and Bi Rite Creamery is up the block... so sometimes I'm like fuck it TREAT YO SELF.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends, love, laughter, dreams (literal and figurative), and the poop emoji
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
same as you; food, love, and why moms ALWAYS find it necessary to leave voicemail
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
up for something;
down for something

neat libations are often involved.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're kind, you're witty and creative = intelligent, you're strong enough to allow yourself to be loved, you and I goosebump to the same music, and you're interested in actually meeting in person; I'm not necessarily looking for a long term penpal here.
You're also down to binge on carbs and grease from time to time. Oh oh- and #FROYOLO

I'm a huge fan of the Golden Rule, so I deeply value honesty; while sunshine enemas might initially give you that warm feeling inside, they often leave you wondering why the heck.