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NaturePhile

56 / M / straight / Available

Holly Springs, Georgia

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am friendly/eccentric, outside the box, and candid.

My Self-Summary

I'm a kind, considerate, and thoughtful man who prefers the company of a small intimate gathering over large groups.

I love animals of all kinds, and presently own a cat.

I'm a bit of a cynic about some things, but I think of it as being realistic, and I don't dwell on those topics much. I look for, and usually find the good in people and situations.

I consider myself spiritual, and don't feel I need to belong to any organized religion to have a connection with a higher power. I find value in many traditions, and try to respect other's beliefs, and only ask for the same consideration.

I'm on permanent disability due to a disk problem, and though on a small fixed income I do pretty well for myself.

I'm somewhat intelligent, although I've usually been an under achiever, not as concerned with the material world as I am with the world of ideas. I'm a thinker-philosopher, and enjoy looking for the infinite possibilities in this Universe.

I have a good, as well as broad, sense of humor, and can laugh at the absurdities of life as well as my self.

I don't seek out the dance floor, but enjoy the closeness of slow dancing.

My musical taste is eclectic, ranging from Medieval to early 20th century Classical, Pop, Rock, Jazz, Blues, Bluegrass, Acoustic, New Age, etc. I also play the guitar, piano, and recorder, and am often asked to play solo. (So low that others can't here me)

My friends say I'm kind, friendly, caring, and a good listener, among other things.

I have a wide area of interests including the sciences, the arts, history, philosophy, and metaphysics. I also love the outdoors, and like to hike, camp, canoe, etc., when the body permits it. I'm in my element when communing with the natural world. It rejuvenates my spirit and soul.

About My Match

I'm looking for someone who is warm, caring and loving, who's able to tolerate my flaws as well as I think I tolerate other people's shortcomings.

I would like something close to an equal partnership, with few control issues. Someone's who's values and interests are somewhat similar, but with enough differences to keep things interesting so we can learn and grow together.

I'm intelligent, but don't consider myself an intellectual. (Bad connotation) I like someone I can have intelligent conversations with on a wide variety of subjects.

I don't drink, and I don't mind if other's do as long as they are moderate about it.

The heart and soul is where the real beauty of a person lies, but I wouldn't complain if I found that beauty in a pleasing physical form either. A pretty face, and anywhere from slim to some extra lbs is fine with me.

I'm a one-woman man, and when I'm with the one I love I am very empathic, and sensitive to her feeling and needs. I love cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and caressing-all those tactile things. A single touch often says much more than words can. I'm by no means clingy though, and enjoy alone time too.

One more thing-I believe being best friends is the foundation for the best relationships.

May good fortune be with you in all regards. Take care.

What I’m doing with my life

Retired on disability-limited activities due to degenerating discs, but can still walk and I enjoy hiking and camping. I enjoy travel when I get the chance.

Just beginning to reach out again and get involved in relationships.

I’m really good at

Philosophising-looking at questions from many different angles, questioning the status quo.

I am very good at trivia games, and play on a team(?)where I'm about the only contributor. (if anyone is looking for someone who knows geography, history, and sciences pretty well, then I could be a welcome addition to your team. If you are good at sports and pop culture, then you could help on my team.)

Listening-I can be very empathic.

Appreciating humor, and have a somewhat dry and obscure way of being humorous myself, although I can be down right silly and corny also.

Having lived an interesting life, I've got some stories to tell.(many people have told me I should write a book)

Loving animals. Being kind & considerate.

The first things people usually notice about me

Friendliness and shyness (though the shy part disappears pretty quickly once I feel cozy with someone)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Non-fiction, metaphysics, paranormal, science, history

I don't see many movies, but can enjoy a well told story. The bizzare and unexpected psychological mystery/thriller comes to mind, but can enjoy pure silliness if I'm in the right mood.

From Western Medieval to early 20th century classics (esp. Baroque) to Jazz of all types. Also Blues, classic Rock, Bluegrass, some Country&Pop, Psychedelic, Celtic, melodious ecelctronic, and almost no Rap&Hip-Hop

Will eat most anything.I enjoy simple dishes-I eat to keep from getting hungry.

The six things I could never do without

My ability to think rationally, and at the same time know some things may be consciously unknowable, or at least ineffable

Being open-minded and considering that there exists more than science can (now) show us

My sense of humor

My appreciation of how everything is interconnected.

Believing that love and intention are the most potent forces in our lives.

Oh! The other things? Travel, friends, health, music, car, and love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Seemingly most anything at times. Taking consensus notions about anything, and seeking alternate explanations for them.

Mundane matters-the things that get you through each day, but my passion is in exploring our most fundamental questions (all the usual suspects) What's the matrix that everything is built on? Understanding the temporal and spiritual world.

"There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, than are dreamt of in your philosophy."

On a typical Friday night I am

Home, on the net, watching TV, an occasional date.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I can be too cerebral at times, and need to come down to earth a bit more often. I'm working on it, and I'm looking for the woman that I'll want to come down to earth for/with.

I think I'm a lot less dry than my writing style indicates.

I'm more sexually passionate than the "award" below indicates.

If I trust/like you then I'll tell you most anything.

You should message me if

You want to chat, get to know me, have a slight whim, and especially if you think we might have a chance for a meaningful relationship.