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41 M Buffalo, NY

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:50pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hungarian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
There are few things more beautiful than when you push yourself to be the best you can be in life. Then you find a person who fully embraces and accepts all that you've worked so hard to become.

I work in a high stress jail during the weekdays so I'm craving to burst away from it after work. I'm seeking someone to have a mixture of trips/adventures with or just utter relaxation and great conversations with. I'm craving to share that "outside of daily routine" broadness and depth that of life has. Especially with WNY being in such full bloom.

I am multifaceted and multi layered. I've lived life fully and with few regrets. I'm not originally from Buffalo. I'm a social worker at a local jail. For fun I'm a fortune teller. I'm low maintenance but very affectionate. I've have had 3 brushes with death. I can be loud and love going with my daughter to Buffalo Bills games....... at the same time I love a good art exhibit and can linger there for hours. I've done sweat lodges and I'm deeply spiritual but not into organized religion. I love the cities as much as remote places in the great outdoors. Exploring, traveling to new and old places is a passion of mine. I own a TV, just no cable hook up. I eat healthy but am a recovering vegetarian.

While at this site, I am also really looking for interesting friends to do actively do things with. I'm starting to reclaim a new circle of friends again.

My ideal match is an outdoorsy, energetic, cultured, bordering on geeky partner in crime. A reader, perhaps an NPR listener, somewhat environmental, hopefully somewhat spiritual. A lady I can have great conversations.

I've been at this for a year and it has been a bit frustrating, so if you are interested in any way, please don't be shy, drop me a message. I respond to all messages.
What I’m doing with my life
Tons of stuff!!! Enjoying being a dad (I have half custody and time), writing a book, getting myself in shape, working my dream job, recreating my life a little at a time day by day! I just came back from a week long trip from the Mammoth Caves.
I’m really good at
Exploring new places and new ideas, having a sharp wit, being affectionate/romantic, pushing the envelope, remembering things I should have forgotten 20 years ago, romance, good conversations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I will add 3 other categories -

"Themes": I love whether in fiction or in reality, a group of unique individuals come together and start talking, sharing/having a good time together. A lot of my movie tastes and best life experiences have come in that way. Kind of like a real life Chaucer's Canterberry tales or a functional version of "Reality TV"

Candies: Andes chocolate mints, 3 Musketeers, Snickers Peanut butter and Twixt bar ;)

Sports: Playoff football and basketball

Books: The Celestine Prophecy, The 13th Warrior, Iron Tower trilogy, Alive, to name but a few. I actually have a library instead of dining room.

Movies: Eat Pray Love, Rent, The Dark Knight movies, Little Miss Sunshine, A league of Extraordinary Gentlemen, Avengers, Sherlock Holmes, Outlander

TV: I have no TV, but I am not adverse to watching it

Music - 80's, 90's music. ZZ Top, Justin Bieber (just kidding ;) , Coldplay, Sheryl Crow, Rush, Heart, Fleetwood Mac
The six things I could never do without
1. My daughter - aka mini partner in crime

2. My career - it's been an amazing adventure of 15 years and going

3. My spirituality - the bedrock that keeps my life in perspective

4. My car & ability to travel - I love wide open spaces and new places

5. Love and friendships - as fleeting as it is sometimes, there is nothing more beautiful for my soul

6. Hope - No matter how confusing or rough things get, my belief that things will get better if I put the right effort into it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How can I make my daughters life better? Where is my next adventure? Where are my keys?!!?? I really should eat healthier.
On a typical Friday night I am
Normally decompressing - My work is pretty brutal, but by Saturday morning I'm ALL better :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Many, many things, but for now I have 3 tattoos
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
1. You must have no dogs.