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Let's say you have an excellent match on OKCupid and discover that you really like each other, but you live very far apart (> 1,000 miles/1,600 km). Would you consider starting a long distance relationship?

• Yes.
• No.

Been there done the long distance thing, its very frustrating, I most likely wouldn't do it again. Besides, I doubt it would happen on here because I only look for local matches.

Do you have a checklist of mandatory traits that you absolutely require in any significant other?

• Yes.
• No.

OMG!!! How completely shallow and boring. Whenever you limit yourself like that you run the risk of missing a really unique and interesting experience. I don't think I could date someone so shallow.

Case in point, one night I was sitting at a local club, and it being summer, I was wearing a pair of blue jean shorts (no not cutoffs, but very stylish). This girl starts commenting about my shorts, and tells me that its on her top 10 list of reasons why she would not date someone. Now first of all, nobody asked her. 2nd, she was dressed like she just got of work from Walmart and she is gonna comment on what I am worried. So anyways, I told her its ok, I don't date anyone that has a top 10 list of why she wouldn't date someone. The funny thing was, she pretty much followed me around the club for the rest of the night.

Do you wear a seatbelt when you ride in an automobile?

• Always.
• Most of the time.
• Usually not.
• Never.

As I said somewhere on here before, a seatbelt saved my life. I hit so hard, that I had a bruise across my chest for weeks after. No doubt in my mind I would have been thrown from the car and most likely would not be here to type this today, had it not been for my seatbelt. Besides, if your partner isn't wearing theirs, you are just asking to be pulled over, and who wants that trouble. Just put it on. I actually feel naked in a car without one on.

Would you consider dating somebody who publishes the most intimate details of their relationships in their blog?

• Yes.
• No.

I actually have done this before, both her and I did it together. It is a great way to relive the moment and also offers an interesting view from the other partners perspective. Often times she or I would say "I didn't know thats what you were thinking/feeling". If you take notes, you will also find out what turns your partner on, what she likes, and also what she doesn't like.

As an added bonus, the other people that read the blogs really enjoyed them as well. Sometimes we would get messages from couples that were having problems and it turned out that from reading our blog, it helped them with their problems. That is an awesome feeling, let me tell you.

If a company contacted you as a reference for a friend who is applying for a job, would you consider lying to help your friend get the job?

• Yes.
• No.

There are ways of saying things to make them sound positive without lying. Call it a spin doctor if you will. I certainly would not throw my friend under the bus, but at the same time a lie needs to be fed by other lies until it either crushes you or is exposed. Honesty is always the best policy.

Should adults be required by law to wear seatbelts when riding as passengers in automobiles?

• Yes.
• No.

Don't get me wrong, I think seatbelts should always be worn. In fact, if it wasn't for a seatbelt, I would not be here writing this today. I don't think we need to have the government tell us how to live our lives. Same with the helmet law. The next thing you know, there will be a law telling us how many pieces of toilet paper to use when wiping our ass!!! We don't need the government to wipe our asses.

If someone murdered a close friend of yours, would you hope for the death penalty?

• Yes.
• No.
• I'm not sure.

As I have said before, I don't believe in the death penalty. To me, there is something fundamentally wrong with a policy that says killing is wrong and illegal and because you killed someone, now we are going to kill you... huh!?!? I think the person should spend the rest of their life having to think about and deal with the consequences of what they have done.

Would you consider dating someone who does not know how to drive a car?

• Yes.
• No.

Not only would I consider it, I have done it, for 2 years. My youngest babies momma couldn't drive.

Would you continue in a relationship if you knew your partner was faking their enjoyment of sex just to make you happy?

• Yes.
• No.

Ok, at the risk of sounding cocky or arrogant, I am going to say this has never happened to me, but this is not the time or place for that ... topic. I would have to say, thats a sweet gesture on the partners part, but totally unnecessary. If the lines of communication are open (as they should be) then there is no reason why "the partner" cannot tell me what it is they want to enhance their enjoyment. Also, I am a good study, and will "take note" of what reactions I get from certain acts and will build upon those actions that facilitate "good" reactions. In a relationship, I think it is important to build on each successive experience, therefore making the next one better. The third time is going to better than the first, the 103rd time is gonna be better than the 100th, ideally.

If you previously had a sexually transmitted disease of which you have been completely cured and can no longer pass on, would you disclose this information to partners before having sex with them?

• Yes.
• No.
• I'm not sure.

What a dumb question! What would be the purpose of telling somebody this. Its a done deal. Talk about a mood killer, and when would you divulge this little nugget of information, before or after unhooking her bra?