Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm an easy going and very laid back person. I love the water and
the wonderful seafood that it provides which is one of the many
things that attracted me to the Cape Coral area. I moved to The
Cape on June 1st of this year, so I have a lot of exploring to do.
Are you a seasoned local...or new to the area too and looking for a
friend to explore with?
I married very young and had one son who is now 37. I lost his
father when he was 4 months old due to a hit and run by a drunk
driver and have never remarried. I was engaged once, but sadly lost
him as well to cancer in 1997. Some people never meet their soul
mate in life. I was lucky enough to experience this twice in mine,
but tragically lost them both. I don't understand why this happened
and it was terribly painful, but I still thank God that I had them
both in my life and would do it all over again even knowing the
pain that I would have to endure in the end. The unconditional love
that I shared with both of them was beautiful and I hope to be
fortunate enough to find that kind of love again in my life.
Music is a huge part of my life and I enjoy going to live music
events, concerts, festivals, etc. Blues, Reggae, Progressive Free
Form, Classic Rock, etc.
I went out on a disability from work in 2012 due to numerous car
accidents in the past that caused neck and back issues. These
injuries eventually made it impossible for me to sit in front of a
computer for 8 hrs. a day any more. I am enjoying the extra free
time and would like to start traveling more, but this also limits
me from being as physically active as I'd like to be. So, if you
are looking for a ski, jogging, or dance partner ....I'm not the
one for you.
I still love camping and anything outdoors, and anything to do with
the water shy of water skiing of course. It would be really nice to
have a special person in my life that enjoys traveling and the
Although I love children very much, I am not looking for someone
that is still in the child raising stage of their life. I am more
at the grandparent stage in life where you can love and enjoy them,
but now have your freedom to be able to run off somewhere for a
romantic getaway weekend if you feel like it. I like to be
spontaneous so it would be nice to meet someone that lives in or
close to the Cape Coral area.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Relocating to SW Florida in order to enjoy the outdoors year round
and opening up myself via this website to the possibility of also
meeting that someone special.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening and being a good friend. I've always been fascinated with
medicine and therefore tend to be good at taking care of others. I
have a knack for finding a way to make something work or getting
something done even when I don't have the proper tools or parts.
I'm can be quite the female MacGyver.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That's hard to say....but maybe the dimple in my chin or my big
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't read very many books. I had to read so much proof reading
and editing at work that I got away from reading for pleasure and
just haven't gotten back into it. Instead, I spend as much time
outdoors as possible. My favorite movie has got to be Legends of
the Fall. I already mentioned my love of music...I have to be
careful about what I eat as I have several food allergies. Nothing
that would kill me, would just make my stomach quite miserable for
quite a while afterwards. Love blue crabs and snow crab legs!! I
enjoy watching documentaries, non-fiction, real crime shows, "I
Shouldn't Be Alive", and medical programs. Enjoy programs that
involve music....The Voice, American Idol, Maryland PBS -
especially the musical program
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I wouldn't say that I can't live without them because I know that
nothing lasts forever, but six things that I love are my family of
course, my dearest friends, the water, warm sunny days, hot blue or
snow crabs, and music!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future and where I would like to travel to next...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I am no longer working, Friday night is just like any other
night to me. I imagine that I will be exploring the local clubs
since I am new to the area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love a man that enjoys cooking and has a nice derriere...then I
can enjoy watching him prepare the meal as much as I do eating it
You should message me if
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You are honest, have a good heart and sense of humor, like to
travel and enjoy life, and are serious about meeting someone that
you can truly connect with and makes you smile when you think of
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