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36 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 18
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on law school
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My life after graduating college has been quite a ride! I’ve been an English teacher, KungFu Master, Preschool teacher, and am now a law student, law intern, dancer, DJ, and dance instructor.

I’ve travelled all over China, parts of Far East Asia, and would like to travel more (I’ve never been to Europe!), but I think the urgency to travel has been abated, at least for now.

I’m up to things in my life, which means my calendar gets full. I’m guilty of using my calendar for almost everything.

I like it when people challenge my way of thinking and have deep, critical (and constructive) conversations. I love terms of endearment (sweetie, honey, baby, dear), and I can’t live without hugging, cuddling, and… other manifestations of affection and love. ;)

I’ve had some short-term relationships recently, and am ready for something longer-term, meaning at least a year.
What I’m doing with my life
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Law school, law internship, dance instructor, performer, DJ, and all around great guy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- using proper capitalization and punctuation (as evidenced above).
- intelligent discussion without letting my ego get in the way.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shaved head? I don't know, you'll have to meet me and tell me what you noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I tend to enjoy non-fiction, books about psychology, sociology, religion, philosophy, that sort of thing. I'll read a novel once every few years.

Movies: I used to watch movies a lot more than I do now. Now that I think about it, it coincides with me starting law school. :)

Shows: I haven't seen many shows, but I do really enjoy them. The last one I saw was Phantom of the Opera. We were so close to the stage the chandelier looked like it was going to fall on us!

Music: Blues, Jazz, Swing (for dancing). For non-dancing, I like folk, alt-rock, rock, and generally good music of any genre.

Food: Always up to try something new! I'm fairly adventurous with what I eat.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good friends, family, exercise/dance, being creative, helping others, meditation.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
questioning everything I've learned.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at dance performance rehearsal, out dancing, or staying in with a movie, among other things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I did one year of belly dancing, and a few months of ballet. Really helped with my body awareness and confidence.
You should message me if
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you like getting to know people, have nothing to hide, and are open and honest about yourself.