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37 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Nov 10
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay), French (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My life after graduating college has been quite a ride! I’ve been an English teacher, KungFu Master, Preschool teacher, and am now a law school grad (waiting for bar exam results), dancer, DJ, and dance instructor.

I’ve travelled all over China, parts of Far East Asia, and would like to travel more (I’ve never been to Europe!), but I think the urgency to travel has been abated, at least for now.

I’m up to things in my life, which means my calendar gets full. I’m guilty of using my calendar for almost everything.

I like it when people challenge my way of thinking and have deep, critical (and constructive) conversations. I love terms of endearment (sweetie, honey, baby, dear), and I can’t live without hugging, cuddling, and… other manifestations of affection and love. ;)

I’ve had some short-term relationships recently, and am ready for something longer-term, meaning at least a year.
What I’m doing with my life
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Waiting for my bar exam results, dance instructor, DJ, event organizer and all around great guy. I'm inspired to take action and change the world!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- getting to the heart of the matter at hand;
- seeing other people's points of view;
- getting people to see their own greatness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't fit into most people's Asian stereotype.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I tend to enjoy non-fiction, books about psychology, sociology, religion, philosophy, that sort of thing. I'll read a novel once every few years.

Movies: I used to watch movies a lot more than I do now. Now that I think about it, it coincides with me starting law school. :)

Shows: I haven't seen many shows, but I do really enjoy them. The last one I saw was Phantom of the Opera. We were so close to the stage the chandelier looked like it was going to fall on us!

Music: Blues, Jazz, Swing (for dancing). For non-dancing, I like folk, alt-rock, rock, soul, funk, and generally good music of any genre.

Food: Always up to try something new! I'm fairly adventurous with what I eat. I've eaten fried scorpions and BBQ silkworms before.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Connection through conversation;
- Amazing friends that are both loyal and honest;
- Being free to fully express myself while taking the time to make sure others hear me the way I intend;
- Having the power to do whatever I choose, and using that power to choose to have a positive impact on the world around me;
- My ability to inspire and motivate groups of people into action; and
- Courage to step out of my comfort zone so I can lead an amazing life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to reach the unreasonable goals I set for myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
dancing at the non-profit dance venue that I help organize, or participating in my leadership program, or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have my navel pierced.
You should message me if
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you like getting to know people, have nothing to hide, and are open and honest about yourself.

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