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39 M Surrey, British Columbia, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:13am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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The two things I keep getting told by friends and others are that I should either be a stand up comic or a counsellor.

I'm usually pretty calm and patient. I would say I'm more on the 'introverted' side of the spectrum.

I prefer small intimate dinner parties or cafe chats to bars or clubs. Actually, that's a bit of an understatement. I'd prefer a root canal over a club, unless there's a band I went there to see.

Organized sports and I aren't really on friendly terms. We see each other around but keep our respective distance. So you won't often catch me watching a Canucks or Lions game. But I'll stick around if you want to.

I'm looking for someone who's interested in a long-term deal. It's important to be honest about that sort of thing up front.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work with people with developmental disabilities, mostly teens but quite a few adults.

In my free time, I build guitars, ukuleles and banjos. I also host a ukulele circle once a month.

Other than that, the typical things people do: Hang out with friends, spend too much time online, try to figure out how my cat plans to kill me next. The usual.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Turning mistakes into "design features"
Staying calm in a crisis
Losing my keys
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A friend recently said that she felt instantly comfortable when we met and I smiled at her.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: Recently got hooked on Doctor Who. I love the quiz show Quite Interesting. And Top Gear UK, which is weird because I am so not a "car guy." I like police procedurals, too. The CSI series, Numb3rs, Lie to Me...

Books: Dean Koontz, Carl Hiaasen, Martha Grimes, Douglas Copeland, Neil Gaiman, Terry Pratchett...a mix of comedy, fantasy and mystery, mostly.

Food: I love seafood. And pasta. Seafood pasta is obviously my favourite.

Music and movies are much more fun to talk about than to list.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm gonna let you assume the usual needs (Friends, family, tech stuff like phone/laptop, love, sleep) and try to share things that are particularly important to me:

1. Laughter.
2. Music, either listening or playing.
3. A soft pillow and a firm pillow.
4. An occasional rainstorm.
5. A nice kitchen knife and a decent sautee pan.
6. My car.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I am going and what I'm going to eat when I get there.

What it would be like if we all actually lived like we were the people we hope to be.

Oh, and life, the know, everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Keeping 60+ young adults with developmental disabilities entertained and fed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes when I can't get my kite to fly, even if it's windy, I wonder if it's really worth it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
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You know where my keys are. Seriously, it's getting ridiculous.