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20 Hartford, CT Genderfluid


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-26
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:55am
Pansexual, Demisexual
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 0" (1.84m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there! I'm Sam.

Not really sure what to write here, but most of what one needs to know about me can be found out through my questions. I'm better at answering questions than stating things about myself with no guidelines. x.x

INTP/INFP (I'm right in the middle)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm taking college classes right now. My goal is to major in Psychology with maybe a minor in some sort form of the arts. I would love to be a therapist, specifically one that helps teenagers and young people.

I'm volunteering at a wildlife sanctuary as well.

I'd love to live in Australia at some point.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Poetry, music, painting, video games, psychology, philosophy, being awkward, thinking too much, having strange interests, giving out advice, forgetting, and other things.

I've been playing alto sax for nine years now, specializing in jazz.
I picked up the ocarina (look it up) two summers ago, and I've been learning how to play the keyboard and music composition since last summer.

I tend to doodle a lot; I mostly draw cartoons and video game characters.

I've been very into photography recently.

I also am amazing at sending horribly awkward introductory messages.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Other than I'm tall, I don't really know. They don't usually tell me. I'm very shy, but I tend to act somewhat outgoing as a sort of defense mechanism. It's strange.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: H.P. Lovecraft, The Inheritance Cycle (Eragon, Eldest, Brisingr, etc.), other sci-fi/fantasy books.

Movies: Any Quentin Tarantino film, Howl's Moving Castle, The Star Wars sequels, Lord of the Rings, Perks of being a Wallflower, Chinatown, Dredd, etc.

Shows: Doctor Who, The Walking Dead, various anime. I don't watch much TV, I'm mostly on YouTube.

Music: Florence and the Machine, Imagine Dragons, Fun., Queen, The Beatles, Kerli, Lorde, Daft Punk, The Heavy, Michael Jackson, and a lot of youtube artists like Pentatonix, Lindsey Stirling, Peter Hollens, The Piano Guys, etc. I also adore many video game soundtracks.

Food: Cheeseburgers, cereal and quiche. -w- I'm not really a food person.

Games: Pokémon, Kirby, Fallout, Fire Emblem, Legend of Zelda, The Elder Scrolls, plus others. I used to play games a lot more but I'm trying to cut back recently.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Things to think about
People to talk about those things with
Time to be by myself
The arts
A career that interests me
Hope for the future
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My self identity, the purpose of my life, why things are how they are, and how to improve myself. Philosophy and psychology topics are constantly jumbling around in my head.

I'll often bore whoever is with me by thinking about why things are why they are and stuff.

I also turn myself in knots wondering whether this person who visited my profile finds me satisfactory or super gross.
I'm very afraid of coming across as gross.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home relaxing or talking with friends. I don't have many friends to hang out with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pansexual and gender fluid (I think).

I have a guilty pleasure of reading sappy romance fan fictions. x.x

I would sleep with stuffed animals but I'm afraid of hurting them by rolling on them or letting them fall of the bed.

I think french kissing is one of the most satisfying things ever.

I don't really feel comfortable with anyone in my life as of now. I'm super anxious.

I have a lot more quirks/interests that probably aren't that bad but I get really anxious about not seeming too weird to people so I won't say them here.
You should message me if
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You want to discuss meaningless philosophy
You like animals
You also analyze people way too much
You're just interested or something.

One of my strengths is that I am incredibly nonjudgemental. Don't worry about giving me a bad impression of yourself unless you are a real jerk and stuff.

Just as a warning, while I am pansexual, I am new to it and might have trouble getting used to being intimate with guys. After some thought, I've decided to limit my profile here to girls only, based on the types of people who have been contacting me. If you're a guy and you really think you have a chance with me then you can contact me, but just keep this in mind.

Ask me for my skype if you want~

HUGE bonus points for contacting me first. I won't wait indefinitely to contact someone but when someone shows they care enough to start a conversation with me I think very highly of them, even if they don't have much to say.

Please try not to be turned off by the fact that I use emoticons here and there in my speech. I only do it because it is incredibly difficult to convey emotions through text besides saying how one is feeling bluntly so I try to simulate body language and facial expressions as best I can.