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39 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Nov 6, 2014
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Seeing Someone
- Doesn’t want kids
- Likes dogs and has cats
- English, German (Poorly)
I am in a long-term open/poly relationship with mmarrie and we see people individually. We are also open to dating someone together, but not necessarily.
The genres of music I perform are Post Industrial, Martial and Neofolk. My band will be performing in 2 weeks with Death in June here in Chicago and we will have a new vinyl release out soon.
I don't want children. If you do, that is ok--but if you have children already, we're not right for one another.
My congeniality! :)
My jokes! :D
That my appearance betrays my lovely personality.
My skinny pants.
My flowery parfum.
-"The Theatre and Its Double"-Antonin Artaud;
-"American Psycho" and "Less Than Zero"-Bret Easton Ellis;
-"The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldritch"-Philip K. Dick;
-"The Trouble With Being Born"-EM Cioran;
-"Why I Believe the Dead Are Alive"- William Dudley Pelley
-The Complete Works of Shakespeare and John Webster
The Piano Teacher
Up in Smoke
Wild at Heart
The Dark Backward
Italian Zombie Films
The Texas Chainsaw Massacre (1974)
Henry V (Branagh)
The Quiet Earth
Let the Right One In
The Dark Crystal
All the original Star Trek films besides V
The Secret Adventures of Tom Thumb
The Night Porter
My Neighbor Totoro
Kiki's Delivery Service
Pee Wee's Big Adventure
The Grave of the Fireflies
Death in June
The Sisters of Mercy
Frankie Goes to Hollywood
Of The Wand and the Moon
Strength Through Joy
E. Power Biggs
Dead Can Dance
The Dead Kennedys
60's Star Trek
The IT Crowd
Pee Wee's Playhouse (RIP)
Custard filled cream puffs--anything with custard!!
2. My guitar
3. My books/antiques
4. Gourmet restaurants
5. My cat
The Theatre of Cruelty
Film funding stunts
Epaulet shirts and skinny pants
12 String Guitars
Plays on words
How much I miss Lux Interior
Going to Europa or Japan
Buying/selling things on ebay
How I wish I had a DeLorean
Which fancy restaurant to try next
Girls in Mary Jane shoes
Going to thrift stores
The incompetency of others
Shakespeare and his contemporaries
I am here to meet someone for a romantic relationship. If you're a Neofolker who would like to just be friends, we can be so on FB. However a lover should also be a friend...it makes everything so much lovelier...
Distance does not have to be an issue for romance, as I like to travel.
You should write to me if you would actually like to meet. At the very least, we will have at least one really fab meal/drink at a really nice locale.
I RARELY write to anyone on here, so if you receive a message from me you must be really groovy. ;)
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