I try to be happy. Life is what you make it. You can be happy and
enjoy the beauty around us. I Love to look at the beautiful blue
sky, marshmallow clouds, the green grass, flowers. I love to sit on
the porch in my swing and watch the birds. I have bird feeders and
hummingbird feeders. I love Christmas...the tree and lights and the
Christmas carols-my favorite is Silent Night and Little Drummer
Boy. I Love to enjoy the beauty God's given us. I love to see older
couples holding hands and when the man opens doors...you can see
that even though they're in twilight years they still love each
other. I enjoy visiting family and friends. Right now I'm in a
nursing home, but if I can get some place to do therapy so I can
stand and walk, I'm out of here. I have no family here except my
son. I like to play cards, Yahtzee, talk, and enjoy life. I don't
plan to be here much longer. This is a place I don't wish anyone to
have to live in. I came of my own will. I fell and broke two bones
in my ankle and had surgery. I came so my son wouldn't have to take
care of me. But we both agree to if we had it to do over I would've
gone home after surgery. If someone doesn't do therapy soon I'll go
home and do my own therapy. I need help to stand till my legs get
used to me standing again. UPDATE 9/7/12: as of now i have lost 272
pounds, and my goal is 44 more. When i get 34 more off, the therapy
dept. has said they will start working with me to get me standing
and walking. My plans right now are to be able to leave the nursing
home by spring.
If you're interested in getting to know me, becoming friends, and
if things go well then possibly more...then let me hear from you.
Looks not important...it's what's in the heart that counts. Hope to
meet some good-hearted people.
What I’m doing with my life
At age 16 my parents made me quit school. Said I was needed at home
to clean house and take care of my two year old brother. I
cried...I loved school, and 8 months later they said I could get
married. So 31 years later I took courses and got my G.E.D. My
husband wouldn't teach me to drive. After he died, I taught myself
to drive. I got my license 3 or 4 months after that. Now I am
losing weight. I Have had no weight loss surgery, no expensive diet
plans, and no diet pills. Since 2004 I have lost 257 lbs. I have 61
pounds to go. I have more goals yet. I'm thinking about possibly
going to college or taking classes online. And I have one big goal.
I can tell you if interested.
I’m really good at
My cooking and baking.
The first things people usually notice about me
How much weight I've lost and how young I look. I have been guessed
40's to early 50's.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Bible, Janette Oke: stories about wagon trains and set
in the 1800's, Beverly Lewis: stories about the Amish,
suspense/thrillers, any good books
Movies: Christmas movies, Forrest Gump, Left Behind, Places In The
TV shows: House Hunters, Discovery ID, Big Brother, Kate Plus
Eight, 19 and Counting, Gaither Music Shows. Game Show Network:
Lingo, Chain Reaction, Catch 21, Baggage
Music: Classic country music: George Jones, Conway Twitty, Merle
Haggard, Kitty Wells, Porter Wagoner, Vern Gosdin, Gene Watson.
Southern gospel music, Bill and Gloria Gaither compilations, The
Isaacs, The Crabb Family
Food: meatloaf, mashed potatoes, beef stew, homemade chili, soup
beans and cornbread!
The six things I could never do without
1. God and the Bible
2. My son
3. I hope I never lose my sight, hearing, and sense of smell
5. The Love of family & friends
6. My mind
7. Good books and music!
I know, I cheated and put 7 things. Haha!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Improving my body and health. Ways to keep my mind young and to
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably reading, working Sudoku puzzles, word search puzzles or
fill-ins. Writing letters or playing games online.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like being alone. I Loved being married, and I'm lonely but
NOT desperate. I would certainly enjoy a good companion...someone
to go through life with...to share and care, the good times and the
bad. Having true love is the most happy and fulfilling life.
You should message me if
You're a kind-hearted person, who maybe is lonely and would like a
new friend. You never know what may come of it, but I would hope to
find someone to make the days brighter and look forward to talking
to, and whatever will be will be. I prefer a non-smoker, non-heavy
drinker. I look forward to meeting friendly people of good
character, who want a good friend and maybe more! Thank you for
making it this far, hope to hear from you...