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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:19am
Straight, Bisexual, Pansexual
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Highly creative, articulate, and sense-oriented person. Degree in fine art and sculpture and co-own a personal chef business. I can build a deck in the morning and plate food porn in the evening.

Intellect and a balanced sense of self are important. I would like to meet someone with a similar lifestyle. I take care of myself physically and mentally, but know when to indulge.

I like venues that are conducive to conversation and serve tasty things. I'm light hearted, and I think laughter is important to happiness. I have to be with someone who can have long intellectual conversations or make jokes about the absurdity of the world around them.

Highly social but introverted. I'm not great at small talk and like to go deep pretty quickly. I'm comfortable being both super active or being chill at home. I exercise (almost) every day (pull ups, dips, dancing, climbing, etc.). I enjoy hiking with my Boston Terrier, Zipper.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I co-own a personal chef business and have spent the last year upgrading it to the next level.
Painting when I have a spare moment.
Learning new things. I crave knowledge.
Working on my garden.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease.
Appreciating individuality/getting along with the other weird kids.
Making a tasty meal from random leftovers.
Climbing poles or trees or whatever is taller than me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, smile, or positive energy. Would rather have your opinion on this.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Though my taste in film has evolved, I can't help but name my childhood favorites: Princess Bride, Labyrinth, and The Goonies.

The City of Ember. I loved that it was a Sci-fi film focused on people rather than special effects. And Bill Murray was great.I lovedThe Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus. The Son of Rambow, Mary and Max, Pans Labyrinth, City of Lost Children, Ma Vie En Rose, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Short Bus, Delicatessen. The Birdcage, To Wong Foo..., The Adventures of Priscilla Queen of the Desert, The Crying Game, Orange is the New Black, Californication, Game of Thrones, Sense, EX Machina

If there are drag queens, samurai, cyborgs I want to see it.

David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Caro Emerald, The Prodigy, Lady Gaga, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Daft Punk, Fred Astaire, Smashing pumpkins, STP, Electro Swing, George Clinton, James Brown. I have diverse musical interests, it really just depends on my mood. Any thing that I can dance to.

I have a sweet tooth so desserts are great! Pies, cookies or chocolate.

As far as savory food, I like anything that is well prepared. I will try anything, really. I have not found an uni I liked yet, I still want to try it.

I go through phases where I am trying to get the process down for something. So I will go a week or two making hand made pasta or pizza or braising or what ever has caught my fancy. I am a personal chef so I spend the fast majority of my time cooking or thinking about food.

Cook books: Alfred Portale, Simple Pleasures, Jerusalem A Cook book, Eat this book by Tyler Florence, The Flavar Bible by

I love art books. In terms of fiction, I enjoy 70's science fiction such as Isaac Asimov and Robert A. Heinlein. Lately any thing about color, pigments and light for painters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
Zipper (my Boston Terrier, arguably the best dog in the world)
Creative outlets
Art supplies
A refrigerator and a good range. Seriously, you try living without these last two for a week.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Painting and Sculpture , light and color for painting (, architecture, interior design, Also how my skills as a sculptor have become useful when plating food at work.

What recipe from work I should make next, I think about this all the time because I work as a personal chef.

How the brain works and what creates chemistry between certain people. I'm curious about how relationships form and I enjoy figuring out what makes people tick. It seems many people generate opinions of people based on looks or other superficial factors, but I like to scratch the surface to see what's really there.

Often sitting in my hot tub with a cocktail I think about what the next stage of my garden is going to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends in my hot tub with a cocktail in my hand.

Hosting or attending a dinner party.

Seeing a movie with friends.

Getting dressed up and going to a costume party.


Game night

Reading about how light and color work and having my mind blown.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not looking for a hookup, I actually want to fall in love. Shhhhh don't tell anyone.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. don't take yourself very seriously and like meeting new people. are comfortable meeting face to face relatively quickly. I'm better with face to face contact than written communication, though I'm happy to make the effort. (I'm dyslexic so it does take some effort to write lengthy emails...) take an active interest in your own growth and evolution.
You are passionate and driven about something, it doesn't matter what. assert your strong opinions and are ok with me doing the same. I want an egalitarian relationship. approach new things with a sense of adventure and an open mind. consider the city (any major city) to be your permanent home. I love visiting the great outdoors, I just don't want to live there.