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34 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:23pm
Straight, Pansexual, Bisexual, Heteroflexible
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am curious, luckey I have nine lives.

I am gentleman, I open doors for people I don't even know.

I love to laugh. When given the option between, being serious and "sexy" I can't help but make a joke and be silly every time. I giggle when I am having a good time. I often put myself in stitches over a joke no one else gets and I am often funniest when I had no intention of being funny. In that way I am sort of like a cartoon character.

I am a highly creative, visual person. I have to keep my hands busy. I draw, paint, sculpt, cook, and am passionate about all forms of art.

This page looks like the following sentence, to me.
.cixelsyd yrev ma I ( I am very dyslexic.) So you will have to excuse any spelling mistakes.

I'm highly social and I love dynamic conversation. I'm not great at small talk; I like to go deep pretty quickly. Although I can come across as calm and relaxed, I have a lot of physical energy that I need to burn off through running, biking, dancing, climbing, etc. I'm not much of a conformist. I get a perverse joy out of the fact that people always think I am conservative even though it couldn't be further from the truth.

I love city life and having access to restaurants, cocktail bars (like Martuni's), stairway walks, and theater. I explore new things and places. I laugh out loud every time I crash my bicycle. I'm not sure why, but it's been that way every since I was a kid. I am adventurous and will try anything twice. I am looking for someone that can share these adventures with me, someone that is an explorer at heart.

I like venues that are conducive to conversation. I'm also very fun loving and I think laughter is important to happiness. I have to be with someone who can have long intellectual conversations and make jokes about the absurdity of the world around them. Intellect and a balanced sense of self are important to me. I exercise, eat right and take care of my mental health.

I love costume parties, climbing, food, and top hats. I like to dress up but most of the time wear comfortable clothing. Fashion is something I notice and think about.

I've had monogamous and non-monogamous long-term relationships, there where positives and negatives to both. These days. I am emotionally monogamous, but I need someone that is occasionally open to joining me on an adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I co-own a personal chef business and have spent the last year upgrading it to the next level. This had taken up a HUGE portion of my time of late. But it is going really well.
Painting when I have a spare moment.
Learning new things. I crave knowledge.
Working on my garden.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease.
Getting along with the other weird kids.
Cooking with those random bits left over from clients.
Climbing poles or trees or whatever is taller than me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am not really sure what people first notice about me. Maybe you can tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I almost always ship over this section of people's profiles because I'm happy to be introduced to new things and my tastes run eclectic. I don't like reading lists of music and shows ect.

Though my taste in film has evolved, I can't help but name my childhood favorites: Princess Bride, Labyrinth, and The Goonies.

The City of Ember. I loved that it was a Sci-fi film focused on people rather than special effects. And Bill Murray was great.I lovedThe Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus. The Son of Rambow, Mary and Max, Pans Labyrinth, City of Lost Children, Ma Vie En Rose, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Short Bus, Delicatessen. The Birdcage, To Wong Foo..., The Adventures of Priscilla Queen of the Desert, The Crying Game, Orange is the New Black, Californication, Game of Thrones,

David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Caro Emerald, The Prodigy, Lady Gaga, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Daft Punk, Fred Astaire, Smashing pumpkins, STP, Electro Swing, George Clinton, James Brown. I have diverse musical interests, it really just depends on my mood. Any thing that I can dance to.

I have a sweet tooth so desserts are great! Pies, cookies or chocolate.
As far as savory food, I like anything that is well prepared. I will try anything, really. I was at a Persian restaurant with a Persian friend and tried tongue, which was actually really yummy. I like most "ethnic" foods, Persian, Ethiopian, Cambodian, Moroccan. A friend of mine just went to Vietnam and ate Cobra and loved it. Now I can't wait to try it. I am usually poring over a cookbook or two so this changes too often to stay current. I go through phases where I am trying to get the process down for something. So I will go a week or two making hand made pasta or pizza or braising or what ever has caught my fancy.

Cook books: Alfred Portale, Simple Pleasures, Jerusalem A Cook book, Eat this book by Tyler Florence, The Flavar Bible.
I love art books. In terms of fiction, I enjoy 70's science fiction such as Isaac Asimov and Robert A. Heinlein. Lately any thing about color, pigments and light for painters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my Boston Terrier (Zipper), art supplies, a refrigerator and a good range. Seriously you try living without those last two for a week.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Painting and Sculpture , light and color for painting (, architecture, interior design, Also how my skills as a sculptor have become useful when plating food at work.

What recipe from work I should make next, I think about this all the time because I work as a personal chef.

How the brain works and what creates chemistry between certain people. I'm curious about how relationships form and I enjoy figuring out what makes people tick. It seems many people generate opinions of people based on looks or other superficial factors, but I like to scratch the surface to see what's really there.

While sitting in my hot tub I think about what the next stage of my garden is going to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends in my hot tub with a cocktail in my hand.

Hosting or attending a dinner party.

Seeing a movie with friends.

Getting dressed up and going to a costume party.


Game night

Reading about how light and color work and having my mind blown.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm the worst speller on the planet. Thanks dyslexia. :/
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. don't take yourself very seriously and like meeting new people. like to dress up (in costume or just in general.) want to go out for a drink. are comfortable meeting face to face relatively quickly. I'm better with face to face contact than written communication, though I'm happy to make the effort. (I'm dyslexic so it does take some effort to write lengthy emails...) take an active interest in your own growth and evolution.
You are passionate and driven about something, it doesn't matter what. assert your strong opinions and are ok with me doing the same. I want an egalitarian relationship. approach new things with a sense of adventure and an open mind. consider the city (any major city) to be your permanent home. I love visiting the great outdoors, I just don't want to live there.