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34 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 1
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a highly creative, visual person. I have to keep my hands busy. I draw, paint, sculpt, cook, and am passionate about all forms of art. Especially design. .cixelsyd yrev ma I (I am very dyslexic.)

I'm highly social and I love dynamic conversation. I'm not great at small talk; I like to go deep pretty quickly. Although I can come across as calm and relaxed, I have a lot of physical energy that I need to burn off through running, biking, dancing, climbing, etc. I'm not much of a conformist. I get a perverse joy out of the fact that people always think I am conservative even though it couldn't be further from the truth.

I love city life and having access to restaurants, cocktail bars (like Martuni's), stairway walks, and theater. I explore new things and places. I laugh out loud every time I crash my bicycle. I'm not sure why, but it's been that way every since I was a kid. I am adventurous and will try anything twice. I am looking for someone that can share these adventures with me, someone that is an explorer at heart.

I like venues that are conducive to conversation. I'm also very fun loving and I think laughter is important to happiness. I have to be with someone who can have long intellectual conversations and make jokes about the absurdity of the world around them. Intellect and a balanced sense of self are important to me. I exercise, eat right and take care of my mental health.

I love costume parties, climbing, food, and top hats. I like to dress up but most of the time wear comfortable clothing. Fashion is something I notice and think about.

I've had monogamous and non-monogamous long-term relationships, there where positives and negatives to both. I have had 3 long term relationships (1year plus) in my life and I maintain friendships with 2 of them.

I am curious, a gentleman, and love to laugh. I want to be with someone who makes be laugh and who I make laugh as well. I am a romantic an optimistic and I love life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making fine art sculpture.
Cooking for people who don't have time to cook but have money to spend on a personal chief.
Painting (digitally these days)
Meeting new people.
Finding a balance between making money and doing what I love.
Exploring this wonderful city
Learning new things. I crave knowledge.
Playing chess.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease.
Getting along with the other weird kids.
Making crepes and scones, from scratch. No boxes here!
Keeping my house plants alive.
Playing backgammon or chess.
Climbing poles or trees or whatever is taller than me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I just scampered up a tree on the sidewalk and my keen sense of fashion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I don't always read this section of people's profiles carefully because I'm happy to be introduced to new things and my tastes run eclectic.

Though my taste in film has evolved, I can't help but name my childhood favorites: Princess Bride, Labyrinth, and The Goonies.

The City of Ember. I loved that it was a Sci-fi film focused on people rather than special effects. And Bill Murray was great.I lovedThe Imaginarium of Doctor Parnassus. The Son of Rambow, Mary and Max, Pans Labyrinth, City of Lost Children, Ma Vie En Rose, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Short Bus, Delicatessen. The Birdcage, To Wong Foo..., The Adventures of Priscilla Queen of the Desert, The Crying Game, Orange is the New Black, Californication, Game of Thrones,

David Bowie, Iggy Pop, Caro Emerald, The Prodigy, Lady Gaga, Frank Sinatra, Ella Fitzgerald, Daft Punk, Fred Astaire, Smashing pumpkins, STP, Red Hot Chili Peppers. I have diverse musical interests, it really just depends on my mood. Any thing that I can dance to.

I have a sweet tooth so desserts are great! Pies, cookies or chocolate. As far as savory food, I like anything that is well prepared. I just discovered bone marrow, which was amazing. I really like roasted broccoli. I will try anything, really. I was at a Persian restaurant with a Persian friend and tried tongue, which was actually really yummy. I like most "ethnic" foods, Persian, Ethiopian, Cambodian, Moroccan. A friend of mine just went to Vietnam and ate Cobra and loved it. Now I can't wait to try it.

I bought a pizza stone, so I can make amazing pizza at home now. I just discovered Buffalo Mozzarella and have been enjoying that on my pizza lately.

I read a lot about marketing, business and finance lately, such as Guerilla Marketing, The Millionaire Next Door, Your Money or Your life and I'd Rather be in the Studio. Obviously I love art books. In terms of fiction, I enjoy 70's science fiction such as Isaac Asimov and Robert A. Heinlein. Lately any thing about color, pigments and light for painters.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends, my Boston Terrier (Zipper), art supplies, a refrigerator and a good range. Seriously you try living without those last two for a week.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sculpture ( my sculpture), light and color for painting (, architecture, interior design, Also how my skills as a sculptor have become useful when plating food at work.

What recipe from work I should make next, I think about this all the time because I work as a personal chef.

How the brain works and what creates chemistry between certain people. I'm curious about how relationships form and I enjoy figuring out what makes people tick. It seems many people generate opinions of people based on looks or other superficial factors, but I like to scratch the surface to see what's really there.

While sitting in my hot tub I think about when I will have time to finish the rest of my garden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends in my hot tub with a cocktail in my hand.

Hosting or attending a dinner party.

Seeing a movie with friends.

Getting dressed up and going to a costume party.


Game night

Working. Because I am a cook the weekend is the busiest part of my work week.

Reading about how light and color work and having my mind blown.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
(Cow) cheese makes me fart. (I'm lactose intolerant.) Luckily for you, I don't eat it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. don't take yourself very seriously and like meeting new people. like to dress up (in costume or just in general.) want to go out for a drink. are comfortable meeting face to face relatively quickly. I'm better with face to face contact than written communication, though I'm happy to make the effort. (I'm dyslexic so it does take some effort to write lengthy emails...) take an active interest in your own growth and evolution.
You are passionate and driven about something, it doesn't matter what. assert your strong opinions and are ok with me doing the same. I want an egalitarian relationship. approach new things with a sense of adventure and an open mind. consider the city (any major city) to be your permanent home. I love visiting the great outdoors, I just don't want to live there.