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31 M Berkeley, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:46am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay)

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My self-summary
I'm  Heteroflexible,  Polyamorous, and currently polyunsaturated

I'm partnered to an amazing woman, truly the love of my life.

I've only recently re-opened this profile. I enjoy browsing who's around, and am open to finding new friends-with-benefits, or new friends.

This greasemonkey script for OKC is great. Totally worth while. You should grab it.

I've been told by multiple people that I'm "the perfect balance of masculine and feminine", and I agree.

Balance would be a good keyword for me.

I can keep house like nobody's business, cook up a storm, and wield power tools to improve the place.
I'm an artist at heart: drawing, painting, but especially digital art is my favorite, and I'm of a logical mind enough to write software.
I'm dapper and appreciate the finery of life, and still strong and burly and will haul what's "heavy".
I can say I'm all that and a bag of chips, and still be humble about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Continuing the never ending path toward being a better version of myself.
Finding out about the strange loops in my own inner universe.
Living it on my terms.
I've figured out my magic, and am now consciously shaping the universe to my will. Its fun. You should try it if you haven't.
I’m really good at
Lifting things
Being snarky.
Creatively Organizing Chaos
Creatively Disrupting Order
...and everything else according to my partner.
The first things people usually notice about me
Quite definitively, it's the moustache. Or it was before I trimmed it. Seems EVERYONE misses that.

Now its either that I no longer am sporting the Van Dyk, or that I'm quite a bit more trim than I was last year this time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Ah yes the "Do we overlap in recreation?" section.

Really I enjoy a good read. I have a kindle. Its loaded with classics, and I really haven't been giving it enough use lately.

I don't watch a lot of movies. Though some have been must see's this year. I like animated films quite a lot. Not only entertaining, but I like studying the technical aspects.

Musically I enjoy many genres.
Though I have to say there is something about dirty, filthy, electro-house that just turns me on.

I'm particularly liking Blackmill, Beats Antique, Bonobo, Opuio, and Phaelah at the moment. I'm a longtime fan of BT, and it seems just about anything in the electronic dance music spectrum. Lots of crap in there too, but that's just the nature of creative pursuits.

Food. It's good for ya. I do enjoy cooking. Though I often find it more enjoyable to have someone on the receiving end of the effort. If nothing else, but for a second opinion. Honestly, if I'm into you, I'll make a point to cook for you. Its just my thing.
The six things I could never do without
Communication and devices for it. Love the wired life.
Exercise accessories (shoes, bike, weights.)
Deep Bass
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How each bit affects all the rest.
Its all tied together.

Why DI.Fm's Cosmic downtempo station plays Laurie Anderson every night between 130 and 3am. I suppose she fits that open sort of genre, but for the life of me I just can't get into her.
On a typical Friday night I am
Off with my partner to one of however many weekend parties and events.
I hit up MC at least once a month.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Pretty much all the normal "private" things are in here. If there's something you're curious about just ask. I'm pretty open.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Any of the following:
You're looking for a Friend, with or without benefits.
You're awesome.
You'd like to have some meaningful interaction with a well rounded human.