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34 M Modesto, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 14
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English, Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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My details name that I'm serious about Christianity. And I am, I guess, if "Christianity" means following in the way of Jesus--the way of being that's all about kindness, economic and social justice, relinquishing ego-stuff concerned with power, possessions, and dualism. I really love that stuff. But I'm also really inspired by Rumi, Shantideva, and the teachings in the Dhammapada.

I love photography, science, and theology--especially with a cup of tea and fellow friends.

That all sounds pretty heavy for a light guy like myself--I also dig dinosaurs (not literally), film scores, and the LEGO store.

(INFJ, Enneagram 1, Last Born)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently investing my life in some amazing young people who are keen on making this world a more awesome place.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Jurassic Park, A New Earth, Eat Pray Love, The Dhammapada, Richard Rohr's The Naked Now, Ishmael, Oriah's The Invitation, The Road Less Traveled, The Artist's Way, The Alchemist, Boy Meets Boy, Buddha is as Buddha Does, Grasshopper Jungle

Movies: The Fall, Jurassic Park, Lord of the Rings, Crazy Stupid Love, (500) Days of Summer, Howl's Moving Castle, The Never Ending Story, Harry Potter, Darby O'Gill and the Little People, The Gnome Mobile, The Lion King, The Incredibles

Music: Daft Punk, Paolo Nutini, Sigur Rós, M83, Lana Del Rey, Robyn, Rodrigo y Gabriela, The Everly Brothers
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Ocean, Waterfalls, Rivers
An inspiring book
Starbucks loitering
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future self, theology, the enneagram, what my dogs are dreaming about, plotlines to stories I want to write, what I'd make for dinner if I ever made it to the grocery store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Y'know what I find pretty exhausting? Maintaining appearances. Just when I think I've nailed it for the day, I'll discover some unibrow hair that I forgot to pluck or some new pimple saluting the world or that I forgot to moisturize sufficiently or that my cowlick is sticking up. Daunting. What a game, eh?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. know at least one Disney song by heart.

(Or you jive with anything I've posted above).