Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"Become Fearlessly and Fiercely Genuine."
It is a mantra and a direction for living a fulfilling life. Still
struggling to embody the unapologetic confidence needed to truly
channel those words.
With that in mind, I want more from a relationship than what I am
looking for. I'm looking for friendship, connection, sex. I'm not
looking too far into the future because the future will be created
through our time together.
That deep profound relationship I desire can only grow from the
here and now. So, let's enjoy the time we have together whether
it's a single night out for drinks, a day of hiking, or whatever
naturally grows from our personalities.
The moments together will always have a greater affect than any
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm looking for what I am ready for, Friendship, Connection, Sex. I
don't need all three but certainly want more of the first two in my
life as things naturally progress toward that deeper relationship
or just remain as an awesome friendship.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being honest. Even if I know it will hurt my standing, affect my
sex appeal, or dissipate my charm I'll still tell the truth. Even
here online where anonymity allows so many others to hide.
I'm also good at running away and avoiding my personal demons.
Usually I do that with the barbell and some heavy weights or,
lately, sitting down with the self help books exploring the
neglected inner self.
Edit; not reading as much as I have been putting thought into
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really am ridiculously good looking.
Wow, completely forgot I wrote that previous line. I really am more
humble than that. However, at the time I was feeling full if
So why don't I delete it? Because I desire my honesty and
genuineness to be seen. If not first then shortly afterward.
More seriously, some have told my smile and my laugh. Also, during
some particularly good conversations I may speak through something
of a growl.
I've been told the growling is a good thing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
You don't have to like the movie as much as I do but I don't know
if I can trust anyone who doesn't have a deep appreciation for 'I
Heart Huckabees'. Watch it if you haven't seen it before.
I mostly read non-fiction nowadays. Recently discovered David
Deida's 'Way of the Superior Man' and will continue to reread that
whenever my life focus waivers.
'Lord of the Flies', 'The Old Man and the Sea', and 'The Universe
is a Green Dragon' are also among the books I continue to reread at
least every year or two.
Just added 'The Little Prince' to the list. 'Siddhartha', 'Hamlet',
and 'The Fall' occupy the same bookshelf. Hmm...perhaps 'The
Handmaid's Tale' should be added as well...
My musical choices lean toward metal. Not the screamers but the
more symphonic artists. Something about screaming guitars and
cellos in harmony leaves me awestruck and smiling. Lately I have
been listening to the latest from Within Temptation, Kamelot, and
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
All you need is love love love. Love is all you need.
I need that and...
and a smart phone,
a pair of good running shoes,
a barbell and some bumper plates,
a trusted friend,
(or a Fox)
emotionally charged sex,
the ocean's waves,
and perhaps a couple Bettas to care for.
Oh, and someone willing to forgive my rule breaking.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How best to become the man I am meant to be and how to live such a
life without apology.
And how to conquer the world. Maybe just the world around me. Some
conquering needs to be done.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I tend to be a solitary creature. If I'm not going out with
specific plans in mind I end up wandering. When that happens I
usually wander into trouble.
Therefore, most of my Fridays nights are more meditative with just
me and the barbell and the challenge it presents.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a nice guy.
I'm a genuinely nice guy.
Not one of those guys who is only nice because he thinks he'll get
something from you.
I'm a genuinely nice guy who wants to grab a fistful of your hair,
yank your head back and slap your ass.
And now with that out of the way, please don't mistake me for being
just a nice guy. I am so much more.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You value eye contact. I recently learned how much I need eye
contact with the woman I am with.
You'd rather meet and do something, even if just a stroll through
the park, than just meet for drinks of some kind or another.
The high top table just isn't as kind to my style as the pool
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