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30 Succasunna, NJ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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Last online
Yesterday – 7:35pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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I'm a nerdy introvert that loves conversation and experiencing great things. I love art: specifically classical music & TV/film, but I also love a good football game. I enjoy intellectual pursuits, but I also have a low-brow sense of humor. I'm really into games (of the board and video, not dating variety!). I'm a TV and film buff, and part of me still sort of wants to run away to LA to try to become a writer.

Honesty time: right now I'm not looking for a serious relationship. I'd call what I'm looking for FWB, but that implies I only care about sex, which is not true. I want a friend, who I also happen to sleep with. We don't go on dates, but we do hang out at home, watch Netflix, order in, and maybe even go out to a movie. I also want this to be exclusive. Why do I want this right now? I'm temporarily living in NJ while I figure my life out. I'm applying to jobs outside of NJ and playing poker "professionally" for some income (along with my savings). I expect to still be in NJ for at least the next 3 months, but I could stay here completely. I should also point out that this could turn into a real relationship once my life stabilizes. I understand entirely that all of that might scare away most women. I'm looking forward to the day when I can return to the fold of "normal" dating. But in the meantime, if any of that made sense/appeals to you, message me!
What I’m doing with my life
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Living, one day at a time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV: Battlestar Galactica, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Person of Interest, House of Cards, Orphan Black, The Simpsons, South Park, Once Upon a Time, and too much else to list.

Movies: V for Vendetta, Man of Steel, The Dark Knight, Pan's Labyrinth, Superman, Star Wars Trilogy, all Indiana Jones, goofball and slapstick comedies like Clue, Spaceballs, Airplane, The Naked Gun, Ghostbusters, and too much else to list.

Music: TV & movie soundtracks, Brahms, Rachmaninov, Beethoven, the New York Philharmonic, Bear McCreary, Louis Armstrong, Classic jazz

Books: Everything written by Ayn Rand, Isaac Asimov, Robert Heinlein, science fiction short stories, the Sherlock Holmes' stories of Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

Food: Too much to list fully, but in a nutshell: Indian, Mediterranean, and Italian. Honorable mention to spinach, which is better than lettuce in every way.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Orchestral music (Some of the best moments of my life have been seeing the New York Philharmonic)
- Board games (I really like intellectual challenges and strategy)
- Lincoln Square IMAX theater (I love seeing movies, and this place is an experience)
- Stories that inspire and amaze me (I'm a TV & film buff)
- Someone to counterbalance my personality traits and push me out of my comfort zone.
- Nerds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. I'm very analytical (INTJ on the Myers-Briggs), so I'm constantly thinking about everything. It's a blessing and a curse.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- You like what you read
- You want to get a drink
- You want to marathon something fun with me
- Or, you want to run away somewhere exciting