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42 M Vancouver, British Columbia, CA

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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Manifest plainness,
Embrace simplicity,
Reduce selfishness,
Have few desires.


Atheist, vegan, and childfree. Still reading? Good for you! These labels describe me superficially, but are a result of how I have grown over a lifetime. I like to think I'm pretty smart; I'm also curious and analytical. That led me to question religious belief early on. I'm also deeply compassionate, which forms the basis of my ethics, and led me to veganism and living an environmentally conscious life. I have an appreciation for Stoic, Buddhist, and Taoist philosophy, and I believe in living simply and enjoying simple pleasures. I'm pretty pragmatic.

I'm looking for a woman who shares similar values, and who enjoys spending time out in nature for hiking, biking, watching animals, or just exploring, vegetarian dining, as well as curling up and watching good movies or TV at the end of the day. I like a woman who reads, who has opinions, and some skill or passion to share. I enjoy life on my own, but would love to meet my best friend and partner to share life with.
What I’m doing with my life
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Professionally, I provide freelance Macintosh support/consulting services to a variety of non-profit, small-business, and personal clients. I've built up a good reputation over the years and this keeps me busy at the moment. I am working on developing new lines of business on the side.

For fun, I like to get around on my bike, walk on trails/the seawall, or do moderate hiking, go swimming, check out galleries and museums. I really enjoy good movies and TV shows (especially sci-fi/fantasy), nature documentaries, and always have a book or two on the go. I'm working on getting into better shape. I enjoy camping and road trips. Board games.
I’m really good at
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Computer stuff: I've built PC's from scratch, know my way around UNIX, love Macs. I like home-improvement projects. I can make a nice stir-fry, tofu scramble, and vegan sushi rolls.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The dashing Jean-Luc Picard hairstyle.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Science fiction/fantasy (Iain M. Banks, Greg Egan, Terry Pratchett, Neil Gaiman, Frank Herbert, Tanith Lee, Tanya Huff), science (Dawkins, Diamond, Sagan etc.), history, simple living, veganism, environmentalism, zen philosophy/mindfulness.

Watching: Game of Thrones, Walking Dead, Homeland, Doctor Who
Loved: Buffy, Firefly, Battlestar Galactica, The Wire, Deadwood, Star Trek (TNG most of all)

I really enjoy political thrillers: Bourne trilogy, Lives of Others, All the President's Men, etc.

Pretty much anything by James Cameron, Ridley Scott, Steven Spielberg, Stanley Kubrick, Christopher Nolan.

Up. Wall-E. Lord of the Rings trilogy. The Professional. Alien & Aliens.

Nature documentaries (anything with/by David Attenborough), good (interesting & informative) political stuff.

Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac, Leonard Cohen
Bach, Beethoven, Vivaldi, Michael Nyman, Philip Glass
Loreena McKennitt, Mazzy Star, Portishead, Concrete Blonde, Sarah McLachlan, Enya
Sigur Ros, Joanna Newsom, Mumford & Sons, Gotye, Jose Gonzales, Alexi Murdoch, Moby

Vegan. Buddhist Chinese cuisine. Po Kong, 3G, Loving Hut, Nuba.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good books
Well made films/television
Natural beauty
Mac + Internet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Stuff I should be doing rather than what I am doing. "Never his mind on where he is."

Surviving the zombie apocalypse.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This blog makes me absurdly happy:
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