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NergeticImpulse

55 Albuquerque, NM Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 33–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Dec 18, 2013
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just read a great article on first dates with people one meets online. It appears in this week's New Yorker magazine. Check it out here: http://bit.ly/p2XKT7

Just read an article entitled "Is the Internet Ruining Love?" It analyzes the pro and con of online matchmaking. Here is the link--check it out: http://bit.ly/qVCxi1

What is the cause of the distress that most of us have in our intimate lives? Read my answer to this question below.

I'm looking for a congenial female with whom to share the good life--in real life (not online).

What does the good life mean for you?

For me, it means things like:

--Mutual compassion, comprehension and chemistry

--Similar worldview and outlooks on life

--Healthy disdain for our society's rampant throwaway materialism

--Healthy relationship with money, which includes an ability for conscious financial intimacy with a long-term life partner (also known as a pre-nup)

I'm following a friend's advice (who found love on OKCupid) and mostly focusing on answering a lot of questions in the hope that the proprietary matching algorithm will find congenial people for conversation, friendly get togethers, and if there is some chemistry, dating. I try to live very day as if it mint be my last. My finite life energy is a precious gift which I'm trying to be a good steward of.

In my workaday world, I spend a lot of time helping clients be more successful in their businesses. I only wish the dating world could be as easy. About the only thing I could offer at this point is that most of us contain all the rules for successful dating in our teens and twenties, but once into our middle years the developmental tasks change, so we need new ways to meet and greet people. These principles are emerging slowly, and so there is a lot of confusion out there. Good luck!
What I’m doing with my life
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Living every day to the max
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting people at ease
Entertaining friends
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Compassion
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Experimental theater
New Mexican cuisine
Anything by Stanley Kubrick
Kirtan
Julie Kristeva, Denise Levertov, Alice Walker
Gaza Flotilla
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Honesty
Communication
Friendship
Sun tea
Summer outdoor activities
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Communication and connection
Should I go back to graduate school and finish that dissertation?
Practicing gratitude every day

What is the cause of the distress that most of us have in our intimate lives? If you live your life genuinely, you're going to have your heart broken. (more below--keep reading...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Read my answers to the match questions
Finishing up my work week
Planning weekend activities
Looking at my mountain hiking maps
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I actually enjoy my own company a lot and don't suffer fools easily. I'm never bored. I enjoy eccentric people more than I enjoy run of the mill people. I dislike people who have done nothing but chase a fortune for themselves.

Not very private, is it?
You should message me if
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You would like to know a whole lot more about me since this is the shortest profile I have ever posted on a site like this. It is very vague...on purpose. I will tell you much more later.

You feel like getting to know me.

You're a sybaritic female with eco-sexual tendencies, seeking many giggle bytes of laughter, and able to share the interior affluence of the heart.

What is the cause of the distress that most of us have in our intimate lives?  Conflict and stress come from the problem of owning, acknowledging and accepting difference.  You have to recognize that you're really with another person, with her/his own subjectivity, values and peculiarities.  Difference is difficult.  Otherness sucks. (from a conversation I had with Harville Hendrix)