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Nerudajones

49 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 29–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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No time for false modesty so here it goes. I'm a handsome, intelligent, authentic, funny, quirky, soulful, artful, talkative black man. Chronologically 40something but my spirit sometimes hovers over 22 and at other times whirls around 82. Physically, appearance, mode of dress: mid-20's. 5'9" 185lbs. (Age is a state of mind.) When I have time, I write for my own pleasure and therapy and I make time for museums, coffee in public places, high and low culture and dancing til quarter to 3 (and sometimes afterwards.) Favorite sounds include Bruce, Miles, Prince, Coltrane, Armstrong, Ellington, Marvin, and much, much more. Most recent travel adventure included raving in the outskirts of Barcelona. Next adventure? Maybe you can help. You: have heard London Calling (the album), like black and white movies, can handle loud music, look great in a black cocktail dress, eat with your fingers, laugh out loud at inappropriate times, like PDA, and can stay up past 12am. Your race or mine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing for a living, dancing with myself, hanging on and in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Most recent great book: The Brief Wondrous Life of Oscar Wao,
All-time favorite TV drama: The Wire
All-time favorite TV comedy: Cheers
All-time favorite TV dramedy: Shameless
Two Favorite movies 2010: The Ghost Writer, Passing Strange
The six things I could never do without
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The music of my youth, the family I was born into, the family I've created, Savage Love, pork chops, my East Coast edge.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If you ask, I will tell.