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Nesjamag

29 M Gent, Belgium

My Details

Last Online
Aug 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Friends keep telling me I should try online dating to fix my absolutely hopeless love-life.

About me:
I have strong/unique opinions, ideas and views (always up for a good debate) that challenge and question the status quo. I'm quite sharp and curious/inquisitive. I can be melancholic sometimes (because: this world can be boring, ignorant and cruel). I like fun and thought-provoking, challenging ideas and things, there isn't nearly enough of that around. I'm possibly bipolar.

My good traits are my kindness, being laid-back, and being supportive, caring, and understanding.

I enjoy exploring new things and getting out there in the world (this doesn't mean polluting the fuck out of this planet by taking trips everywhere).

I couldn't care less about having trophy-girlfriends or taking part in the cultural nonsense of settling, civil obedience and never questioning anything about life or this world/society again.

Deep connection, togetherness and intimacy are important to me. Being able to "just be" with someone is what I want. To be able to feel not alone in this world no matter what happens. The empty nonsense of materialism and status I can only laugh at, hard.
I really enjoy indulging in fantasy, talking about and sharing thoughts, dreams, and feelings.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Searching for meaning. I'm always in search of meaning and personal growth is infinitely more important to me than status or material success.
Research, figuring out how to live sustainable
(Self)studying
Online courses
Some volunteering
Some writing, I just started a blog, but I don't intend to write often, only when I have something interesting to tell/share
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the hidden, imagining the unimaginable.
Coming up with creative and uncommon ideas/perspectives that challenge the status quo. :)
Seeing things from multiple perspectives.
Deep conversations.
Mindfulness
Applying this guide. It's useful.

Listening, accepting, understanding and not judging: probably my best traits.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Gait, eyes, kind, smart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'll like a book if it can inspire me somehow or move me.
Thinking, fast and slow - Daniel Kahneman
Non-fiction books mostly.

Movies:
Inception, Good Will Hunting, Donnie Darko, Oblivion, Gattaca, Matrix, Amélie Poulain, Equilibrium, ...
I quite like sci-fi, but in general it's the same as with books. If it can inspire me, get my imagination going or move me I'll like it.

Shows:
True Detective, House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Hemlock Grove, Homeland, Continuum, Person of Interest, Star Trek

Music: All sorts, find out yourself http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=FL2BGAcezQKYbvD56Xd7VQSg

Food: no real preference. As almost all humans I really like chocolate :p
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom to explore and grow in life, to find meaning
Intimacy/affection/love
Meaningful conversation
Imagination
Openness and kindness
Connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why things are the way they are, how things work, what that means, etc...

How the world could be better. The potential of humans and humanity. Progress. Transhumanism, posthumanism. Robots. Language. AI.
Also all sorts of abstract, theoretical, nerdy things. :p

Existence, meaning, essence.
Interpersonal stuff. Intrapersonal stuff, introspection.
I really enjoy thinking about how humans and the mind works, basically cognition in the broad sense.

Psychology, neuroscience, cognitive science, society, philosophy, ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows.
I don't have schedules and all that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
From time to time I think about something like this.

I'm a secret open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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You're someone who likes experiencing new perspectives. Someone who is aware of this world and what goes on in it. Who sees through the meaninglessness of merely acquiring things, settling and reproducing without ever asking bigger questions or seeking personal growth.
Someone who wants more meaning than that.

I don't care about your origin, wealth, status, success or lack thereof, what you look like or how pretty you are, if you're calm or wild, how boring or impressive the things you've done are ... I'm interested in a person as they are, their essence. I want someone to be their own real self (with flaws, imperfections, odd traits, ...).