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Nesjamag

29 M Gent, Belgium

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:49am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
Body Type
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Open-minded, progressive, laid back, and kind.
Calm, rational, controlled, and succinct on the outside. Warm, caring, fervent, and exposed on the inside.
I have tons of interests. I'm a bit (or a lot) geeky sometimes and sort of a misfit. I'm always in search of meaning and personal growth is infinitely more important to me than material success.

I'm not easily scared off or impressed. I have strong/unique opinions, ideas and views (always up for a good debate) that challenge and question status quo. I'm quite sharp and curious/inquisitive, but kind and respectful (I'll always respect someone's boundaries and feelings), and trustworthy. I can be melancholic sometimes (because: this world can be boring, ignorant and cruel). I need fun, I like thought-provoking and challenging ideas and things, there isn't nearly enough of that around.

Sometimes I really feel like spoiling someone with lots of attention, affection and love.
Being kind to me makes a huge impression. Being able to understand me as well. Connection is very important to me.
I can be somewhat reserved/hesitant at first, but depending on how well I know someone or how comfortable I feel around them I can be quite witty and playful. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Searching for meaning. I'm always in search of meaning and personal growth is infinitely more important to me than status or material success.
Research, figuring out how to live sustainable
(Self)studying
Online courses
Some volunteering
Some writing, I just started a blog, but I don't intend to write often, only when I have something interesting to share.
I’m really good at
Seeing the hidden, imagining the unimaginable.
Coming up with creative and uncommon ideas/perspectives that challenge the status quo. :)
Seeing things from multiple perspectives.
Deep conversations.
Relaxing.

Listening, accepting, understanding and not judging: probably my best traits.
The first things people usually notice about me
Gait (definite/confident I've been told), eyes, mysterious (this surprised me), kind, smart.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I'll like a book if it can inspire me somehow or move me.
Thinking, fast and slow - Daniel Kahneman
Non-fiction books about technology, science and business.

Movies:
Inception, Hunger Games, Good Will Hunting, Donnie Darko, Oblivion, Gattaca, Matrix, Amélie Poulain, Equilibrium, ...
I quite like sci-fi, but in general it's the same as with books. If it can inspire me, get my imagination going or move me I'll like it.

Shows:
True Detective, House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Hemlock Grove, Homeland, Continuum, Person of Interest, Star Trek

Music: All sorts, find out yourself http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=FL2BGAcezQKYbvD56Xd7VQSg

Food: no real preference. As almost all humans I really like chocolate :p I'm a flexitarian. I don't eat much meat (once or twice a week at most).
The six things I could never do without
Freedom to explore and grow in life, to find meaning
Intimacy/affection/love
Deep meaningful conversation
Imagination
Openness and kindness
Connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why things are the way they are, how things work, what that means, etc...

How the world could be better. The potential of humans and humanity. Progress. Transhumanism, posthumanism. Robots. Language. AI.
Also all sorts of abstract, theoretical, nerdy things. :p
Stuff that interests me.
Existence, meaning, essence.
Interpersonal stuff. Intrapersonal stuff, introspection.
I really enjoy thinking about how humans and the mind works, basically cognition in the broad sense.

Psychology, neuroscience, philosophy and even occultism (I'm not really spiritual though, I just like to explore many sources and perspectives).
On a typical Friday night I am
Surfing, watching a movie, out with friends, out for drinks, out to dance, who knows ...
I don't have schedules and all that.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
From time to time I think about something like this.

I'm a secret open book.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You live near me and would like to find someone to have deep/meaningful conversations with in cozy settings.
Or watch documentaries together, or go to lectures/readings, and than talk about and analyze them. :p

You want more, you want different, you want a place where any thoughts and dreams you have are allowed and listened to, you want to just be.

I don't care about your origin, wealth, status, success or lack thereof, what you look like or how pretty you are, if you're calm or wild, gentle or rough, how boring or impressive you or the things you've done are ... I'm interested in a person as they are, their essence. I want someone to be their own real self (with flaws, imperfections, odd traits, ...).

I'm sometimes/often busy, so if you'd like to know me better you should just let me know by sending me a message. I'll always reply as soon as I can (which may take a few days depending how busy or inspired I feel). I won't ignore anything and will really appreciate your message. Thx! :)