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29 Gent, Belgium Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last Online
Yesterday – 1:50pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I think I have an absolutely hopeless love life, but friends tell me I should at least try and be open to the possibility of good relationships. I value other's their opinions and advice (and than make my own decision :p), so here I am.

I have strong/unique opinions, ideas and views (always up for a good debate) that challenge and question the status quo. I'm quite sharp and curious/inquisitive. I can be melancholic sometimes (because: this world can be boring, ignorant and cruel). I like fun and thought-provoking, challenging ideas and things, there isn't nearly enough of that around.
I'm not easily shocked or impressed (pretty much never actually) and that's totally ok. I don't have a need for them.

My good traits are my kindness, being laid-back, loyal, supportive, and understanding. I'm very gentle and have a calm nature.

I enjoy exploring new things and getting out there in the world. This doesn't mean polluting the fuck out of this planet by taking trips everywhere (no, I won't judge you for doing so).

I couldn't care less about having trophy-girlfriends or taking part in the cultural nonsense of settling, civil obedience and never questioning anything about life or this world/society again. I also have absolutely no interest in casual sex or casual relationships.

Deep connection, togetherness and intimacy are important to me. To be able to feel not alone in this world no matter what. I do not form connections like this with just anyone.
I really enjoy indulging in fantasy, talking about and sharing thoughts, dreams, and feelings.
If any of these things are missing I won't be interested. I wonder if they're even attainable and whether or not I should just accept they aren't.
What I’m doing with my life
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Searching for meaning. I'm always in search of meaning and personal growth is infinitely more important to me than status or material success.
Research, figuring out how to live sustainable
Online courses
Some volunteering
Some writing, I just started a blog, but I don't intend to write often, only when I have something interesting to tell/share

I can not find a job for the life of me (meaning a job that wouldn't kill me). So I do volunteering things in which I find the sense of purpose and challenge I need, while bettering the world in whatever (small or big) way possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the hidden, imagining the unimaginable.
Coming up with creative and uncommon ideas/perspectives that challenge the status quo. :)
Seeing things from multiple perspectives.
Deep conversations.
Applying this guide. It's useful.

Listening, accepting, understanding and not judging: probably my best traits.

Humor. I have a good sense of humor. I rarely take anything really serious. It's the playful nature. My humor can be described as quite dry, sarcastic, to even cynical. I can appear quite serious while I'm actually being humoristic or feeling so inside.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Gait, eyes. That I'm kind, gentle/soft, smart, imaginative.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I'll like a book if it can inspire me somehow or move me.
Thinking, fast and slow - Daniel Kahneman
Non-fiction books mostly.

Inception, Good Will Hunting, Donnie Darko, Oblivion, Gattaca, Matrix, Amélie Poulain, Equilibrium, ...
I quite like sci-fi, but in general it's the same as with books. If it can inspire me, get my imagination going or move me I'll like it.

True Detective, House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Hemlock Grove, Homeland, Continuum, Person of Interest, Star Trek

Music: All sorts, find out yourself

Food: no real preference. As almost all humans I really like chocolate :p
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freedom to explore and grow in life, to find meaning
Meaningful conversation
Openness and kindness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why things are the way they are, how things work, what that means, etc...

How the world could be better. The potential of humans and humanity. Progress. Transhumanism, posthumanism. Robots. Language. AI.
Also all sorts of abstract, theoretical, nerdy things. :p

Existence, meaning, essence.
Interpersonal stuff. Intrapersonal stuff, introspection.
I really enjoy thinking about how humans and the mind works, basically cognition in the broad sense.

Psychology, neuroscience, cognitive science, society, philosophy, ...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing typical things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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From time to time I think about something like this.

I'm a secret open book.
I can be open, but I only share as much as I feel someone else can handle, either emotionally or intellectually.
I'm really quite sensitive, regardless how rational or stoic I can appear sometimes. It just takes time, or something else, for me to feel comfortable enough to show that side of me.
You should message me if
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You're someone who likes experiencing new perspectives. Someone who is aware of this world and what goes on in it. Who sees through the meaninglessness of merely acquiring things, settling and reproducing without ever asking bigger questions or seeking personal growth.
I like dreamers, visionaries, and rationals.

I don't care about your origin, wealth, status, success or lack thereof, what you look like or how pretty you are, if you're calm or wild, how boring or impressive the things you've done are ... I'm interested in a person as they are, their essence. I want someone to be their own real self (with flaws, imperfections, odd traits, ...).

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