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40 M South San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:21am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm bookish, geeky, and a solid dreamer who somehow managed to stumble through life. I'm a contradiction who by day likes to create and daydream, then read or watch bad romances by night. I like to write short fiction, meditate, do yoga, tattoo, take photos, draw, paint and fold paper. I workout regularly, crack bad jokes, make deserts and pretty much just make a nuisance of myself.
What I’m doing with my life
I spent most of my youthful years between warm-hearted New York winters and Seattle's sticky summers. I've been a San Franciscan since '98, but now representing for Santa Clara.

I'm looking for a partner to have a few milk teas at tapioca express, talk about anime, music and books, check out interesting eateries, be weird around each other and learn how to tango and anything else that might seem fun.
I’m really good at
Saying awkward things, tripping on cracks and making people laugh. Oh, and putting my foot in my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: musashi, a song of ice and fire (Game of thrones), shadow of the wind, how to books, the phantom, sacred books, sutras, books by charles luk, the bronte sisters, anne rice, china mieville, erotic short story compilations, etc...

Music: northern soul, dream pop, hardcore, punk, emo, ambient, 6t's, 7d's, 8t's 9d's, mod, smiths, cocteau twins (My all time favorite for all seasons), imogen heap, Hope Sandoval, Metric, Tashaki Miyaki, Cocksparrer, Morrissey, the Cure, Joanna Wang, daft punk, ect...

Movies/shows: once upon a time, how I met your mother, supernatural, fringe, grimm, hannibal, ted, and of course, anime.
The six things I could never do without
Meditation, food, music, the echo of laughter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
making dreams become reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical? Hmmm.... I'm not sure.
After work, workout, meet-up, a little dinner, catch a show, go to the cinema, dancing, walking, talking... who knows. Or maybe just stay home, make food and throw endearing words at one another.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you like laughing and moments of shared awkwardness.
You have common interests. Even if you don't and you'd like to meet someone different from yourself, or we just happen to be age old enemies from a distant lifetime--contact me. At the very least you'll have made a new friend.

I need to say this.

If you have a problem with trust, being vulnerable, is always suspicious, mean to strangers and animals, cannot make compromises, have an Asian fetish, dependant on drugs, you want everything but give nothing, or your business relations, friends and family can dictate who you love or discard, or you have no time or the wish to build a meaningful relationship, please don't contact me. We've already met a million times. Thanks, but you're not the one i want.

...short, awkward, funny, otherworldly. My cherished friend.

I'll see you soon.