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  • Ages 18–88
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:12pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm just a mean ol' tattoo guy who likes to drink and throw out vulgar one-liners. I write, meditate, do yoga, tattoo, take photos, draw, paint and fold paper. I workout, crack bad jokes, make deserts and pretty much just make a nuisance of myself.

I'm a professional candy maker and tattoo at my shop in SSF and also do demolition and remodeling on the side. I used to work as a coordinator for a non-profit that supported socially engaged Buddhism, more specifically, worked towards dismantling the prison industrial complex.

I love taking long drives to anywhere or a place called no where and read books-- not while driving.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent most of my youthful years between the warm-hearted New York winters and Seattle's sticky summers. I've been a San Franciscan since '98.

I'm looking for a partner to have a few drinks with, run amuck, talk about politics, movies, music and books, check out interesting events, be weird around each other and learn how to tango, rob banks (or rob banks while tango-ing) and anything else that might seem fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying and doing awkward things, tripping on cracks and making people laugh. Oh, and putting my foot in my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My clumsiness.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Musashi, A Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones), Shadow of the Wind, how-to-books, the Phantom (by Susan Kay), Perdido Street Station, sacred esoteric tomes, buddhist sutras, books by Charles Luk, the Bronte sisters, Maxine Kingston Hong, Anne Rice, China Mieville, pen and paper RPG books, erotic short story compilations, etc...

Music: northern soul, dream pop, mando/canto-pop, J-Pop, NYC hardcore, punk, new wave, Dark Wave, emo, ambient, 6t's, 7d's, 8t's 9d's, mod, the Smiths, Lana Del Rey, Camera Obscura, Cocteau Twins, Imogen Heap, Hope Sandoval, The Banshees, Marina and the Diamonds, Metric, Tashaki Miyaki, Cocksparrer, Morrissey, the Cure, Joanna Wang, Faye Wong, the Shirelles, Blondie, Depeche Mode, New Order, The Jam, Madness, Julee Cruise, ect...

Movies: Let the Right One In, Her, Lucy, Ted, Step Brothers, Blades of Glory, etc...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Meditation, booze, music, pen, paper, an opinionated friend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Walking or biking around the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at the shop, drawing, writing, choppin' it up, having a few shots of whiskey with my workmates or breaking people out of old folks homes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit anything... er... Mostly.
You should message me if
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You're short, awkward, funny and otherworldly.