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38 South San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 8:54am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Mostly monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Korean (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I write, tattoo, take photos, draw, paint and fold paper, workout, crack bad jokes, make deserts and pretty much just make a nuisance of myself.

I'm a professional candymaker/chocolatier by day and a tattooist by night and also do demolition and remodeling on the side. I used to work as a coordinator for a non-profit that supported socially engaged Buddhism, more specifically, worked towards dismantling the prison industrial complex.

I love taking long drives to anywhere or a place called no where and read books-- not while driving though.

I'm just looking for someone to have a few drinks with, some conversation and to see where things go from there. Sometimes it's not about who you can get in the sack, but who you get to know... There's a lot of people out there looking to connect-- I'm not saying a night of bliss isn't blissful, but connecting on other levels is bliss in more ways.
What I’m doing with my life
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I spent most of my youthful years between the warm-hearted New York winters and Seattle's sticky summers. I've been a San Franciscan since '98.

I'm looking for a partner to have a few drinks with, run amuck, watch movies, listen to music and talk about books, check out interesting events, be weird around each other and learn how to tango, rob banks (or rob banks while tango-ing) and anything else that might seem fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying and doing awkward things, tripping on cracks and putting my foot in my mouth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Don't know... Maybe my tattoos?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Musashi, A Song of Ice and Fire series, Shadow of the Wind, "how-to-books", the Phantom (by Susan Kay), Perdido Street Station, sacred esoteric tomes, books by Charles Luk, the Bronte sisters, Maxine Kingston Hong, Anne Rice, China Mieville, pen and paper RPG books, graphic novels, erotic short story compilations, etc...

Music: northern soul, dream pop, mando/canto-pop, J-Pop, NYC hardcore, punk, new wave, Dark Wave, emo, ambient, Girl group, 6t's, 7d's, 8t's 9d's, mod, the Smiths, Lana Del Rey, Camera Obscura, Cocteau Twins, Imogen Heap, Hope Sandoval, The Banshees, Marina and the Diamonds, Metric, Tashaki Miyaki, Cocksparrer, Morrissey, the Cure, Joanna Wang, Faye Wong, the Shirelles, Blondie, Depeche Mode, New Order, The Jam, Madness, Julee Cruise, ect...

Movies: Amélie, Let the Right One In, Her, Lucy, Ted, Step Brothers, Blades of Glory, etc...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Booze, music, pen, paper, the moon and an opinionated friend.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Walking or biking around the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sitting at the shop or in my office--drawing, writing, choppin' it up with long lost friends, having a few shots or a glass of wine, watching movies or breaking people out of old folks homes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm willing to admit anything... er... Mostly.
You should message me if
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You're short, awkward, funny and otherworldly.