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40 Meriden, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Jun 10
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Seeing Someone
Doesn’t have kids
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Wow. I'm really terrible at this. There is nothing like having a blank box to lend a kind of neurotic inner dialog. If I say something positive about myself, does it make me narcissistic and self-aggrandizing? If I say something negative, does it present a picture of someone self-effacing and lacking in confidence? And if I say nothing? Then I suppose I forfeit all claims to any expectations.

Anyhow, here goes...

I am -- Overeducated, underambitious, a malcontent, an iconoclast, a poet, a storyteller, a philosopher, a student, a writer, an artist, and to some, a freak. Get to know me, and judge for yourself.

I am aberrant, shamanic, and not a shmoo
What I’m doing with my life
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Working too much and taking it too seriously at times. I'd rather be playing too many Tabletop RPGs and Video Games. Returning to school also is under consideration.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Joking, Making People Laugh, Writing, Being an Asshole, Sarcasm, Martial Arts, Finding Odd-Cool-Disturbing Music, Reading, Cooking, Fracking Things Up, Game Design, and Drinking Too Much Coffee.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a big guy -- yes, that means both quite overweight AND burly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything by Philip K. Dick or H.P. Lovecraft, Lavondyss (Robert Holdstock), Dune (Frank Herbert), Snow Crash (Neal Stephenson), Hardwired and Voice of the Whirlwind (Walter Jon Williams), Most anything by Neil Gaiman -- especially American Gods and Neverwhere, The Club Dumas (Arturo Perez-Reverte), Thus Spoke Zarathustra (Friedrich Nietzsche), Notes From Underground (Dostoevsky), Junky, My Education, and Ghost of Chance by William Burroughs.

Comics: I'm a sucker for a good comic or graphic novel. My favorites are: Sin City (loved the movie, too), V for Vendetta (hated the movie), 100 Bullets, Sandman, Mage, Usagi Yojimbo, and Squee.

Plays: Anything by George Bernard Shaw (but especially Heartbreak House and Major Barbara). That said, my very favorite play is Peter Shaffer's Equus.

Movies: City of Lost Children, They Live, Videodrome, Repoman, Amelie, Donnie Darko, The Big Lebowski

Music: Therion, Fields of the Nephilim, Diary of Dreams, Draconian, Tristania, Sisters of Mercy, Dead Can Dance, Project Pitchfork, Faith and the Muse, Skinny Puppy, Legendary Pink Dots, Tear Garden, Opeth, New Model Army, Corvus Corax, Nightwish, Suicide Commando, Gothminister, Covenant, Sirenia, Gary Numan, Tom Waits, Amorphis

Or you can just check out my LastFM Profile:

Foods: Indian, Thai, Chinese Takeout, Greasy Bacon Cheeseburgers with a Mighty Mountain of Onions, Fresh Fruit
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cold Water... Hot Tea... Creative Outlets for my Imagination... Internet Access (I'm a total net-junkie)... New Information... Bacon.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Death and the nature of Existence, Food, Tattoos, Thought Itself
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a game, listening to music, reading a book, watching too many TV shows on Netflix, or driving around with no place in particular to go. Sometimes more than one at a time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I own a clown wig and I'm not afraid to use it.


I'm something less than skilled at starting random conversations with people online. Indeed, my lack of skill lurks at the threshold between merely pitiful and legendarily craptastic. So if there is something you want to know about me, go ahead and ask.
You should message me if
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You friggin feel like it. Seriously. I'm likely to keep stalking your profile while I contemplate something to say, and never actually send anything despite how much I may want to.

You should NOT message me if you have a problem with fat/overweight people. We can avoid any conflict this way.